Ok I have been living with my mother for four months. I finally found an apartment. To move in I need $237 in all for electric bill and deposit with is cheap. About two weeks ago I worked at the school as a Sub-teacher for five days. So I get paid next week $250 before tax. I need the money to move in my apartment next moth but my mother wants $50 dollars of that. She knows I need the money. We can't get along at all and plus she don't want me there. I thank God she let me stay until I finally found my own place. What should I do? I can't afford to give her anything if I do I won't have enough money to move out her place. What should I do?
2007-11-14 02:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell her you will give it to her when you get paid next then give it to her when you get paid next
2007-11-14 02:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sitdown talk w/ Mom and tell her what You can pay and set up some type of payment plan that you two can agree on. How about a roommate!,,,Getting 2 jobs to pay her... Don't forget to start saving NOW.. It may not be much but it adds up.
You have a Mom still, both of you are special and don't see eye to eye but that is good. It means that you are growing and trying. We Moms get protective and want to help you weather the storm. You still have to GO THRU THE STORM> GOOD LUCK
2007-11-14 10:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Flamingo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she raised you from birth and allowed you to live with her so far, you cannot deny her the petty amount she is asking.However you too need the money,you may borrow the amount from some one known to you.If that is not possible,you should assure your mother that you will give her more amount than what she is asking as soon you get another job. I hope she will agree to it in the hope of getting a few dollars extra.
2007-11-14 10:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move into your place. It has to take priority but then pay your mother back as soon as possible. She probably wants the money now because she thinks once you move out, she will never see it.
Prove her wrong.
2007-11-14 15:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom if you can give her the money in a few weeks and you will but you need this money now to move out maybe look into getting a job some where for the hoilday rush
2007-11-14 10:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will have no other Option but to wait until your next pay check to pay her the $50. She'll just have to wait. You NEED your own place. Good Luck !!!
2007-11-14 10:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i give my mom 400 a month thats the least i can do i wish i could give her more really.... but hey just tell her you will give her the money on your next pay check good luck ......
2007-11-14 11:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by starglowshady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your mom the situation you are in and that once you get on your feet, you will pay her the $50.00 you owe her, hopefully she will understand.
2007-11-14 10:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋