My family members hate me so much & they're all trouble-making & conniving & when I explain to them that I don't like the way they're treating me, they say I'm starting trouble. They do everything they can to annoy me & don't care how I feel & they don't care about my disability & they get their rocks off of psychologically torturing me. I try to work things out with them but they get worse & worse. Outsiders like counselors & social workers tell me I'm a fool for dealing with them & that I'm putting my hand back in the fire.
I hae no one to turn to for support & my family members lie to me & lie about me & they do't trust me because of lies & rumors being spread. Why don't I have a right to deal with my family? I'm all alone & my family likes to emphasize on my problems & weaknesses & not my strengths. They don't like the fact that I'm a goody 2-shoes with a college degree under my belt & tey're jailbirds, drunks, & druggies who try to ruin my life & tear me down. I have no one.
2007-11-17 15:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you stay with the family you have abuse and still have no one and if you leave them you have no one but also no abuse which will lift your self-esteem and love for life and you will meet people that will mean more to you than your useless uncaring family.
I speak from personal experience. Life is too short to take the crap of a nasty family. Move on and don't look back!
2007-11-17 16:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel like crying for you, really, that's just sad. Your family members sound really mean and frustrating. My heart breaks when you write at the end that you have no one because you sound really lonely and everything.
I am an evangelical Christian and I will tell you this, do not lose hope. There is someone you can turn to and that's Jesus. I will not tell you that if you become a Christian, all your problems will be solved and your family will become all nice and everything. This all depends on the will of God. But you will find true peace, love, joy, and happiness. Please, I don't want to scare you away or sound too preachy. But at least try to find out more about Jesus, because if you seek Him then you will surely find Him. (Please do not be offended if you're an atheist or someone like that.)
2007-11-17 16:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
listen to the social workers.. dont even associate with your family anymore.. move away... if you are still under their roof, because of your disability, look for assisted living homes, group homes, etc.. if you were disabled before the age of 21, then most states will help you get into these types of homes.. some also do apartments where you live alone, but their is staff there 24/7....
if you do live on your own, dont associate with them anymore. have your phone number changed.. drop all contact...
if you really need someone to talk to, i dont know how much help i can give, but i am here....
2007-11-17 16:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by firechick1721 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd move out, go on your own...maybe even move out of town or the state. If you have a college degree chances are you can get a job just about anywhere. I'd move on and get as far away from the LOSERS as you can then just succeed in life and all that you want to do. You don't need them. Maybe they will realize what they have lost when it's gone. Good luck!
2007-11-17 16:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sara~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is about time someone is living nearly the same situation. Can you tell me if you have the answer what shall we do. For me, I deserted them and living my life the way I like. I don't care anymore about what they say. I know myself more than anybody and if they are better than me, then they can stand and face me. I am careless about them all, so cold feelings for them. It is nearly they mean nothing to me anymore. So, tell me now what you are feeling after you received this answer from me. Take care. SLB.
2007-11-17 17:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to make some friends.
With all your accomplishments, surely you could do better than spend your time on a bunch of druggies, drunks, and jailbirds.
2007-11-17 16:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry u go through that. Why don't u leave them n there misery. Succeed in your life and let them be ashamed of themselves later. They will be begging for your kindness later in life.
2007-11-17 15:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You get what you give. If they are unacceptable people, why do you continue to subject yourself to them? Write them off as a lost cause.....you aren't going to get what you need from them. I have friends that I am closer to than my family members....so it is possible to find others to replace your bio family.
2007-11-17 16:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you have counselors and social workers giving u advice already, it sounds like they themselves dont give a care for ya either
seeing how their suppose to help or get u help if u need it
it think it would be best to get away as soon as possible for your sake and theirs its obvious they dont want u around if u can leave
2007-11-17 15:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Christianna 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They shud be hung and shot
2015-03-21 17:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋