I buy my son brand new clothes, so he has nice stuff to wear to school. He goes to his dad's every Thursday after school. His dad keeps the good clothes I send him in and sends him back to my house in clothes that are either too small, or have rips and stains. My son said that his dad hides the clothes so he can't bring them back. What can I do? I live in Ontario and every lawyer I have talked to said the judge will say that the clothes belong to my son not me. I can't afford to keep buying new clothes for him, and I am not dressing him in grubby clothing just because his dad has mental issues. I really need help with this, any suggestion would be greatly appreciated!!!!
2007-09-28 11:21:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I can't send him back to school that his dad sends him in because kids will tease him. It's not fair to him that his dad his not mature.
He does anything it takes to make me made, have no money, his mom goes around town telling people rumors about me, she harrasses me but I can't prove it, she even went to the school the other day to watch my friend pick up my son. They are sick people and I can't do nothing about and the law doesn't want nothing to do with it. And who gets hurt? My son. NOT FAIR
2007-09-28 11:33:17 · update #1
On Thursdays, send the grubby clothes your ex sent with your son the last week, back to school with him in a bag. Have him change at the end of the day (so he doesn't have to wear the crappy clothes at school) before his Dad picks him up and tell him to leave his good clothes at the school. Talk to the teacher to get him/her to help your son with this. That way your ex can't get his hands on your sons clothes.
Good luck!
2007-09-28 11:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the both of you are being a little petty and need to focus on your son rather then the clothing......don't put your son in the middle of this and try to settle this issue with your x ....if he cant and plays the dumb card.....then next Thursday he goes to his fathers house have him wear something that is old and still fits but wont be missed if it doesn't come back .....I realize the price of clothing these days are very expensive...but it seems that there is a little bad feeling between the both of you...hopefully I am wrong
2007-09-28 18:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send your son back to his father in the same (but washed) clothes. Keep your sons good clothes at your house and send him off in well worn clothes.
Your son's father sounds like an ***.
2007-09-28 18:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angela O 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
send an extra set of clothes with your son and have him change before he leaves school?
2007-09-28 18:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont send him there until the clothes are returned to you
that has to be the most immature thing I have ever heard
anyone can be a father takes a real man to be a dad
2007-09-28 18:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by stickerbush1970 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe your son could change his clothes after school?
Seriously, this is silly . . . why is he doing this? Have you talked to him?
2007-09-28 18:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋