what to do about friends family catstrophy?

Question

ok so my best friend's dad is out of the picture he is a alcohlic a very mean 1 i wittessed a big scene at a sleepover so she lives with her mom and has never had a very good relationship with her she doesnt even tell her who her chrushes r at school (instead she tells me everything) but she has a very good life she has a very nice house nothing big just 4 her and her mom she has all kinds of clothes from abercrombie and fitch and coach purses so her mom defintly provides well 4 her but like 2 weeks ago she called me in tears because she fond her moms stash of pot and confronted her mom about it ever since she said shes been so angry and depressed with her mom and she says her mom is very depresed and she said her mom is sorry but she says shes still so mad and (i went to her house yesterday)and she just keeps throwing it back at her (like to get something like a pair of jeans)(is that right) and i know she is angry but when is enough enough and how can she move on

and if she told someone she would have to live with her dad and thats just dangerous

o her mom is done and u would never no and i can tell her mom feels reak bad

Answer 1

Your friend had been through a lot since the day she is born A alcoholic father plus a drug addict mother Don't tell me it was the first time her mother was doing drugs Encourage your friend to get some counseling at her school She is mad and she has good reason to feel this way Let her vent some steam its good for her For your part be there for her She needs to feel understand by you And worry between her and her mother things will setteldown in their times

Answer 2

Find out where and when your local n/a meetings are.Then offer to go with her to one.In order for her to understand her mom's pot use and figure out how to move on,it will help.Drug use is not just a users problem,it is the family of that users problem.The n/a meeting will give her an insight to her mother,and it will also give her the sense of direction she needs.

Answer 3

See if she can move in with u or have her tell her mom that if she does not stop doing drugs then she will find another place to live. Good luck!!!!!!!!!