Family - September 2007

I recently noticed that $40 have ben taken out of my money tin I have in my room. He has taken money before and it had been returned. (he did this to his brother) Well I must have asked it in the wrong way because now my family is thinking I misplaced the moeny. He was in my room saying the family cat ran under my bed. When he left I found $40 missing. I confronted his mother (my aunt) and things went downhill from there. Next thing I know I may have misplaced the money and blamed him, I may have spent the moeny. After the blow up she gives me $50 plus dollars and throws the rest of her money at me. I gave her the money back but she stil made me feel like a heel about it. I told her from now ON I will NOT mention anything if I find more missing. EVER. They still think its me misplacing it. How do I handle this? Yes I should not assume but he has done this before. I am thinking of getting a metal box with a key....or just depositing all money in the bank except for $10. any ideas?

2007-09-28 15:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by chubbazbubba 2

Lately my parents been pushing me to the breaking point. I am a full-time student and will be getting a part-time job on Monday. I do SO much for them. I clean the entire house, cook dinner when my mom doesn't feel like it, go run eranes for them, take care of the animals, mow the lawn, EVERYTHING! But it just seems like whatever I do is never good enough. They always have something to complain about. Also, sometimes my mother says really mean things to me like; if my boyfriend calls around 8pm to hang out. She says how I will be an ediot, run over there, screw him, then come home. Just mean things like that that really hurts. Plus, my dad does not do a single thing! He doesn't stand up for me or anything because he's afraid my mom will leave him! Anyways, I am 21, should be graduating from college next year in May (this is my last semester). My boyfriend has his own place and wants me to move in with him. I am too scared to tell them how I feel about anything.

2007-09-28 15:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad and my mom are in an argument because my mom kept yelling at me and cursing so my dad kept telling her yto stop because he saw what it was doing to me so she wouldnt listen so he grabbed her head kind and shook and it foward and backwards.. is this abuse? even though he was just trying to get her to stop verbally abusing me?

2007-09-28 15:27:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 15:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sis is pregnant...she told her friends, her bf family and a few other fam members our 2 aunts. but didnt tell me or her bro... i was hurt. she told me like 4 weeks in an email after she told them. as far as i know she hasnt told the rest of our fam...she put an announcement on myspace. i think she is being selfish. i was hurt i wasnt one of the 1st ppl she told. but she isnt on the best terms with our mom...( my sister lives in a different state than us) i think my mom has a right to know...my sis never answers her phone. so i dont think she is going to tell my mom. she thought we didnt have to tell mom..when our dad passed away cuz she was angry with our mom...she was one of those parents who played the kids against each other--SO naturally we were upset with her. she just thought we never had to tell her our dad died. i believe she has some issues cuz she didnt even pick up the phone to tell me she was pregnant. what shoud i do???

2007-09-28 15:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by nikkylyn 5

My mother-in law is the type if you say I have an idea to make more money, her reply is "I have tried to do that and I didn't get more" I am a gifted sculpture and would like to make a living doing it and she thinks I should work in the store and get on with it. However, on a night out she failed until the next day she had been talking to someone who could have offered me work. When I mention anything that enhances me, she always has a jealous face on. I watched a documentary the other night and she happened to watch a better one and when someone agreed with me on how good it was, she changed the subject.

I feel she is trying to hold me back and it is starting to get on my nerves. I also, play sports and she says things like you won't do it when your are 50 (I am 25 now) I think it is time to either ignore her and do what I want or just keep being bitter.

2007-09-28 15:07:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is working on a project on the dinner table. I sat down to eat my dinner when he started yelling at me. Said i was making 2 much noise with my plate and fork!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude, then he started hitting me. And after that, he scratch me! Right now it's bleeding. What a *** hole!!!!! Well, what do u think?

2007-09-28 15:02:42 · 22 answers · asked by Such A Girly Girl 3

Everyday there are fights in my family. Whether it be my mom and dad or me vs my mom or me vs my dad. I find that for the last month i have cried every single night. We fight and we fight to finally i get to the point where i just want to hurt my mom ( inever do) but she makes me so angry and i make her angry. Also she is a big smoker and drinker and this annoys me and she yells at me when i insist that shes had to much. Is this all normal?

2007-09-28 14:56:36 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer l 1

My mom and grandmother went shopping and my mom disappeared leaving me with my grandmother. She didn't come back for a while ( a few years).

And when she did come back, it wasn't to be with me. She was hooked on drugs and needed to stay with my grandmother.

When she was around (she went to prison twice) our relationship was more of brother-sister (and barely that).

And since she was on drugs and hooking, one thing she instilled in me was that looks were everything. When I was 14, she asked me if I was hard (down there). I said no. Then she said, "I hope you have it better than your father." So, from that point on, I came to believe that women cared only about your physical appearance and sexual prowess.

So that's why I'm such a shallow bastard, if any of you have checked out my other posts.

I was sexually abused, but definitely mentally. These are only some of the early experiences with my mom.

Will I ever get over it, or am I scarred for life?

2007-09-28 14:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my dad went to go and get some gas for his lawn mower. He only wanted me to go, so I could pay for it, and he wouldn't have to walk up there, and it would be alot faster. Well, he gave me seven dollars to pay for it, and I came back, and he had pumped $7.01......and we only paid seven dollars for it. My mom only gave him a five dollar check, but he added two dollars.....so on the check, its got all of our information on it. I was just wondering if there was anyway we could get in trouble for this? Thanks Alot!!

2007-09-28 13:57:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am from a dominican family so of course we dont know the birds and the bees, and i always wanted to know what it was, what is the story???i asked my teachers but none of them know.....or so they say, so please what are the birds and the bees

2007-09-28 12:41:28 · 8 answers · asked by mario_wwe 2

I buy my son brand new clothes, so he has nice stuff to wear to school. He goes to his dad's every Thursday after school. His dad keeps the good clothes I send him in and sends him back to my house in clothes that are either too small, or have rips and stains. My son said that his dad hides the clothes so he can't bring them back. What can I do? I live in Ontario and every lawyer I have talked to said the judge will say that the clothes belong to my son not me. I can't afford to keep buying new clothes for him, and I am not dressing him in grubby clothing just because his dad has mental issues. I really need help with this, any suggestion would be greatly appreciated!!!!

2007-09-28 11:21:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are always up my butt about evreything and they blame stupid stuff that they did on ME what do i do about it?

2007-09-28 11:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by A-Chill 1

can anyone suggest any thoughts i could convey to my daughter who seems to be losing her confience. She never used to worry about walking up and down our street or going to the local shop, but for the past 6 mths she is getting more and more anxios about being left on her own or someone coming to take her away.
I just want to be able to reassure her but find myself wordless when he tells me this. I always act gently towards her and comfort her with cuddles and tlc and listen to her, but its like I lose all of my communication skills. I usually manage to pick my friends up when they need it and my job relies on my communication skills so what can i do? do any other parents have any tips or advice on this ?

2007-09-28 11:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by caramel 2

I have 3 children, my mom has to know every exact detail of their entire life. She comes over everyday, tells me everything I should and shouldn't do, gets mad when it isn't her way, nad just tries to take over. When my children get in trouble at home, they tell me "I'll tell grandmaw"! It makes me so mad. I like having her around but they are my children not hers. What should I do. I don't want to hurt her feelings. She even plans vacatrions for them without asking me first and ends up getting mad because we done had other plans. Please advise.

2007-09-28 10:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by TC 2

My daughter came home from being trown out by her soon to be ex husband. she doesnt do drugs or anything like that. she has two part time jobs. While I respect my sil wanting to be in charge. zBut i am supposed to leave work to take my daughter to work. I am suposed to pay for her dental and cell and all of that. my sil makes 3 times what i do and who knows how much more than my daughter. She just has to have everything her way.. She even says that soon she will retire and it will be ok because her brother and I can move in with her to help her pay her bills. I am not going to do that. She is just so demanding. She thinks that she runs the family when in fact we try to avoid her as much as possible. she is 60 never been married and has no children but she does have four dogs that have the run of the house. my daughter cleans up the pee and poop every day and the house just stinks. Bujt, she expects my daughter to pay for all the take out. they dont cook . my SIL ismybos

2007-09-28 09:50:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me tell some things about him:
-He is jealous of me for having more friends than him, and he is VERY insecure about it. I would like to add that he has social anxiety, but he doesn't agree with it.
-He calls me stupid when he gets C's, D's, and F's while i get A's,B's, and rarely C's.
- I know its normal, but he is really really annoying. He calls me immature because i watch Manga/Anime.
-He also hugs me, and he knows that i hate it and does it no matter what i do. I've been ignoring it all these and he still does it.
-He is a spoiled brat- he whines when he doesn't get his way, and hes 15 ALMOST 16! My parents have spoiled him.. He doesn't understand the value of money.
- He gets rough with me and hes bigger than me and hes fat, I'm a couple years younger than him, and if i don't do anything he tells me too he gets a bit physical.
And the final thing is that he is sexist. Like today he said "Your like all younger sisters, below my level." Something like that.
Any Advice?

2007-09-28 09:47:18 · 4 answers · asked by Mizunushi 2

i love my parents soo much but lately they are getting on my nerves..they don't care what i have to say and im thinking of running away if uve ran away b4...how dose it feel?

2007-09-28 09:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife told me not to try to contact her this weekend as she was going to be in Cognito. I have looked in my AA mapbook, but no such place is mentioned. Does anyone know where Cogniti is?

2007-09-28 09:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 09:20:08 · 3 answers · asked by babygirl00087 2

im throwing a party and were gonna have a scavengure hunt
and im all out of ideas for the riddles
any suggestions?

2007-09-28 09:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by Nestor S 2

Maybe this is normal. My son who is now 8 years old was a very fussy baby, but by the time he was just over a year he was a very good baby. My daughter on the hand who is now 19 months old still acts fussy and gets really upset at the most trivial things. She is pretty much fussy more than half the time she is awake. I have tried to let her cry it out, but it doesn't work she will not stop. If i am cooking, cleaning, or anything besides laying down on the floor with her she tries to cling to me and cries. she does the same with my wife. She is still on the bottle (I know I am a horrible parent for this) and there is no breaking her of that. She has really put a strain on my wifes and my relationship. I really am at a loss as what to do. If anyone has tips I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-09-28 09:12:14 · 4 answers · asked by headsplint 2

and when i stood up for myself she hated it and said i am no longer apart of her life because she meant what she said. We had a big row but i dont know should i make the first move to make up wiv her??? HELp ASAP

2007-09-28 09:10:10 · 5 answers · asked by sxc caramel 07 1

To make a long story short my cousin-in-law just started going 2 my school and he's a year ahead of me and he claims he doesn'r remember me cuz we only met 2 times. He won't talk 2 me but I want him to!!! plz help me :(

2007-09-28 08:47:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

(accidentally had this in the wrong section last time)

I'm 30. My mom has had brittle diabetes since I was one. She did not do the things she should have to help herself (exercise, eat right ...). Since I was around 5 I did all the laundry, made dinner (mac and cheese) for the family, and cleaned the house. My childhood was taken with this. Still, she did not help herself. She is very religious and always lectured me. She did not do things with me, did not even attend my bridal shower. Since I was a child, she was always "too sick" to do anything. Now she is 100 pounds overweight, blind, and has literally been sitting in front of the tv for 3 decades. She does not lift a finger. I have no respect for her. My father now has to do everything and it is so much for him. I still harbor anger toward her. How should I handle my relationship with her?

2007-09-28 08:45:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son's father has not seen him in 8 years. He came back into the picture for a couple of months this year, and has stopped. My husband thinks that I should invite him to my sons baptism and I am just tired of seeing my son hurt over this situation. I don't know what to do, I don't want my son to blame me in the future. What's your advice?

2007-09-28 08:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by TC 2

Okay i love my mom don't get me wrong and maybe about 20 % of the time she can be okay to be around!
but i'm stuck in this jam! I want to spend time with her but she has no respect for my words! I will sit there and listen to all her rants and camlaints even follow up with positive questions to show her the good side of life! she will cut me off most the time to get what she wants to say
I have had the talk to her in a nice way. nothing seemed to comefrom it! I love her but i feel my only last option is to just ignore her but i want her in my life I only have 1 mom!
i have sent her articles on how to be postivie i just don't think she cares!
then to cut me off over half the time i say anything! just to say what she want's to hear! from previous post i let her talk about her self with the 3 months we have worked to gether she asked how my day was maybe 2 times yet i ask her everyday I show intrest in her life she don't! in mine! i'm out of options and characters what can i do

2007-09-28 08:39:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has autisum and its really hard to live with her! She is always screaming if she doesn't get her way which means I can't always do what I wanna do. She is not spoiled she has a mental problem so it is not her fault so plz dont say that my parents spoil her! Does anyone else have a sibling or relative with autisum or something like it? (I don't know if i spelled autisum right bear with me ok)

2007-09-28 08:34:26 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren M 2

i took my 2 1/2 year old daughter to go see her bio father/ my ex today.
everything went okay he was really happy to see her and im pretty sure it was genuine happiness, after all he hasnt seen her at all in almost 2 1/2 years.
im just not sure if im ready to trust him with her alone yet. Its not like hes abusive or a drug addict or anything its just i dont know if hes seeing anyone or what they are like etc.
what would you guys do in my position?

2007-09-28 08:34:02 · 8 answers · asked by Lucia F 1

not sure I should go. Reason? Well this girl sent me an email some months ago, telling me not to email her anything and that she HATES me. I have never done anything to her to make her feel this way either. She has sisters and I treat her sisters the same way I have treated her, and her sisters BOTH like me- so I cannot understand why she would hate me.
I cannot stand the idea of staying at her house for 3 days and having to make "nice nice" with her when I know she hates me for no reason. The hubby knows about this email and has refused to talk with her about respecting me as I am his wife, matter of fact he has never stuck up for me against any family member that disrespects me and this happens alot with his family. (mind you again, I am very respectful of everyone and always put someone elses needs before my own, as I was raised to do this and I have consideration for others too)
Should I tell him I dont want to go? and HOW can I tell him?

2007-09-28 08:30:04 · 19 answers · asked by flyingdove 4