I hav been wondering how to tell my parents....i jus freak out every time. I kno i should ...its jus i kno they r major homophobes.Wat should i do??? HELP?????
2007-11-15 02:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by hopelesgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you take them out for dinner in a crowded restuarant is tell them mom and dad i am a lesbian men have done me wrong and a lady knows hoe to treat a lady. that way they can yell or scream since there will be other people around and make sure they know that it is your decision and your happy with it
2007-11-15 02:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you need to tell them? I think you need to decide if that will improve your life or make it horrible. What happens if they throw you out? Are you too young to take care of yourself?
My advice is to keep it to yourself and play whatever game you need to to remain in the home that supports you. Do what you can to get the best grades in school and then go on to college away from home and let them help you pay for it, if they will. When you can support yourself, you can tell them.
If you are an adult, then its like anything else, its a risk. You are risking that they will turn their backs on you, and yes that happens. Make sure you have good support of loving friends around you who will become your family if yours throws you away because of your sexual orientation.
Good luck, I wish it was easier, but I'm 54 and can't be honest with my elderly parents either.
2007-11-15 02:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and Pray some more. That is really the only thing which will help you. Pray and ask God for guidance. But dont lie to your parents in the mean time. And Pray some more. If they ask dont lie But you do not have to come out and tell them now besure this is the life you want to lead. Pray.
2007-11-15 03:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by sassylyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont keep it in... worst posible thing... like as to telling them in not sure... actully i do know... if its someone who "inspired" you or trigered it, have them there... it would not only be helpfull for your parent to trully relise your feeling for her... but if things do go wrong she oculd be there for emotional suport... it might also bo good for your parents to get proper exposure... as in have them spend the afternoon with some one who doesnt sterotype the sexuality and after they get comfterble with them get them to tell them that there gay and then that might ease the blow...
think of it from your parents perspective... this is prety big... at least for them, because something like this can really effect someones life...
2007-11-15 03:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Simon R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even have to tell them? It's not really anyone elses business who you are sleeping with. Just do what you are going to do, they'll figure it out soon enough.
2007-11-15 02:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess sooner or later they'll know, they'll probably flip out, but I'm sure that if they really care about you, with time they'll accept you just the way you are.
2007-11-15 02:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by matrushka2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone your local gay and lesbian help line for advice.
2007-11-15 03:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your lifestyle and you won't have to.
2007-11-15 03:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Grandma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋