i have one sister and she always say that i am fat but my family and my friends they say that u r not fat and they wish to be like my body i keep asking that question to every body i see so i stop eating and i was so tired and thin because of her to don`t say that u r big fat girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-11-14 11:28:37 · 13 answers · asked by rano 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sisters can be very cruel and they know *exactly* what to say to hurt you. Believe me, I grew up with a little monster!
Everyone will tell you to ignore her but the problem is that when you're young, you dont' really understand how this helps the situation and I'm sure this will just bait your sister further.
My guess is that you need to find something she's equally sensitive about and tease her about it. E.g. Big front teeth, big nose, horrible singing voice. She can't be perfect...
Hopefully this will shut her up!
Starving yourself won't help.. you need to learn to love yourself. Whatever your sister thinks is WORTHLESS if it hurts you. She's just being a jerk.
2007-11-14 11:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control what everyone else says however you can control yourself. You have a computer, educate yourself on nutrition for a girl your age. See what your weight should be for height and stay in that range. You sister says you are fat because she knows it makes you mad and hurts your feelings. No one can walk all over you unless you lie down. Ignore her.
2007-11-14 19:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your sister, she's probably just jealous. If everyone else says you are not fat then you are probably not fat. Don't stop eating because of something your sister says that's silly.
2007-11-14 19:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is whether what you think of yourself and not what anyone else things. You have to like yourself first.
Sometimes sisters will say things just to hurt you and you should not let her get the best of you. Like yourself for who you are and do not worry about what anyone anywhere thinks of your body.
If someone is trying to hurt you are you going to let them? Are they going to win what they wanted to do to you? Realize this first of all and next time just don't pay attention to her.
2007-11-14 19:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smiled a big smile at a oviously overweight woman, she gave me the weirdest glare. Like why the hell would you be looking at me, are you blind? Some meat on a woman is hot hot hot! It's more fun tossing you around, somtimes I throw skinny women around and they go through the wall, lol.
2007-11-14 19:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a single weight in this world it should not make you feel bad ignore them everyone has something they hate about themselves that they want to change like i am not that tone up.now just ignore them i would do the same thing
2007-11-14 19:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family sometimes are the worst Critics IGNORE her and if she keeps bothering u, Steal valuable items out of her room. **that will teach her**
2007-11-14 19:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by SexyEyez89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. how much do you weight. if you like ure body. Then there is no problem. So like ureself for who u r
2007-11-14 19:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by sierra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister says the same thing about me, but i know she's just teasing me b/c she's my sister and that's what sisters do. everyone else tells me i'm skinny, so i know that it's just my sister teasing me.
2007-11-14 19:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your sisters job! Her goal in life (well until your adults) is to piss you off and make you feel bad about yourself.
2007-11-14 19:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋