If the mother and father fail to provide support and the unconditional love that is supposed to go hand in hand together then how do you feel that this could effect them in later life?
All opinions welcome.
2007-11-17 01:08:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes. the upbringing will effect the child later in life. it will effect the confidence, mental, and emotions of a child.
2007-11-17 01:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by ryleen martine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. A child is not necessarily a product of their environment. From personal experience I know this to be true. I grew up in a home with a racist stepfather, who once grounded me for a month because a kid from school (who was black) came by our house for a homework assignment and I let him in the door. I am not a racist nor is my sister. We both married outside our race. He was also mentally and physically abusive, oh did I mention he was also an alcoholic- tax evading drug dealer. Yet none of these things can be applied to me or my sister. I think each person has free will to choose to be bogged down by their environment, or to rise above and make more out of themselves.
2007-11-17 10:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jen N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I grew up in a crazy family. My dad hit my mom and my mom genuinely hates my dad's mom for some reasons that I don't even remember. You get the point right. Anyway I know all of them love me very much. What I wanna say is take the good and learn from the bad. I'm sure your dad and mom still love you and if they have done something bad towards you, learn from that. You'll become a better parent in the future.
2007-11-17 10:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by LimC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this child will have some issues to deal with later in life. For example, they may experience difficulties with trust or committment. But I also think that most everyone ends up with issues, nomatter what kind of upbringing that had. I believe people are much stronger than they know and can overcome most anything.
2007-11-17 10:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rivergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a child realizes that parental support and love is not forthcoming he takes it as a challenge to make up his life with his own efforts and to rise to such heights that he supersedes his parents. He will concentrate more in his studies, pass competitive examinations with best grades and rise in whatever profession he is engaged to great heights which amazes all.I have seen such persons achieving great progress after they realized that they can no more look to parents for support.
2007-11-17 10:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree it would effect them but there are also many other factors that come into account like the first person said they may of had an aunt or grandparents who took the parents role of support and love.
how it would effect them would be dependent on how they were brought up strength of character etc etc. But its also partially if you choose to let yourself be affected.
2007-11-17 09:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pyrite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think it will effect them later in life, unless there is another "parental figure" like an aunt, grandparent, or best friend's mom that loves them like their parent should.
2007-11-17 09:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋