My dad has threaten me on disowned me. Can he?

Question

i am only 14 years old
and
he first said it when i ask him for piercings
he told me if i ever get them he will disowned me
so i stop asking
but

this past few months i was doing bad in school
and my mom and my dad were mad because the teachers called them this past week that i need to bring my grades up if not i will get kicked out of the school [i go to a early college high school]
well my dad is the one that got mad he was saying on how
ashame i should be if i got kick out of that school but i could careless because i am just staying in the school for my friends.

well i haven't clean my room and well my mom got tired of telling me to clean it so she send my dad
and then he told me that
that i have to clean my room
and then he blames saying i am the one that doesn't want a happy family and if thats what i want he can disowned me
also because he doesn't want messy people in his house
that this monday he will start investigating about it.

Yea I could clean my room
But I just want to know can he actually do it just because I don’t clean my room and have doing bad in school

well f the school
yea i do want to graduate
n i dont want to do bad

my dad drop out of school
n well my grandma kick him out of the house
so he begun working
but he tells me the story over and over like if i should be proud of him

and well i dont really like my dad so i could careless about him
but my mom well lets just say that
we do talk alright
we have our mother and daughter moments

Answer 1

My kids are 14 as well,and I am happy with them bringing home a B average in regular public school.Explain to your dad how much harder the early college classes are.The fact you didn't clean your room does not suprise me in the least.I got so tired of tryingto make my kids clean their rooms that I finally told them just to leave it where we can close their doors so I don't have to look at it.Well,just today,their grandfather suprised them with new beds.They were so embarassed when he saw their rooms that after he left,they not only cleaned them,they helped clean the rest of the house and started getting the Christmas decorations together.I would ask your dad for some alone time with him.Then ask him about what he was like as a kid.Include what his parents expectations were of him,and if he lived up to it.Also,ask him his fondest memories of living at his parents,and his worst memories as well.Then ask him for tips on how to make it easier to clean your room.

Answer 2

I have known parents to abandon their kids, so yes they "can," though it's not legal.
Of course he could send you to a boarding school or something and get you out of his hair.
Or, he could tell the court that he can't control you and ask the State to take custody. But if you're not breaking the law, that probably wouldn't work.
You know, they might hassle you about your room, but I don't think that's what makes your dad so angry. It must be something else.
Judging by your writing, you don't belong in a college-prep program; you should be taking basic English and start looking for a career that doesn't need too much brains.
[LOL Don't get me wrong, I'm not that stupid. But maybe you could convince your parents that you're just not the academic type, but somehow I have a feeling this won't make you happy either.]

Answer 3

You are 14, this is where life choices come into play. You are sort of at a fork in the road. You can go down one way and rebel against your parents, lose their trust (that will take years to get it back), do poorly in school (which only hurts you in the end), or you can take a deep breath, humble yourself and listen to your parents and try harder in school and you will put yourself on the right path in life.

Answer 4

yea i think they can put you up for adoption, although both parents would have to agree. i really doubt that they would tho considering almost all teenagers dont clean their rooms and get bad marks at some point. if they'll disown you for this do you really want to be living with them?

Answer 5

Yes, he can disown you. You can be put up for adoption or turned over to the State to raise. You need to think about what you are doing, you are making decisions that are going to hurt you. So stop and think about it.

Answer 6

Aw. I'm sorry...hes seems like a jerk. I understand. My dad is too.
Thats wrong for him to say. I really dont understand what is wrong with some people...
hang in there hun *hugsies*

Answer 7

Its kinda all your fault, sorry.