Ok...so I'm only 14 and a freshman, and my parents DID let me start hanging out with a senior who is almost 18. They only let me though because they knew he was a good kid and that he comes from a good family. So we started hanging out...and my parents told me that we weren't supposed to lay down on the couch or use a blanket...but when we were hanging out once it was cold so we used a blanket and were laying down. We weren't doing anything though. So now they won't let us hang out anymore! They say that I'm not mature enough to make the right decisions, but I can tell him no, and if I tell him no, he won't do it. He even already told me that he won't do anything that I'm not comfortable doing. So I don't know why my parents won't trust me?! Do you think I should still be able to hang out with him? Afterall, they let me start hanging out with him in the first place. They just say it was their mistake to let us hang out...but they can't turn it around and say we can't anymore, can they?
2007-11-15 09:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think ur parents are overreacting and try to prove to them that u r mature and they dont have anything to worry about.
2007-11-15 09:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
they can turn around and say anything that they want! they are your parents and you are only 14, and you did break their rules. i bet if you had obeyed the rules and you each had your own blanket and NO laying down, i bet you could still see him.
but i think your parents realized what a mistake they made letting you hang out with an 18 year old anyway.
a 14 year old and an 18 year old? not a whole lot in common except for messing around...
2007-11-15 17:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your parents trusted you and you have broken their confidence. You will have to work to gain their trust again and part of that will be that you recognise that you did the wrong thing and tell them you are sorry and understand that they are concerned. When they see that you are being mature about it they may go back to trusting you with this guy.
Personally I wouldn't let a 14 year old girl date an 18 year old guy. But that's just me.
2007-11-15 18:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should have never let you start hanging out with you in the first place. He is too old to be hanging around a 14 year old girl.
You said: "He won't do anything you are uncomfortable with". He shouldnt' be doing anything with you. He is an adult and you are still a child.
I know I'm going to get a bunch of thumbs down by those who are teenaged, but as an adult I have experience with these things.
2007-11-15 17:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
um u broke their rule and that was the only rule they gave u they are just trying to protect u and i am sorry i kno what it feels like next time if there is a next time use ur own blanket so there is no chace that u wont c him again since u love him enough to ask about him on yahoo answers
just next time try to get a younger bf that will help too
hope i helped i am srry if u find this offending i dont mean it to be
bye
2007-11-15 18:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Just Listen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. You broke their trust, by doing exactly what they asked you not to, cover up and lie down. If you want to hang out with him again....gain your parents trust again but doing what they ask, listening to their requests. Give it time, they may let you hang out again, when you show you are responsible enough.
2007-11-15 17:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by juneejunebug 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one because they probably should not have allowed that in first place but they did. What I would've done is talk to the guy and make certain he knows the consequences of actions! That's all.
2007-11-15 17:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by radman2035 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You blew it hon.
First it starts with a blanket, then a little more then a little more then your pregnant.
You will be 18 in 4 more yrs.Be patient.
2007-11-15 18:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Joe F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well - I'm sorry, but if you were cold you should have gotten your own blanket and not broken your parents rule... Thats what happens... Plus - I think he is too old for you anyway...
2007-11-15 17:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Me 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are too young to even have a boyfriend. Maybe your parents see how fast kids these days are and how grown they think they are!!
They can tell you whatever they want... you are 14!
2007-11-15 18:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by 90304 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
14 is too young for an 18 year old, they made a huge mistake even letting you see this guy, IMO.
2007-11-15 18:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋