Family - November 2007

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2007-11-17 14:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

parents dont get along, selfish, manipulators in a sneaky way,

2007-11-17 14:35:26 · 2 answers · asked by me 1

I know I am re-asking. I got a couple good answers from the last time I answered, but the rest were rubbish, and I want more answers, but ppl aren't answering anymore, so here's my question:
I have one younger sister and two brothers. One older, one younger. She has been treating me and my sister like we are toilet water. My brothers yell at her all the time calling her bad names and stuff, but when I tell my mom how I feel, she yells at me, and she puts me in my room. I cry a lot, and I can't stand it.

She also, always flirts with other guys at Trader Joes, and in the city and stuff. But I guess that's what you get when her mom's in her late 50's. I really want her to stop this. Of course my Dad doesn't believe me. It really makes me upset. (What really gets the other guys is that she's blonde and has a nice French accent.)

All my bothers need to do is ask my mom if they want something, and they get it. We ask, and again, yelling, and getting sent to my room. I'm soo sad...

2007-11-17 14:04:47 · 2 answers · asked by SoundofSettling 4

ok so my best friend's dad is out of the picture he is a alcohlic a very mean 1 i wittessed a big scene at a sleepover so she lives with her mom and has never had a very good relationship with her she doesnt even tell her who her chrushes r at school (instead she tells me everything) but she has a very good life she has a very nice house nothing big just 4 her and her mom she has all kinds of clothes from abercrombie and fitch and coach purses so her mom defintly provides well 4 her but like 2 weeks ago she called me in tears because she fond her moms stash of pot and confronted her mom about it ever since she said shes been so angry and depressed with her mom and she says her mom is very depresed and she said her mom is sorry but she says shes still so mad and (i went to her house yesterday)and she just keeps throwing it back at her (like to get something like a pair of jeans)(is that right) and i know she is angry but when is enough enough and how can she move on

2007-11-17 13:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Morgie 2

Ok, so my sister was in the mental hospital and about 4 days ago I got a call saying to come over there. When I got over there they told me she was was starting to calm down and not trying to kill herself every second. So at night they took their eyes off of her for about 10 minutes and she was dead. They're not sure how she died.
What should I do?! Now i'm thinking that I should die because it's all my fault that she's dead. First I loose my mother and now my sister. Both my precious things in my world are gone. My girlfriend hasn't even talked at all since then.
I don't know what i'm supposed to do anymore!
What should I do?!

2007-11-17 13:44:02 · 9 answers · asked by Eric W 1

What would be the worse thing they would find??

2007-11-17 13:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what i am talking about is my mother and brother is in the house screaming back and forth and i dont feel comfortable living in the same house hold as them to!!!!!it is a really bad feeling for an eleven(11)year old girl

2007-11-17 13:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by hazel 1

my mom is not appriciating anything i do for her.
i just gave her 900 dollars. 500 so she can pay back her friend and the other 400 is to get her teeth fixed. And now she is saying that i dont wash the dishes, and i always wash it. Now i have the feeling of hating her. My brother who is 23 is all saying that i give him an attitude. and i dont ever. I HATE HIM SO MUCH.
now i wanna die. i know its bad but i feel so...

2007-11-17 13:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by nancy 2

my cuzin is older then me but she is SO annoying! she`ll never shut up? what can i do? she wants to spend a night over at my house tommorow! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-17 13:13:48 · 3 answers · asked by sweetsimmy163 1

Im currently 17 and junior in high school. My mom wants me to pretty much spend my whole life living close to her (because oh she loves controlling me) and she already decided that i should be an accountant. Every time i try to talk to her about what I want to be in this life, all she does is start screaming, yelling, laughing and never tries to understand me. She thinks that what I want to become is ridiculous and I will fail. And then she says that she raised a failure because i wont listen to her. I try to tell her that i want to pursue a career that im passionate about, and the career that i will enjoy working on my whole life. I dont want to be someone i dont want to be and suffer the rest of my life because of her. My dad supports my mom so i have noone to support me. I am thinking about just packing up and leaving when i finish high school and saved up some money. But that would result in destroying a relationship with my whole family. What should i do?

2007-11-17 12:33:57 · 7 answers · asked by mr mcdonalds 1

My husband set up an account for his son my husbands mother has acces to the account. His mom takes money all the time for herself sometimes $500 or less it depends, but she uses it to pay her own bills she has with her family. It wouldnt be bad if she would ask for money if she really needs it but that doesnt happen I asked my husband to tell her but he didnt say anything. he feels its his family he needs to help so i said ok help them so why not help your brother and sister they all need money. We arent rich but people seem to think when you are in the military you always have money and we also have 3 children. It is for his son and not for his mother to take out when ever she feels like it. He lies to and says he will say something, then he says he does it so I will shut up. This is our money together if I would give my mom money he would be mad and plus mom doesnt have that much either she is by herself and still pays me back if I lend her money.

2007-11-17 09:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Key 1

Have ladies with men in the house ever sat on a wet toilet seat??? I have 2 sons, 2 brothers and 2 nephews, all of them will be visiting over the holidays. I would like to either designate a boy's room and a ladies' room, or have them responsible for cleaning the bathrooms twice a day, they can take turns. We can't really vote on it as they all won't be here at the same time , except for major holidays. Is it insulting to request this of immediate family members? Men, your feelings too!

2007-11-17 09:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine Buttercup 4

2007-11-17 07:54:31 · 3 answers · asked by adeel_yaqub2002 1

HOW DO YOU TALK TO A YOUNG PERSON WHO YOU THINK IS SEXUALLY ACTIVE?

2007-11-17 07:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Runteldat 3

My father-in-law and mother-in-law are divorced. They both remarried other people. My father-in-law got divorced again from his new wife about a month ago. When my FIL and MIL were married they had friends together. My FIL recently came in contact with one of their old friends who is also divorced. She also happened to be my MIL’s good friend when they were still married. They took a vacation in Key West together already. I hope you aren’t too confused yet. LOL!

Anyway, my husband and I had made plans to have our first Thanksgiving together this year. We’ve been married for a while but every year we go to another family member’s house for festivities. This was our year. My FIL was invited to come to our house for Thanksgiving this year.

Then the other day he invited us to come to his new girlfriend’s house [my MIL’s good friend] for Thanksgiving. My husband knows her and her family from when his parents were still together. I don’t want to go for many reasons. 1. I feel bad for my MIL and I think it’s wrong. 2. We already invited him here and he knew we were doing our own Thanksgiving. 3. We had planned to have this one at our house.

My husband doesn’t want to tell his dad we aren’t going and doesn’t understand why I don’t want to go. Furthermore, he hasn’t the slightest idea how to tell him that we don’t want to go. Any suggestions? Advice? Opinions? Anything would be useful!

Thanks!!

2007-11-17 06:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by .vato. 6

My twin sister and I are 22...we both live at home and sometimes I think our relationship is too close and intimate. We are inseparable and sometimes I feel like I can't breathe. Can anyone relate to this? We are also really competitive and compare ourselves all the time. It's really exhausting!

2007-11-17 06:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 05:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by GargVK 7

At every family gathering she gets drunk and insults me. I don't know how to deal with it and I'd rather not go at all.

2007-11-17 05:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Your Mom 6

Okay, so, I'm the youngest in my family, and only having an older brother, but all my life, I've wanted an Older Sister. I don't know why that is, but the fact is that it's true. Is this normal?

2007-11-17 05:30:11 · 18 answers · asked by Sonicwave 2

omg my cousin is getting on my last nervers. ok here is the story yesterday she was feeling really sad and sick and i tried to help her feel better and this morning when i talked to her she got all mad at me cause i wasnt kind of paying attention to her becasue im babysitting right now so i have to help my brothers and then she started explaining to me how if i talk to her i should pay attention to everything she says and now she is mad at me omg i wanna just idk im soo mad and now she is saying im a pissy person omg how can i tell her that she is kinda getting on my last nerves without being mean. if she says somthing else im going to explode omg help plz what do i do ?

2007-11-17 04:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by amy 1

hiii umm i want to go to this playy at my school and i think i am a loud to go but im like kinda scared to ask my dad b/c she is like very over protected and like i am going to go to my sister and my older sister was aloud to go to like the movies by herself and was aloud to go everywhere with her friends when she was my agee andd anywayss what shoulddd i doo can someone helpp me and i dont want my dad to get mad at mee and i did awesome on my report card i got like 80's and 90's and i have my own moneyy but it is in my jewlery box and i cant find the keyy so i guess ill be asking himee soo helpp mee pleasee

2007-11-17 04:13:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is AIM really bad for kids? Like I have a 13 year old daughter, and I dont let her have AIM (instant messenger.) But is it really bad though? People say it is because kids tell random people where they live and everything, but my daughter says all her friends have it. Please help me out! :)

2007-11-17 03:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We don't know how to leave, our parents abues us i.e. hitting,punching,split lips,black eyes,ect. and also they try to break us down i.e. your dumb,your ugly,your not worth anything,nobody wants you,ect,ect. We want to get out FAST!! We can't go to any family because they already told everyone in the family how WE have been acting not seeing how they hit us and all that (both sides and both grandparents). I'm 18 and my sister 13 and we don't know what to do?? Can you help us PLZ! Just a few days ago they started hitting us because our little 6 year old sister who is a VERY,VERY light sleeper woke up and that was there falt because like I said they were hitting,punching,slaping,ect. We need help!! And FAST! I have a job but we both can't live in $300 a month and she is just a few years to young to get a job...

THANKS for All The Answers.....

2007-11-17 02:51:14 · 31 answers · asked by ?DontKnow? 1

My 12yr old stepdaughter has been living with us for 6 mths. Her mum neglected her& "couldnt cope" as she has 3other children. My husband hardly ever sees his daughter as he has 2jobs where he works early mornings & evenings so he sees her pretty much as she is going 2bed.Her mother sees her once per fortnight, so im the one parenting her.
I'm also 7 months pregnant with my first child & i work.
Her mam has just had another baby, since then Abbie has been really really cheeky to me, disrespectful, argumentative and naughty, but she is always good for her dad.When she is good we get on really well, but she is turning into the child from hell.I dont have experience of being a mother to a child yet, im only 25.Her mother thinks my way of punishing her is 2harsh & has a go at me over it & my husband is tired of me moaning about his daughter who he can see does no wrong. She is obviously confused and feels unwanted. Do I be selfish & send her back? or keep trying? i dont know what 2 do.

2007-11-17 02:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 21 yr old female and I like a 35 year old man and he likes me back, so our feelings for each other are consensual. We have talked about having sex and all that.. which we are going to end up doing because we like each other ALOT! I feel like this is my soulmate even though he is married b/c I have NEVER EVER had that kind of feeling in my life for anyone, period!! I know most ppl would say not to have sex but in my case, its bound to happen, no doubt! I already told him that I didnt want to if he was married and he told me that it was ok as long as his wife didnt find out. Which I guess its ok.. I am going to TRY my hardest not to develop emotional feelings for him and just have fun with it. Me and my ex b/f broke up b/c he was my first and only b/f ever and I wanted to see what else is out there, so that is what I am doing now. I know I sound like a heartless B**TCH, but I feel like I need to experience this even if I get hurt. What should I do? Oh yea he has no kids!

2007-11-17 02:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 02:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by linda g 1

i think i left my moms camera at the skating rink and it fell out of my bag wat do i do?i didnt tell her yet

2007-11-17 02:14:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my family found out that i might be gay on the internet and now i have to talk to them about it and i don't know where or how to start the conversation. i'm female and its hardest to bring up the subject with my mother.... and she seems to be waiting for me to come to her about it bacause she knew before i was told she knew. can anyone help?

2007-11-17 01:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by sassy 2

If the mother and father fail to provide support and the unconditional love that is supposed to go hand in hand together then how do you feel that this could effect them in later life?

All opinions welcome.

2007-11-17 01:08:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do we tell him?

2007-11-16 20:31:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous