see my parents are divorced and my big sis and i are curently living with my mom i know its best for me..... but im worried about my dad cause hes 49 yrs old even if hes married and im scared that something hapens to him:: i love him so much ive always been daddys little girl but now he wants me to go with him which is great but i know it wont be a good life like my moms i dont know what to do??? who to choose ?? where to live??? i love both of my parents but i dont know??? i want to go to my fathers cause he let me more freedom like going to a friends house after school or birthday parties which i will love lol:P but my mom wontm let me but she still lets me go to big school trips and my father lives in another city so i wont be able to see my friends got it??...... what to i do???? i know its complicated .... btw im 13 years old . ( plz no rude comments ) i really want it serious...thx xox
2007-11-16 07:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by ♥-'me'-♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
kali: yea.. i do believe in god and pray every night but thx for the answers... xoxox thx for the first answer 2
2007-11-16 09:04:25 · update #1
why not tell them both what you think? they will help you... and maybe you could live with him during hols etc and with mum during schooltime or something? best wishes, and big hugs xx
2007-11-16 08:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you get homestead from college spend time with him. My canine spends weeks with my mum and dad on a similar time as i'm away in school and he or she nonetheless knows i'm her proprietor while she comes homestead simply by fact i'm the guy who took care of her while she became right into a puppy, and that i'm the guy who walked her and cuddled along with her while she became into little. i would not concern approximately it too plenty, in simple terms make certain you shop spending time with him and walking him everytime you could. in case you start to thoroughly forget approximately approximately him even once you at the instant are not in college then sure he will start up thinking your dad is his grasp, yet in any different case it is going to all be effective :) OH additionally, he would substitute into extra related on your dad for the reason that he's spending extra time with him, yet he will nonetheless understand you're his grasp.
2016-11-11 20:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults may be going for a divorce for their own reasons, but in fact they give immense punishment to their kids for none of their faults. I do feel the pain you are feeling.You have not mentioned if your keeping contact with Dad will strain your relations with your Mom.You have to avoid that if it is not agreeable to Mom. You love your Mom too and she is raising you in her own best way.Lack of little freedom has to be ignored by you.It is expected from you that you remain obedient to your mother and always keep a happy face. You should realize the stress and tension your mother is bearing after the sad separation.
2007-11-17 02:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really have no good answer for you! i dont know if you believe in God or not but if you do why dont you try praying to him about it or just try talking to a counsler about it!
2007-11-16 08:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋