Family - September 2007

Okay so recently my husband has just been furious with and picking fights with me for no real reason at all. Here's why. We have a 31/2 year old (my Stepson), whom I am very close to. I do everything for this boy. I cook for him, clean up after him, play with him, bathe him, dress him, and make sure he always has everything he needs. I treat him and care for him like I would my own child. And as a result we have become really close. Baby prefers me over Mommy and Daddy 98% of the time. He has become extremely attached to me to. He always wants me to carry him or hold him and he doesn't want to go anywhere without me, he always has to be with me wherever I go. And most recently he’s even been crying for me when he goes to him moms house, which just infuriates her to no end and she calls daddy and yells at him. "why are they so close" Why does he like her so much" The baby likes me so much b/c he knows I take care of him.

2007-09-28 08:25:30 · 11 answers · asked by Savannah J 1

...and getting caught by you parents?
What did you do, and what sort of punishment did you receive?
Personally I have way too many to list!

2007-09-28 08:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by Smiley 4

Why do parents want to spend so much time with us teens???We aren`t interested!

We hate it when you drag us somewhere for a "family gathering".Or when you want to sit down and talk to us about things we don`t care about.

We would rather be on the phone talking to friends,or on the internet.So why do you torture us???

2007-09-28 08:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just answer a question from a girl who has a friend who has had 13 abortions!!!! What do you think about women who use abortion as birth control?

2007-09-28 08:09:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my sister were really close and i feel i have lost her forever. i dont no what to do Should i put it all behind me or tell her how i feel

2007-09-28 07:30:17 · 8 answers · asked by Tink91 1

The neglect and physical abuse was too much for me I left when I was 15, it was hard at first ... I actually lived in a Salvation Army Box for a few months. I finished school got my degree and work in Compliance which I enjoy. There must be a God because the -1- child we do have is well adjusted. My parents have not changed ... but I still pray for them. Is it just me or are all families like this? Lately I've been hearing parents swearing at their babies, telling the to shut the f-ck up.

2007-09-28 05:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by Shells 4

My mom has always had control issues with her kids (specially me). I'm 20 years old and I do live under her roof but I'm not allowed to go out during the weekends. I have to come home early or else she tells me that I wan't to kill her with the stress I give her when she knows I'm out. Seriously I hate this so much. I guess that's why I'm depressed most of the time. I first have to deal with my personal problems then I can't ever get out of my house. In december I will be turning 21, what can i do to get more freedom. Is it right that she is like this? she says that it is because she has no trust because i always lie to her, but for a reason I am doing it, she need to back off.

2007-09-28 05:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

we talked about alot of stuff and she asked me a whole bunch of personal questions and even about girl friends if i ever had one, if i ever had sex and she asked if I may be gay? geez , i said no way mom, but how do i ask her about if i am developing down there correctly or the right way about making sperm and when will it develop in me, and why is it that i only see clear stuff, should i just be open with her and ask these?

2007-09-28 05:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by bobby 1

for example
Walk a Little Straighter
I Love you This Much

2007-09-28 05:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by tmhangel 1

What is the right method to wash mouth with soap?
1. Should I use bar-, hand-, liquid-, or dish-soap?
2. Should I put soap to my hand, then rub the lips(mouth) with my soaped palm? Sounds kind of fine to me. Or is placing the soap indside the open mouth better?
Anyone whose mouth was washed with soap or who has washed someone´s mouth with soap, could you tell me about your experience and feelings?

2007-09-28 05:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a brand new home and it's simply gorgeous. My husband's mother was supposed to only be here for a vacation, but it looks like she's wearing out her welcome. One day she says she wants to go to California, the next day she says she wants to move back to Texas. Now she's in the talks of staying here!!!

I'm about to lose my mind. She smells up the house with her smelly cooking, she makes my cats uncomfortable and I can't even enjoy unpacking my things or watching TV without her nagging me. It's like "Everybody Loves Raymond" but worse because she's actually IN the house.

She's old, she has no money and when I saw the guest room she's staying in, it looks like she's all settled in. I talked with my husband about taking her away, but he's so busy with work and other things.

What should I do? How do I get her out? (I already thought of threatening my husband of moving out until she leave but that's not fair --it's my house too and I don't feel I should leave 'cuz of her.)

2007-09-28 04:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jeannie B 2

Probably sometime in december I wil be heading either to missssippi or to idaho. my mom lives in idaho and I miss her like crazy!! so i was thinking...would it be better if when december comes..to just fly to idaho? my boyfriend likes my mom. but hey atleast i'm not going to move with my boyfriend alone. if i talk to him today i will tell him the idea and see if he wants to go with coming here and we both fly to idaho together.

2007-09-28 04:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by Das_Jennster 2

I'm still youngish and maybe my mind will change but as far back as I can remember I have not really wanted kids.
I've never googood over babies, never felt broody and always knew that I'd never pursue a baby down every possible avenue (meaning if it didn't come naturally I wouldn't go for IVF etc)

My question is, hopefully to someone who's been there, how valid/genuine are these feelings? Is it possible to instinctively feel that something is just not a good idea for you when it concerns such a big issue? If this is the case, is there still a regret once the chance to reproduce is well and truly gone?

2007-09-28 04:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Elle Dee 3

my mom is a really hard worker i mean a REALLY hard worker she owns 2 places and workes in a hospital my dad just lays there all day on the couch and watches TV i want to help my mom out but i dont know how can you help me

2007-09-28 04:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by anie 1

I grew up in a house that there was no fighting. There was a dad that knocked us around if he got angry so nothing was ever really solved.
Im over that but Im still learning that arguements are ok and healthy sometimes. So when I argue with my boyfriend i get flustered sometimes. We only have small arguements and they are not hurtful or malicious, but how does a good arguement go?
Do we move it away from the 3 yr old? Or let her see how things get solved?

2007-09-28 03:34:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my step daughter is only 13 years old and well she was talking to this boy she met at the movies. well she told me how old he was which is 16. well she told me can i trust you, but i feel like i should tell her dad because everyone knows how some teenage boys are , they only think about 1 thing most of the time , well anyways she will not talk to me .i dont think i did the wrong thing, please tell me opinion is she too young to talk to a 16 yr old boy?? also he doesnt even know her that well and he told her that he loves her.

2007-09-28 03:33:17 · 22 answers · asked by JENN-JENN 2

I got engage with my boyfriend almost 5 months . my dad doesn't know about my engagement . but he dosen't agree with me being with someone out of my race . what do i do . I love my husband to be so much . but i also love my dad . help .

2007-09-28 03:29:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

THEY ARE 15yrs. AND IN HIGH SCHOOL .

2007-09-28 03:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by sweetie 1

2007-09-28 02:58:15 · 29 answers · asked by Dylan D 2

Black today..... he is 2 years old ,,we live in a realy nice village in Lincolnshire....But my son went " Crazy" when some Huge black looked at him..!!! ( most in the Bank also stoped talking... 4 old ladys walked out )...there's not many around here...what can i do ..?......Blacks are part of my village now , any ideas..?????

2007-09-28 02:53:53 · 32 answers · asked by Pinhead 2

My dad, 70, was just diagnosed with Liver cancer and is given 3 months more. He enjoyed life (perhaps too much) and I always dreaded this day, and now it is here. I am the eldest and he is always looking for me now, though my sibs have made the travel home. I have finally organized the trip ( I just had a beautiful daughter born 2 weeks ago) and I am expected to tell him that he has not much time left. We all love dad, inspite of his stubborness and unhealthy lifestyle ("those who are not prepared to die are not fit to live" is a favorite saying of his) Im sure dad seeing my newborn daughter would make him so happy. Another question, I am looking forward... is would he welcome hospice care (if available?)

2007-09-28 02:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Francis D 1

Do you think it is good thing that bachelors live with their parents?
Adventages are saving money, taking care of parents,,,etc.
Disadvantages are dependence or something....
Let me know your ideas.

2007-09-28 02:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She gets so mad over the stupidest stuff
like last night i called my dad and asked if i could go to homcomeing and he said yea so i said id call him when i needed a ride home
I could hear my step mom in the background sayin
She dont neeed to do what ever she F wants
She gets to go do what ever she wants
My dad was trying to settle her down but she wouldnt stop
shes gone crazy and i dont know why shes not even resonsible for me i only say that because she treates me like crap like my mom and step dad did thats why i moved in with my dad
she yells at me for the stupidest reasons like one day
she was talkin to my grandma and said that my brother was gonna come live with me and i didnt know that
so i asked and she was like
First of all its none of your buisness
that got me so mad so i wouldnt talk to her at all the rest of the day that may seem childish but she gets on my nerves...

what do u think i should do i mean if i talk to her shell go even more crazy

2007-09-28 02:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by kmuentener 1

me and my brother grew up very close. all we had was each other. our dad was very strict, I went to drugs and alcohol, my brother stayed and kissed ***. later on we stayed close with our wives and kids, but a lot of crappy times happened along the way. there were a lot of fights, and flirting, and partying. now all of a sudden my brother and his kids want nothing to do with me. I know I've done a lot of dumb things in my drunken past, that I deeply regret, but I want to know from my brother what exactly, and why he won't talk to me anymore, he's the only brother I got, any suggestions??????????????

2007-09-28 01:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just had a baby and MIL has shown her true colors. Thankfully she is 8 hours away, and is jealous of my mom who's nearby. Last time MIL visited, she was rude and selfish to me and my mom, and told my mom my nursing plans weren't going to last long (doing well thank you, planning for at least 1 yr - she failed herself), was trying to run my household (not happening again), and still expects for y husband to fill her in all the details of everyday with our baby which seems so fake (did you go on a stroll today? what about with other moms? still nursing? starting solids at 3 mos?! how much is he weighing? She peppers him with so many Qs about me and baby! She didn't even say goodbye to the baby last time b/c she run out annoyed. She seems to have also brainwashed my brother-in-law who used to be so nice, and was very different last time he visited. They plan to visit in a week and it's stressful thinking about it. I don't get it. Why can't she act normal? What would you do?

2007-09-28 01:38:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My in-laws want to take our children for a few weeks next summer. My biggest concern is my that mother-in-law works at night (sleeps during the day) and my sister-in-law is deaf. I have a child with special needs and the other two who are very active. Both of my in-laws are sound sleepers, and I am terrified of something happening to any of my children. My mother-in-law has NO intention of taking any time off of work to help supervise my children, and with my sister-in-law being deaf, wouldn't be able to hear if something happened. What do I do?

2007-09-28 00:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by navywife_2001 3

Are you doing things your parents did that you thought you never be doing?

2007-09-28 00:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 00:26:28 · 4 answers · asked by gmailkid 1

just need some help, i recently graduated from high school...and i know i have a future ahead of me open to a new social life...but i keep thinking about this gorgeous boy at the bus stop who just happens to be 2 years younger than me (im 18) hes 16....what sucks is i thought he was as old as me when i first saw him cause he was taller and pretty mature looking.....I've noticed him looking at me a few times and i think...THINK... once he even missed the bus for me, we always give each other glances...but i don't know if thats just because i look at him and make it obvious...and i wanna find out if he likes me before i approach him...he mite get intimidated having an 18yo approaching him....how can i do this?...i feel weird being older...but i cant help it...

2007-09-28 00:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by Madelline C 1

My mother in law sends cards every year but this year nothing, but what makes it even worse is my son will be 3 tomorrow and she hasn't even sent a card for him!! I am of course annoyed, not so much about my card but for my son...who at the end of the day is her grandson. If I moan my husband sticks up for her...would this annoy anyone else?

2007-09-27 23:58:06 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ Bettyb ♥ ™ 4