Family - November 2007

Its like so embarising

2007-11-18 03:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by prince cupid blue 1

I am sick of being mistreated. My mother made me move to texas where i am un happy. And all i do is have flash backs on how my life used to be in florida. She always calls me names like **** and whore for stupid reasons. She recently told me that she doesnt care about me anymore and for me to not ask her for anything. So all ive done is stay in my room. I havent eaten and im having a hard time sleeping. I feel weak, and useless. I randomely get angry at her while being in my room. And start squeezing random things to try to get my anger out. She complains about how im not even a part of the family anymore. because im never home and im always in my room. But sometimes its just easier to go in my room and ignore everything. I have a little brother whos 6. Who i love more then anything. Me and him have gone through alot. And i try to show my little brother how ill always be there for him. But its gotten to the point where i dont care about anything anymore. What is happening to me?

2007-11-18 03:49:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a vegetarian and my family doesn't respect or or even accept my decision. I'm 15, and my parents respect my decision and help me as much as they can. It's my other family members that don't. I've always been the source of stories and jokes, with my strong beliefs, clumsiness, and honor roll grades. I thought they were funny at first but as time has gone on they have become more hurtful. Last Thanksgiving was a disaster. I had ham dangled in my face with oinking noises, turkey thrown on my plate over the rest of my food, and was made fun of. One of my uncles repeatedly called my decision stupid and was asking me why I chose it, and when I say that it's my choice,not his, and that I don't call him stupid for eating meat, he just kept saying that he thought I was smarter than that. He kept pushing it until my other uncle finally made him drop it. My cousins then harassed me about it and rubber turkey and ham on my face until I started screaming and crying. Every family event is.....

2007-11-18 03:43:57 · 6 answers · asked by The Broken Doll 4

My cousin [girl] thinks i am to good for her. And every time i try to talk to her she calls me a hobo beacouse i call my evil step dad a hobo [long story] and she always [yells] ''why are you so mean to your mom [loonngg story]'' And that really is none of her business!! help how can i get her to shut up!!!

2007-11-18 03:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well. My mom has this boyfriend, and he makes her really happy and im glad. but she is ALWAYS with him. she's barley home anymore. and i dont tell her it bothers me because well, when she's not home we dont fight, and he makes her happy and she deserves to be happy. but she still needs to realize that her kids should be her top priority. and i never get to hang out with my friends because im not allowed to have people over when she's not home and when she is home she's like no i dont want people over. how can i tell her she needs to rethink what she's doing? I dont want to get in another screaming fit like last time.

2007-11-18 03:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Angie 2

last night at one in the morning and she came home drunk and now she cant remember where she put my phone i tried calling it but its dead so my question is what is the most likly place for your parents to hide your phone when they take it

2007-11-18 03:14:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 3 month old baby girl. I feel like giving her to someone who can take care of her and killing myself to end all the hurt. I am job-hunting so that I can get out of the abusive situation that I am in. Her dad is paying the rent until the end of this month. we dont live together so I have been looking for a job with regular hours. So far I can only find ones where i have to do nights weekends etc. I appreciate that he taking care of the bare essentials financially but he uses it at every chance he gets to put me down. I'm really am trying hard to get a job but the country that I live in doesnt offer much in the way of choice. My mother helps but she doesn't understand fully and I don't want to worry her...He had expressed an interest in coming to see his daughter for christmas but has since changed his mind as he says i'm not begging him enough. I need to sever all ties with him but my jobhunt isnt going well and it is depressing me. I'm worried about my baby's future...

2007-11-18 02:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex girlfriends son whom I raised him for 12 years when he was young, had a terrible gun accident and has been killed. He's an adult and have not really stayed in touch for the last couple of years. Other than condolences to the family how would you handle the situation. I am remarried and raising another stepchild whom is 17 any suggestions. I want to be respectful to his family, but also to my present situation?

2007-11-18 00:18:58 · 9 answers · asked by eaglescout 2

I'm 18 and thru my life, I've gotten into fights when I was younger. In elementary and middle school were the times when I beat up people since I had no choice. My environment was dangerous so had to protect myself.

I haven't fought anyone in a long time, and I think I'd get pulverized by anyone now. I really want to be able to be strong enough to protect myself, back my friends up, and protect my love ones. I'm also afraid if I got a gf she wouldn't be able to protect herself or my little sis who won't be able to protect herself either. I'm really scared.

What should I do to gain power? Must I learn what my ancestors learned? Martial arts, does it really help?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-17 21:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Closed 5

My cousin is very warped. His grandMother is also very warped, she tried to kill her husband. She has warped my cousin into a puppet. She ordered him to kill me once and he tried to. He used to hit me with stuff from behind and when i came around he was smiling at me and snapping his fingers and laughing. his grandmother told him to do these things and I stay far away from him. Now the problem is that we go to the same community college and he does see me once in a while and snarls at me and points me out to people and yells at me. I'm afraid he might try to kill me again. what do I do? who at the college should i tell about this?

2007-11-17 21:24:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few minutes ago my computer was doing a virus scan and identified a 'Trojan' (not too sure what they are but I know they are supposed to be bad for the PC?) and it was scanning through all this porno stuff on my youger brothers user. Should I tell him to clear his sh*t off the PC and not put it at risk or shall I just say nothing?

2007-11-17 19:49:36 · 10 answers · asked by LONDONER © 6

in midnight he is coming to my room and approaching me like he wans something from me.he is 14yrs... me a big sis for him.. we loves each other... due to this i told my parents and both of us met a counselor. she was a lady. she told me just accept that he is passing his teenage phase.. and consider him as a lover for a certain period..as he quiting his habits. if u block him, it;ll increase. so let him to do .and say no to penetration. take care of him as a big sis, and kiss him caress himetc. but iam confused... plz help me

2007-11-17 19:49:11 · 19 answers · asked by sri L 1

and raise two small kids, look after the house.

My husband works fulltime then sits every night watching tv. Is this fair? If he does cook dinner on the weekend - meat and chips he is a hero?

2007-11-17 19:35:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I just moved in with my moms bf and

well its hard because iI don't have my room(me or my sisters don't have rooms)

we sleep on the fat sack thing and the floor


my parents are saying that there saving there money but they are going to take a trip some were that I really don't care about and now my mom and I don't tallk any more because my mom's bf's kids are always the senter of attion


I HAVE HAD IT!!!!

2007-11-17 19:12:49 · 3 answers · asked by Paige~Renee~ 2

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2007-11-17 18:59:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate how my family is falling apart. Mainly, my younger sister is the big problem. My mom had been so blind about her in the past and now that she claims she "opened" her eyes when my sister hit her and cursed her out. We found pot in her purse and she is constantly trying to sneak out the house. She has an EXTREMELY bad temper. She is very violent. It looks like my mom doesn't know how to educate her at all. The worst part is that my mom blames me for everything and when my sister does something to me she always takes her side. Sometimes I wish I was dead but the only one that gives me hope is God. My dad has never really been there for us. While I was growing up he really mistreated me i.e. left me stranded somewhere when I was 5, put gum all over my hair, told me horrible stuff etc. I really don't know why. I don't really have a relationship with him now. I guess I get to pay for my parents mistakes since I am the oldest. One day things will change for me. I have hope.

2007-11-17 18:35:18 · 24 answers · asked by Ebony 2

If an unwed father voluntarily relinquishes his rights to the unwed single mother who is not intending to marry, can a grandparent form the mother's side adopt the child as a stepparent?

2007-11-17 18:16:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

This kid on my college soccer team use to be a very angry kid and got yellow/red cards all the time. Well, over the summer he got saved (found Jesus). Now whenever some player gets pissed at him he responds with "love". Players get pissed at him and he will just go up and hug them sometimes or some other act of kindness. The players have a look of shock and confusion upon their face. Players don't know how to handle it. It's something I really don't understand when I think about it. These players are big strong guys, but a simple act of love renders them helpless. This is interesting and I just wanted to know what you all thought of this...

2007-11-17 16:16:16 · 16 answers · asked by Pedro! 2

My cousin who is 11 years old has separation anxiety. She is staying over our house for the weekend, and she can't stop crying when she gets off the phone with her mom. Her parents are on their anniversary. Her mom always takes her side, and she treats her like a baby. I don't know what to do. She won't listen to anyone either. Her mom doesn't want to go to a phyciatrist (don't know if I spelled it right). I really need some advice!! I don't know what to do or how to help her. She goes to school, but she doesn't have many friends, and she gets along more with her little sister's friends! Please give me some advice! Thank you!

2007-11-17 16:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by hi 2

I have worked hard for over 20 yrs and want my mum to come and stay with me in Australia. I would fully support her. I don't meet the balance of family guidelines but there are only 3 of us.

2007-11-17 16:06:11 · 2 answers · asked by josuku 1

My family members hate me so much & they're all trouble-making & conniving & when I explain to them that I don't like the way they're treating me, they say I'm starting trouble. They do everything they can to annoy me & don't care how I feel & they don't care about my disability & they get their rocks off of psychologically torturing me. I try to work things out with them but they get worse & worse. Outsiders like counselors & social workers tell me I'm a fool for dealing with them & that I'm putting my hand back in the fire.

I hae no one to turn to for support & my family members lie to me & lie about me & they do't trust me because of lies & rumors being spread. Why don't I have a right to deal with my family? I'm all alone & my family likes to emphasize on my problems & weaknesses & not my strengths. They don't like the fact that I'm a goody 2-shoes with a college degree under my belt & tey're jailbirds, drunks, & druggies who try to ruin my life & tear me down. I have no one.

2007-11-17 15:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14 and I live with my aunt. My parents died. She never let's me leave the house and when I do something wrong like getting a bad grade, she will not let me eat or hit me. Is this abuse?

2007-11-17 15:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by Heather 1

2007-11-17 15:28:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

really my sister goes in my room and hides my stuff

2007-11-17 15:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by JoyJoy 2

Hello, I have a 12 year old niece and today I came across a letter she had in her note book. It talked about how her family didnt appreciate her and how she wished she was dead. I dont know how to approch ths situation. Should I tell my sister about what I read or should I speak directly to my niece? Please help.

2007-11-17 15:13:22 · 38 answers · asked by gallery 1

My daughter (23) and I got into a disagreement earlier today over her son and correcting him. She was making him stand in a corner for NOT answering a question. I do NOT have a problem with correcting him, but after 10 minutes of making him stand there crying, I informed her of how long he had been standing and asked her to at least let him sit down in the corner. Needless to say,,,she told me 'NO', so after another few minutes, I just told her, that I felt she was being unreasonable and that she needed to allow him to sit. It got to the point I just told her that if she was determined to make him continue to stand that she needed to correct him at her house and not mine...So she stormed out. The grandboy's didn't even get to tell me bye. My question is:: Was I really being unreasonable and a terrible mother?

2007-11-17 15:10:11 · 45 answers · asked by carmeliasue 6

It is in floriday. he cannot remember where he had it prepared back in the 80's. Would if be recorded?

2007-11-17 15:07:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 1

i'm an indo-canadian girl. my dad doesn't like my mom's side of the family. from wut i know, this fight has been going on even before i was born. he accuses my maternal grandpa of selling girls and my mother of being a slut. i don't believe in all this so he gets hurt and drinks alot. sometimes he accuses me of wanting to be a prostitue, only when he's drunk. ilove him to death and he does too. Because he cares about me alot, he is very protective. we used to be real tight when i was young.They have spent over 20 yrs with each other. my mother is the world to me and without her i prolly would have been dead if she hadn't stopped me. i can't move out because my dad would kill me and accuse my mother of my upbringing. also, i'm the only child and i'm a girl which made matters worse when i wuz born cuz girls aren't really good for carrying on their father'sname, boys are preferred. i want to get rid of everyone's problems but my parents won't get a divorce. what should i do?? HELP PLEASE

2007-11-17 14:58:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am only 14 years old
and
he first said it when i ask him for piercings
he told me if i ever get them he will disowned me
so i stop asking
but

this past few months i was doing bad in school
and my mom and my dad were mad because the teachers called them this past week that i need to bring my grades up if not i will get kicked out of the school [i go to a early college high school]
well my dad is the one that got mad he was saying on how
ashame i should be if i got kick out of that school but i could careless because i am just staying in the school for my friends.

well i haven't clean my room and well my mom got tired of telling me to clean it so she send my dad
and then he told me that
that i have to clean my room
and then he blames saying i am the one that doesn't want a happy family and if thats what i want he can disowned me
also because he doesn't want messy people in his house
that this monday he will start investigating about it.

2007-11-17 14:55:59 · 7 answers · asked by xAxGIRLxCALLxKILLx 3

My son is 15,and i have been getting child support for the last 8 yrs. Now it is time for a review the first review we had since my son has been getting it. So the other day i dropped my son of at his g-parents house. And they had the nerve to ask me about it they "my sons g-ma asks me did you get your child support papers in the mail because tony got his. now I am 33 and my sons dad is 37 and we are both capable people. We dont need third parties for our buisness. Was she out of place for asking that.

2007-11-17 14:55:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous