we talked about alot of stuff and she asked me a whole bunch of personal questions and even about girl friends if i ever had one, if i ever had sex and she asked if I may be gay? geez , i said no way mom, but how do i ask her about if i am developing down there correctly or the right way about making sperm and when will it develop in me, and why is it that i only see clear stuff, should i just be open with her and ask these?
2007-09-28 05:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like your Mom was trying to be open and honest and establish communication between you two. Ask her what you feel comfortable about asking her. Also you may want to do some research on line or at the library if you are too embarrassed to ask her.
2007-09-28 07:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a smart kid because you feel the need to question these things. The "average joe" wouldn't take such an active concern with how they are developing. If you really want to ask such questions seek a professional. Your mom can only give you so many answers and then her knowledge is spent.
2007-09-28 12:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by HealthCareCompaniesSuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to learn more about development in puberty, you can talk to your doctor, or do a yahoo search for MALE DEVELOPMENT IN PUBERTY, or similar searches.. lots of helpful info on the net.
take care and i'm sure you are perfectly "normal".... if you are maturing now, you probably already have sperm.
2007-09-28 12:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by asking her a question related and see how she responds, i'm sure she will be fine about it but if you dont feel comfortable then ask away on here, most people on here give great advice and are here to listen, so you will get lots of help xx good luck with your mum. x
2007-09-28 12:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go ahead and ask her. She's your mom... She has seen it all before sweetie. She talked to you about the stuff she did because she wants you to know that she is there for you and wll answer any questions you have.
2007-09-28 12:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable talking about it with your mom then just keep asking questions on yahoo about it.
2007-09-28 12:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Be open. She sounds like a good lady to talk with.
2007-09-28 12:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by lu_dicrous 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u feel comfortable with her just ask her everything u are worried about....i know it might be embarassing to u but your mom will appreciate tat u feel comfortable coming to her about things no matter how uncomfortable it might make u feel
2007-09-28 12:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Pixie311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable talking to her like that, then go ahead. If not, ask someone you feel you can trust.
2007-09-28 12:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by bushnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...its prlly better if u talk 2 a male u trust...sumone with experience...
2007-09-28 12:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋