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2007-11-13 23:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

15 answers

Stop breaking the rules maybe?

2007-11-13 23:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 3 1

The classic sister problem. I have a younger sister that is 6 years younger than me. She is 20 and I am 26 now, but when I was a teenager I had the same problem you are going through. She did the telling on me thing all the time because she wanted me to spend more time with her. I really wish I would have, but I do understand your feelings. It can get very frustrating dealing with someone that only knows how to get attention in a negative way. Sit down with her and talk to her. Explain to her that you really don't like her very much when she tattles all the time. If it's not attention from you she is looking for, then ignore her and don't let her know when you have done something you shouldn't have. If she has nothing to tell on you for, other than ignoring her, then that should help with your problem. Good luck.

2007-11-14 07:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0 0

Siblings can be tough and can be quite annoying but I think the best answer is to find away to talk to her and explain to her how you feel. A good bonding period for the two of you to get to know each other might be helpful. Maybe your sister doesn't feel close to you and she's trying to get your attention, maybe she hates you, maybe this is her way of showing that she cares for you but is afraid to confront you about certain issues and instead runs to your parents for answers. Whatever the answer is... its best to find out. Beating her up won't solve anything, it might even worsen the problem. Just cool down for awhile before talking to her. If she means you harm in tattle tailing, I suggest to just try to stay away from her as much as possible and seek help from an authority figure like your parents or guardians or from school or even work. :)

P.S. When my sisters annoyingly tattle tailed on me just because they can and they didn't care about my feelings at all, I usually try to lay low for awhile and concentrate on finding dirt on them to tattle-tail on :)

2007-11-14 08:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by car2x.geo 2 · 0 0

I know how you feel. My best friend has a little brother and I feel like beating HIM up. She's probably younger than you, so she doesn't understand. Forgive her, it's not her fault.

Try to do things behind her back. So that she won't know. Or stop doing things that'll make her tell on you altogether.

Good luck!

2007-11-14 07:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by celine>:P 2 · 0 0

sounds like your doin a lot of stuff you shouldn't.You should be smart enough not to let her find out what your doin wrong. and you should not want to beat her up so either change your ways or get smarter , if you try to get smarter then you will be the only one you can blame, then see if you want to beat yourself up

2007-11-14 08:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

quit doing things that she can use to tell on you, and, if you do make a mistake, be the first one to talk to your parents admitting your mistake. This should stop her in her tracks. Not only that, if you are completely honest with your parents, then if the sis lies about you, the parents are more likely to believe you.

2007-11-14 07:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Larry V 5 · 3 1

Really and truly befriend her. Find things you both like to do together. Gain trust with each other.

2007-11-14 08:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0 0

Well dont beat her up. That would give her ammo. Sit and talk to her. Your sisters and thats a close bond.

2007-11-14 07:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 1 2

first of all stop doing the things she tells on you for, or learn to be sneakier. second of all beat her at her own game, til your parents get so sick of it that they don't want to hear it from either of you.

2007-11-14 07:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 2 0

Start telling on her every time she tells on you for a while. Hate to lower yourself like that but it will show her how it feels to be tattled on. Tell her you want a mutaul agreement not to do that anymore!

2007-11-14 07:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1 3

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