Okay, so, I'm the youngest in my family, and only having an older brother, but all my life, I've wanted an Older Sister. I don't know why that is, but the fact is that it's true. Is this normal?
2007-11-17 05:30:11 · 18 answers · asked by Sonicwave 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
btw, I'm male.
2007-11-17 09:32:35 · update #1
i have both an older sister and anolder brother, i wish i only had one they are annoying and you end up getting all the left overs. so be happy for only having one.
2007-11-17 05:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nadia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something you think you would get from an older sister that you can't get from your older brother (attention, respect, affection, etc.) and so you have a fantasy which puts you in that situation. My father died when I was young, and I had two sisters. We lived in farm country with few neighbors, and I was the only boy around for miles. My sisters had each other to play with, so I used to wish I had a brother. Fantasy is OK as long as you don't waste your life away feeling depressed, because the reality of your life doesn't match up to your fantasy.
2007-11-17 06:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by legendatz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Maybe someone else has one and you see the great relationship between those two. You can find the same attributes in others if you search. You might ask yourself why do I want an older sister? There in you may find out what you need to know about what it is that drives you to want one. Then you can find the solution, possibly.. GB and GL
2007-11-17 05:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by denise g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very normal.
i for example am the oldest in my family and have always wanted an older brother!
i promise you.. you dont want an older sister. i mean sometimes my sister and i get along great but to be honest.. i am often not so nice to her.
dont be concerned its a really normal thing.
2007-11-17 05:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it is because i am the youngest and have 2 older sisters and i always wanted an older brother (i have a half bro but he dont live with us)
2007-11-17 05:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you always want what you cannot have. I always wanted an older brother too (have an older sister) but she wouldn't go for the sex change operation.
People with curly hair want straight hair and vice-versa.
It's part of being human.
2007-11-17 05:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal because i have a older brother. and i really wish that i had a older sister.
2007-11-17 05:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to wish and want someone of your own gender with whom you could relate closely to. Personnally, I do not have a brother and this is what is missing in my life. I do have sisters but it is not the same! I had a friend who was like a brother to me and he passed away in 1994. Needless to say, we were like twins and I still miss him a lot especially at Christmas time because it was his favorite time of the year.
Have a beautiful and memorable Christmas.
2007-11-17 05:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend hates his older brother and would love to have a sister he could gang up on his brother with.If that is why you want an older sister then yea,I guess it is probably normal.If not then I don't really know.
2007-11-17 05:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yes thats normal. dont feel bad though. it doesnt mean you dont love your older brother.
im the oldest and i have a younger sister. ive always wanted an older brother.
2007-11-17 05:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋