Family - November 2007

we had an arguments with my mom, a really big misunderstanding, these passing nights, they got quarreI with my father,there where shouting each other and throwing things. so me, the eldest child try to stop them but nothing had happened. What I did was to took the kitchen knife and act like a criminal and about to stub her. coz i thought she will be leaving all of us & divorce my father. i was being conscience to what i have done coz she's crying and can never believe why i did it to her.So what i'm i gonna do, telI me what to do? Ive say sorry to her through phone but when we faced in personal, what she did is (dead-ma) feels like im invisible..GOD help me.. Im sorry for what Ive done.

2007-11-16 19:39:11 · 3 answers · asked by jojo 2

just a survey please....i really need this for study sumthing...

2007-11-16 19:36:26 · 36 answers · asked by Sarah Michelle 2

I recently lost my aunt and i'm looking for some quotes, not dwelling on her death but to remind my cousins and my uncle the importance of family. Something more celebratory than depressing. can anyone help?

2007-11-16 19:05:24 · 2 answers · asked by kbelle77 2

I raised my son till he was about nine. his mother and I dont talk at all. they moved to another city. and three years later....
I get an email from him . so we corresponded a few times... then nothing for three months. how do i approach this situation? I dont know what to say.....
I WOuld like to get to know him. how do I give a good impression and break the ice? he's 15,

2007-11-16 17:57:28 · 3 answers · asked by well? 1

We always fight over petty matters and we even slap each other sometime.. i dont know why i cant cope with him. We do not live together and for the time being he is on holidays for 6 months and we keep on fighting. I want to stop all this i feel suffocated and dont know what to do it is only with him that i have these fights and no one else in my family including my sister and friends.

2007-11-16 16:45:44 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 1

Well she thinks she owns me. She tries and decides for me ALL the time and she contently makes me feel like a failure to life. She's not independent at all she listens to her friends when it comes to me kind of like gossiping. How can I tell her to just knock it off basically?

2007-11-16 16:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is a middle child and has always been the biggest trouble maker out of the three of us. He is 19 and began to drink when he went to college. but this scares me because when he drinks he gets as drunk as possible to the point where he cant even control himself and like pees his pants. I also know he does weed and think that maybe he might do coke but im not sure.. i dont even want to know because it scares me to death..what can i do to help him if he doesnt even know he has a problem? we arent that close so its really hard but i still love him and it hurts me to see him like this.. HELPP

2007-11-16 16:03:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

a time of transition for her>>>but then she just got more and more disrespctful not just to me but her father as well>>she very very pretty (pagent pretty) but dosent get along with any one shes always getting into fights with other girls even other members of the family(fist fights) I dint understand her whole attitude she wanted to come back here we did'nt make her>and then to top it off her dad has'nt followed thru with not allowing her to talk and act disrespecful in the house>>i'm so frustrated with the situation I've completly with drew from dealing with her at all I dont even talk to her, I dont think i should have to live in my own house that I help provied for her as well as other stuff like medical ins dental ins ETC and her be so disrespectful to me> well there it is folks :) I look forward to any input you can give if you need more clarifacation just ask. much thanks!!!!

2007-11-16 16:03:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well heres the story>My husbend and I have been married 12 yrs, when my daughter"step child" came to live with us she was 4.5 and we had been married for about 1-2yrs her mother had just had a new baby and just decided one day that she could'nt handle her and had her and her stuff dropped off.. My husbend works alot of hrs so alot of the preantal stuff I took care of I.e>school doctors appt ETC>she and I grew to have a good relationship even though her Mom always would tell her that she did'nt have to listin to me>>her would go months w/o calling or seeing her as she got older she even asked if she could call me MAMA, I sat with her and explianed to her what an honor it would be BUT I knew her mommie loved her very much and one day things would be much different for them, well that day came when she was about 12 (she's now 16) she wanted to try living with her mommie so we let her go>>that fell throuh about a year ago and she came back to live with us>>I know it was hard for her there

2007-11-16 15:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 21 year old female and I am on a break with my b/f that I have been with for a few years and he has been the only guy EVER i have been with, period. I met another guy who is older than me and we both like each other. I have already told my b/f that I wanted to have fun right now just to make sure I am making the right decision and he was ok with it. I just feel that if I dont see other guys now and see what other guys are like... then it would turn bad if I got married to my b/f. Well I have been talking to this older guy and we haven't been out together yet but are going to next week. We have talked on the phone for hours and I really like him and I can't eat and all I do is think about this other guy. I dont know if its like pre-love sick type of emotions or what.. or maybe its the excitement I am feeling. What do you think?

2007-11-16 15:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has very protective parents. She's 19 and although over legal age, still gets her parents permission for everything she does. My fiance and myself are going to Thailand and we want her to come with us and another friend. We're all convinced that her parents wont let her. I understand they want to protect their daughter but she needs to have some freedom and room to make her own choices. We've tried the whole "I'm 19, I'm an adult and I'm old enough", it doesn't work. What can she do and how can I make sure that by trying to help her I'm not hurting her feelings?? The last thing I want to do is upset her.

2007-11-16 15:22:36 · 5 answers · asked by ~(Tinker) Belle~ 3

My fiance and I have decided to move back to my hometown in the minnesota from where we live now in CA (where my fiance's from) We've just had enough of the traffic and people and its really starting to effect our quality of life. We're both looking forward to a smaller town. the only problem is my soon to be father in law is less than excited that we're moving back to my hometown. He doesn't seem mad that we're moving in general, just that we've chosen to move back to where I'm from. Are there any suggetions on how to convince him that this is a good move for us? We are adults (25) and will move regardless but we would like to have his approval. Any suggestions?

2007-11-16 15:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like my sister and I are slowly drifting apart. We have always had opposite personalities (my sister is the liberated party girl and I am the responsible goody-goody). We have had fights before, but recently our arguments seem to be getting serious. Sometimes I wonder if it is because I am jealous? Sometimes I blame it on the fact that some personalities really just do not jive. (For example, I hate how she flirts with guys all the time and brags about her many friends. She hates how I follow the rules and am just too conservative) Tough, huh? Sometimes I can't even stand looking at her. I dont know if I am mostly mad at her or jealous? I tried ignoring her, and maintaining the minimum amount of conversation. I felt that by doing that, I will be decreasing the possibility of engaging in another argument. I feel that our relationship is going nowhere - and fast. The thing is, its hard to be this way since we live in the same house.

2007-11-16 15:12:24 · 9 answers · asked by ParisLiz 1

I am a single mom with 3 boys who fathers do not have time 4 them. 2 by the same person.

2007-11-16 15:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by alwaystheone_4_u@sbcglobal.net 1

i went to work for my dad and his gf ! they own a small business the whole idea was to learn the stuff and take over from them. but when i was there they never gave me anything to do and my dads gf used to have a go at me for silly things. because i have always lived with my mom i was unsure on how to talk to them as they are strangers to me, they used to send me to my dads gf duaghters business and do work for her and she never spoke to me. i left and got upset eventually because my dads gf had a go at a worker and i smiled and she swore at me and told me to stop laughing. now my sister who worked there aswell is on twice the pay we both got and is learning everything . am i being silly by this making me upset??? i love my sister and i am not jealous because she deserves everything she gets i just feel like they have done it on purpose to get at me.

2007-11-16 14:59:55 · 2 answers · asked by betty b 1

I have a cousin who is having a hard time supporting her family right now. She and her husband are both working but their bills are starting to pile up. Does anyone know about any government assistance programs to help pay bills?

2007-11-16 14:44:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately, my brother has been making my mother so stressed out. My mother has a small case of depression, and my bro isn't helping things out. It has become a part of his habit to tell her everyday that he hates her and wishes she would die. If she doesn't get what he wants, he just explodes and starts saying cruel things. He also gets angry if my mother doesn't make him something to eat-something as simple as a sandwhich, waffles, or even cereal. My mother always gives in, even when I tell her not to. She spoils him with mcdonalds once a week, thus resulting in him getting mad when she doesn't buy him it. Then there are times when my mother takes her sleeping pills (with her beer) and he argues with her about something. Never disturb her when she's drunk or takes her pills. Beer makes her overly emotional and pills makes her umm... Sleepy and wishing to be unbothered? What can I do with this situation. My mother doesn't want to listen to my words. She just walks out. :-(

2007-11-16 14:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ra Miew 2

try to guess the name os my mom and my father... who answer correctly will win a kiss, virtual kiss

2007-11-16 14:06:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i tried to call my husband and a woman answered the phone - so I yell "who is this?" and she says "well whom are you calling?" i yell again "who is this?! then hang up the phone so furious. i then look at the display and see that i didnt call my husbands cell phone - i dialed my mother in law!!! so i am totally embarassed and dont know if i should call and explain - it is possible she didnt even know it was me (no caller id). my sister in law thinks i should table it for now and we will discuss it one day when we all have a few glasses of wine. i feel terrible - she may know it was me. i dont know if i should purge my secret or not. What should I do??????
PS - i love my mother in law to pieces - we get along great

2007-11-16 12:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by his temptress 5

2007-11-16 11:52:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

which is the best being a mother or like friends ?

2007-11-16 10:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by \ 5

i said yes i was and she asked her dad the same thing , has your kids ever asked any thing like that ,and my daugther is 6 yrs old

2007-11-16 10:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by suzywong 4

please help!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 09:44:16 · 5 answers · asked by Bailey M 1

My parents and I have been arguing because I don't want to go home for 2 weeks during winter break. They are threatening me that if I don't come home, they will pull me out of school so I would have to eventually come home. They were reluctant on sending me back for another year at college because of how much money I spend every month. I promised them that I'd spend less money, get a 4.0 GPA and contact them every week...well I haven't been doing any of the above. Now I'm scared to go home because I don't think they'll send me back out anyways. I told my boyfriend the situation and at first, he wanted me to stay here at a hotel during winter break. Now, he changed his mind and he is telling me that I need to go home and talk to my parents. He said that if they don't send me back out here, we will pay for a ticket for me to fly back out here or he will transfer to a college near me. What should I do? I just want to stay here with my boyfriend....How do I convince him that I should?

2007-11-16 09:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife's aunt and uncle asked us to care for their kids if something were to happen to them. We were 25 at the time and recently married. We felt like we were too young to watch their two kids (now three kids) and not financially stable. I always felt badly about saying no because chances are nothing would happen to them.

2007-11-16 09:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by Bing Bong Bao 3

Should I tell them at thanksgiving? And how should I break it to them. My grandmother will be there.

2007-11-16 09:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by Pants face 3

My dad has pretty much disowned me for dating and having a child my someone outside my race. And now my aunt and uncle want my son to come and live with him because I have a fiance, and I want let my son have everything under the moon. I want to find ppl that have had the same problem. I have gave up on my dad coming back into our life. I mean he doesn't even call to see if we are still alive. It is just CRAZY!!!

2007-11-16 08:28:09 · 11 answers · asked by doggyfan 1

Ok my dad is a truck driver he comes home every day and sleeps and we only get to see him on the weekends, but he got off tonight and my mom wanted to go out for dinner just the family, but this is what he says to her "where staying here and eating. are you done talking" exact words, and he always has dinner at home every night and every night its meat. dont you think thats rude.

2007-11-16 08:15:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

see my parents are divorced and my big sis and i are curently living with my mom i know its best for me..... but im worried about my dad cause hes 49 yrs old even if hes married and im scared that something hapens to him:: i love him so much ive always been daddys little girl but now he wants me to go with him which is great but i know it wont be a good life like my moms i dont know what to do??? who to choose ?? where to live??? i love both of my parents but i dont know??? i want to go to my fathers cause he let me more freedom like going to a friends house after school or birthday parties which i will love lol:P but my mom wontm let me but she still lets me go to big school trips and my father lives in another city so i wont be able to see my friends got it??...... what to i do???? i know its complicated .... btw im 13 years old . ( plz no rude comments ) i really want it serious...thx xox

2007-11-16 07:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by ♥-'me'-♥ 2

i have gone on the look alike meter on the my heritage space but its not working so does anyone know any other web sites i can do the same thing on

2007-11-16 06:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2