in midnight he is coming to my room and approaching me like he wans something from me.he is 14yrs... me a big sis for him.. we loves each other... due to this i told my parents and both of us met a counselor. she was a lady. she told me just accept that he is passing his teenage phase.. and consider him as a lover for a certain period..as he quiting his habits. if u block him, it;ll increase. so let him to do .and say no to penetration. take care of him as a big sis, and kiss him caress himetc. but iam confused... plz help me
2007-11-17 19:49:11 · 19 answers · asked by sri L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Other then removing him from the household I don't think you can stop this. In my opinion that counselor is crazy, your brother should be sent to a psychiatrist to deal with his problem.
2007-11-17 19:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Luis R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A therapist encouraging incest, interesting. Of course it's wrong in every sense, there's the fact you're related AND your therapist is encouraging non-consensual relations which could lead to more unhealthy activities by him on other girls if he thinks this behaviour can be condoned. No disrespect but where the heck are your family from?
2007-11-18 04:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by LONDONER © 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so twisted, no professional would ever say things like this to you. As for your parents going along with it, oh my God, you need serious help. Are you sure it aint the other way around as you sound really messed up to me. We had a paedophile in our family and it took decades to come to light, when it did, it caused huge devastation with people even trying to take their own lives, for you to post something like this on here is just like laughing at all the real sufferers. Totally f**king pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-18 06:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by sassicat1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is wrong and it is illegal. It is called incest. It is illegal to have sexual relations with a brother or sister.
The person you talked to does not know what is illegal and what isnt. It is definitely illegal.
If your parents wont help you with this, you need to find someone who will. Tell your school counsellor. This is a very serious situation - you should go and see your school counsellor straight away.
Ignore 'sassicat' I know you are telling the truth and I believe you.
2007-11-18 08:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The confusion in your part tells us that you, yourself, can't believe the counsellor. There IS something wrong with your brother. He himself may also be confused. You have to talk to your brother. BE the BIG sister that you are. You have to tell straight out. Believe it or not, they would be able to understand. Just be careful not to make him feel ashamed or remorseful because it could be traumatic for him as it is for you. Good Luck!
2007-11-18 04:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by rmparras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your therapist needs to be burned at the stake. And as for your brother my advice is resort to violence and hit him when he trys also try getting a lock not to be rude but that just seems to be a easy thing to do.
2007-11-18 04:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Aero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to school, see the school counsellor, report this so called counsellor you and our family saw. By what you said I wouldn't take my dog to her. How very very wrong of her to say what she said. What your brother is doing is immoral and illegal.DO NOT let it continue!!Tell someone that is actually going to do something about it instead of telling you to allow incest. You say he is your younger brother. You dont sound very old but you've got to do something about it. It has to stop.
2007-11-18 08:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by treeni c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it looks that whatever you are fantasizing to do with your brother, you are attributing them to your counselor. No counselor will ever advise the way she did.Stop imagining things. What you have narrated is just unbelievable.
2007-11-18 05:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bull ****!!!! No way would a counsellor say that. And for that very reason I do not believe you. People are getting seriously abused in this world so don't turn it into some sicko joke!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-18 04:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this question is for real (which I doubt) Ignore what this so called counsellor has told you, and get a bolt on your bedroom door.
2007-11-18 04:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by jet-set 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋