Family - September 2007

I'm just curious. I think for my family of 7 I spend about £180 a week

2007-09-30 11:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Nicole ♥ 3

my dad does because he never stop talking about today with the credit cards thing and he never will drop it.my dad scares me alot because he get angry you never believe he gets angry so easy and blame it on me with his and his issue. i hate my dad and i can't miss my homework because i won't grad without it. i can't help getting angry i got this problem.my dad thinks is all about me but it is not about all of time.do you hate your dad as well as me.my dad is a wild beast on a loose. don't ever get my dad angry he'll get you angry so easy you would get ino lots of trouble.did this happen to your dad with these problem.

2007-09-30 11:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my parents always said i could be whatever i wnated
now im a junior in highschoolm ive made up my mind that i want to become a pilot and they told me they wouldnt support me in college and that if i wanted to be something abnormal for my career id had to get a loan


is this normal?

2007-09-30 10:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so two days ago, my husband was at work, my daughter was at dance class, and my son was at baseball practice. So I am cleaning out the house. I go up to my daughters bedroom to clean it. She had 3 barbie dolls and 2 american girl dolls in the middle of her bedroom. I pick them up and put them in her toy trunk. I make her bed, and go downstairs. As I am cleaning the dishes, and I am about to go upstairs again, I couldn't believe it. Right in front of the bottom of the stairs were my daughters dolls, lined up. I freaked and ran out of the house until my husband got home. He didnt believe me. This also happened another time. My daughter was in bed with her dolls next to her. I said goodnight, and went to bed. My husband was away on a business trip. The next morning I wake up really early, and my daughters dolls are next to me. I'm like what the bloody hell, so I go downstairs. My daughter comes up to me later and says "where are my dolls mom?"

Do I have living dolls in my house?

2007-09-30 10:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

people said i did good and some people said they were going to vote for me.I would love to win.But other people say that my speech was funny and some people said they were not going to vote for me.I have friends and they voted for me and i have 9 people in all included me that are running for student c.Andi want to know really bad if i won.Only 3 people can win.This guy named austin and kj ran and they are popular and another girl is pretty popular but do you think i won or not and please be honest

2007-09-30 09:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

My mom has been really sad lately, and I just want to send her an e-card (she prefers those) to say I love her. A funny card would be best, but any will do.

Do you have any you reccommend?

Thanks :)

PS I'm her son, not daughter. so no "love, your daughter" cards :)

2007-09-30 09:44:05 · 2 answers · asked by bonjour 2

2007-09-30 09:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by shan 1

Right now my life isn't going so well. My older sister is always going out with her friends. My school-life is full of homework and gossip. On top of all of that....my parents. I love them to death, but they always fight. It's a routine when they get home. They would never get physical, but the harsh words make up for it. I try to go into the room and calm them down, but they just ignore me. When their done, there is so much tension in the room. I can't talk to them, they are either working, or fighting. My sister is always out, and she doesn't have that much time either, even if she did, she wouldn't understand. when they fight, she can just leave I don't have many "friends." The ones I do have I can't trust. However, I have not forgotten God, I always turn to him. But every once in a while, I would like to talk to someone who can relate. Someone who can say 'I know exactly what your going through.' Is there anyone else going through this? I need answers, thanks. God Bless <3

2007-09-30 09:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by Magdalena 2

My father has been going downhill for about a year now, with steadily getting more involved with cocaine. He has started spending his monthly Social Security check (which he would pay the rent with) which is now inevitably forcing me to pay his rent since my mother is still with him. She is incredibly passive and practically helpless.
Just recently he stumbled upon my checkbook and started writing checks to himself to get more money for his drugs. I know that I could press charges on him, but he is 64 years old and I dont want to see him rot away in jail.
Does anyone have any logical advice?

2007-09-30 09:29:15 · 4 answers · asked by Chuck 1

i lost my phone 3 weeks ago and someone else found it and talked on it my mom have to pay 260 dollars to cancelled my phone however has it won't be able to use it anymore.

2007-09-30 09:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 09:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by beachmomma 2

my dad gives my mom $ for child support but i have a few questions
1. what exactly is child support for?
2. if my brother lives with my dad now and i live with my mom how come my dad still has to pay when my dad doesnt?
even thouhgt my mom gets child support EVERY WEEK she always says that "she doesnt have the money" when ever i ask her for something. i dont eat alot of food and she doesnt buy me anything my theroy is that shes using the child support money for bills but is that what its for? should i tell my dad?
most of the time she makes me use MY money to buy clothes and lunch money and im only 14 and im starting to run out of $

help please im so confused! what should i do?

2007-09-30 09:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by K 2

2007-09-30 08:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by cherrybuster66 1

my parents are divorcing and i have already choosen to live with my mom but like she says nothing is changing and everything is, its like the world around me is just going to end, and its like i can't get through this. everything is changing, their fighting all the time, i can't have some friends come to a party because my mom doesn't want them to just because of dad, or she tells me stuff, and its like i want to hear but then after im sooo upset about it, shes getting mad at me way more often, and its just like my life is unfair, what should i do, im turning 12 in 2 weeks

2007-09-30 08:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad was an alcoholic when I was younger. After my mom took years of emotional abuse she filed for divorce. My dad had custody of me on weekends...he'd either call to cancel cuz he was drinkin...or he just wouldnt show up. After years of having nothing to do w/ him..I found out he has diabetes..pretty badly too..he wrote me a letter months ago blaming me for a lot of stuff...i wrote him one back tellin him how much he had hurt me through the years...he never wrote back..for the 1st time in years this past december we got together...unfortunately for my grandma's funeral...we talked for awhile...I want so badly to have him in my life again, but at the same time something is holding me back. I feel as if he abandoned me for so long he shouldnt get to know the person i've become...after all who i've become is no thanks to him..however, he is very sick n i wouldnt want him dyin thinkin that his daughter hated him...please help....

2007-09-30 08:06:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

however, my wife is very passive with them. Both her mother and sister get away with bossing her around and making my wife do all the birthday and family crap that involves them.
Although, I have to admitt it's gotten better over the years, but it still happens at least once a month.

They also call on me for everything they need. Fixing cars, toilets, sinks, ceiling fans, landscaping , etc. ...

The other night, my mother-in-law rose her voice at me because I was running late taking my son to Cub Scouts, and the mother-in-law was there to watch my two year old daughter.
My two year old cries when my son and I leave for scouts without her ( she is a huge distraction at the den meetings).
But last meeting both my son and I were running late, and my mother-in-law was pissed off because she had taken my daughter out, and when they came home we still hadn't left.
My wife's mother yelled, "WHY HAVEN'T YOU LEFT YET, I D0N'T WANT TO HAVE TO HEAR HER CRYING"!

2007-09-30 07:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by BIGDAWG 4

My wife and I have a 14 month-old daughter who we named to honor both of our mothers. We used my mother in law’s nickname, used mainly at work, as our daughter’s first name and a version of my mother’s first name as her middle name. We told everybody our name selection prior to the birth and everything seemed fine until I called my mother to announce our daughter’s birth. That’s when she started raising the biggest stink about how we showed favoritism towards the other grandmother by naming our daughter this way. We refused to change our name choice but agreed that my parents can call her by any nickname they like. The catch is that they insist that everybody else call her that nickname before they start using it themselves. Of course everybody calls our daughter by the name we chose, so for the past 14 months they haven’t called her any name at all, just referring to her with pronouns.
What are your thoughts about this behavior and ideas on how to settle this dispute?

2007-09-30 07:31:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at his house and he gave me this drink it said on its "tropical Japanese Beer" i saw the word "beer" on it and i knew it was achoal and illegal because i am underage (15) i poured the drink in the sink and this white foam came out (like beer) and i said uncle this is beer he said no no all pop drinks do that.. i was like okay.. and i drank it. at first i didnt feel anything but i my stomach it came like this hot burning feeling. Was this an alchoal or a typical drink? Also my cousin (9) drinks it all the time. I pride myself on never doing sex/drink/smoke/drugs/steal i will be terrified if this was alchoal.

2007-09-30 07:23:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

His mother goes 5 to 6 months without contact, this has been going on now for the last 7 years. He has finially decided himself that he is tired of it and wants nothing to do with her

2007-09-30 06:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 1

2007-09-30 05:33:48 · 12 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1

ok so my dad dies when i was about 9 and ever since then it has just been me and my mom living together. im a teenager so of course im going to talk back to my mom but i do do it all the time. evyertime i have a friend over i tell her to go away and i can't even explain it but im always soo mean. my mom always tells me how i make her cry and how i nbeed to stop being soo mean and im completly runing my relagionship w/ my mom. im not mean to anyone else but when it come to my mom i justr can't controll wat i say. i really need soe help before something happens that will ruin my life.

2007-09-30 04:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

the 3 of us me and my parents have just had a major bust up, and my mother will not speak to me and my dad is not speaking to my mother, she is even refusing to come on holiday with us in november. That doesn't matter, but she nags and she nags all the time never stop she has even stopped cooking meals I have had to do the cooking and the washing, when she leaves for work it is 6.45am and when she gets in it is 18.15pm she slams doors, she bangs everything she does allsorts.

We are tired of telling her to stop banging doors anyone can help me to pull this family back together before something else major happens,

Today it was over a peace of meat that it had gone into early she has always told me to put it in at 14.30pm everytime I have cooked a dinner and now she has said it was far too early cos it is a little peace of meat!!!!!!!!!ANYONE HELP

2007-09-30 02:58:11 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6

Okay, my mom and dad gave up smoking about 2 years ago, but i have just found out that my dad is still smoking ( my mom doesen'e know ). My mom hates liars, REALLY hates liars, should i tell my mom about my dad or leave it alone?

2007-09-30 02:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6

For x number of years you have lived quite happily as Harry Potter for example. Then, thanks to JK Rowling has your life been turned upside down? Is your name David Beckham, Jonny Wilkinson, or worse, Ian Huntley, Fred West etc. Your stories please.

2007-09-30 01:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by Barry K 5

I've had to move back home after university because I'm broke and trying to find a job but my parents are both very abusive towards me. They think giving me a roof over my head gives them free rein to say what they like and do what they like towards me, verbally or physically, especially when they're drunk (they both have drinking problems). Last night was the worst, they both were drinking and woke me up at 3am to have a go at me for no reason apart from they were drunk. I can't afford to get a place of my own yet but they are both really upsetting me and causing a lot of stress. I have no family or friends in the area I can go to. Do I bite my tongue till I can afford to leave or do I get out now? Any suggestions much appreciated, I'm at my wits end and I don't know what to do.

2007-09-30 00:26:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

want to know about the behiouver when a lady need sex

2007-09-29 21:56:49 · 17 answers · asked by Vishal A 2

My friend has just found out that her dad isn't her biological father. Her mum had IVF or IUI. This was 13 years ago. Is there anyway she could trace him if she wanted to?
xxx

2007-09-29 20:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

A family member just died and we're all having a hard time. My mom and I got into an argument when I was really upset and not really thinking. I said things that I didn't actually mean but I said them just out of unhappiness, and I told my mom I thought she was being apathetic because she had said she couldn't miss work, etc. I realized I was totally wrong when I started to calm down, and I'm pretty sure I made her feel bad by calling her apathetic. I don't really know how to say how sorry I am to her, so what are some good ways to apologize in a situation like this???

2007-09-29 20:10:11 · 6 answers · asked by kuronekosama_3 1

My parents always think they have me figured out so they always try to do what they think I would want them to. My dad never cares about my problems with friends or whatever and my Mom never cares that I'm sad or in a bad mood. So I always argue with them. And a good part of the time they cause the arguement. My mom will ignore something i told her 5 minutes ago. She never cares about what my other friends think, and when all three of my closest friends got cell phones, she kept telling me that I couldn't get one because "my attitude" wasn't improving. She never cares. I could come home in a sad mood and she would barely care. Today I told her I was made fun of because I didn't have a cell phone, and she was like "well if you want one so bad, show me." She just dismisses any of my concerns. I've felt suicidal before things have gotten so bad. I confine in my friend more then my parents a good portion of the time.

2007-09-29 18:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by tstud925 3

Well i try to be myself but my family make it almost impossible to be myself around them. I have completely different interests then the rest of my family, i mean everyone is different. But my brothers, sisters and my parents are always bullying and laughing at me for what im interested in. For example i like the show Futurama but since no one else in my house does they all poke fun saying how can you like that show, its like this with everything. They poke fun at what i wear, what i watch on tv, what things im interested in. I just cant be myself.
I have tried talking to them and saying it hurts me when they are always putting me down but they just say they are being truthful and keep doing it. I now confine myself to my room all the time and i dont talk to anyone much about anything becuase im afraid they will be nasty to me. How can i be myself without being picked on all the time??

2007-09-29 16:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous