Step mom gone mad?

Question

She gets so mad over the stupidest stuff
like last night i called my dad and asked if i could go to homcomeing and he said yea so i said id call him when i needed a ride home
I could hear my step mom in the background sayin
She dont neeed to do what ever she F wants
She gets to go do what ever she wants
My dad was trying to settle her down but she wouldnt stop
shes gone crazy and i dont know why shes not even resonsible for me i only say that because she treates me like crap like my mom and step dad did thats why i moved in with my dad
she yells at me for the stupidest reasons like one day
she was talkin to my grandma and said that my brother was gonna come live with me and i didnt know that
so i asked and she was like
First of all its none of your buisness
that got me so mad so i wouldnt talk to her at all the rest of the day that may seem childish but she gets on my nerves...

what do u think i should do i mean if i talk to her shell go even more crazy

Answer 1

If she keeps it up, you need to report her behavior to a school counselor or child protective services. That is no way for an adult to treat a child.

Answer 2

gee hon, your stepmother is RUDE! i'm really sorry.

i would guess that your stepmother is jealous of you? that is all i can think of? it's really sad when an adult feels she had to be mean and "compete" with a stepdaughter, that is for sure.

I found a website for teens coping with stress... there is all sorts of information. This particular article talks about stress and divorce at first, but does seem to give positive ways to cope with stress. And there are a lot of other articles on the site, which you might check out?

I also found Teen Matters website, and i saw a link about coping with stress.. Perhaps you could check that out?

Maybe someday soon you could get away privately with your dad for a while.. talk with him about the step mother. You don't have to be mean, but you could let him know how you feel about the way she talks to you -- "I'm feeling hurt, angry and upset that she talks down to me" is one thing you can say. Your father really needs to talk to her, but whether he will is another story?

I hope you get some good answers here, and that these websites will give you some help too. take care ok? hugs

Answer 3

I was once told that it is very hard for someone to love someone elses children, at first i never believed it until i saw what my friend went through,, her step mum was jealous of the attention that her husband would give to his daughter, sad as it is my friend sat with her dad and told him that she thought her stepmum was good for him.. but when it comes to her she treated her with no respect at all.... her dad agreed to talk with her... but it still didn't work in front of her dad she was great but when her dad was not around the claws came out... so one morning she waited for her stepmum to come to the breafast table. then she told her that she respected her because she was her dads wife but other than that, she didn't want to be her friend and that she will keep out of her way if she keeps out of her way also...... and so if she had to ring her dad she did and she never asked her step mum questions, it wasn't easy for her, but she did it....

Answer 4

I THINK you should sit down with your dad and her and explain how you feel calmly and if she goes off let your dad handle the situation, sound's like she might be feeling alittle or alot jealous of your relationship with your dad and that is very wrong make sure your dad know's how you feel if you can't let her know then let him handle it himself if she is just totally unreasonable.
Good Luck honey

Answer 5

How old are you ? First step is to talk to your dad and tel him how you feel, the rest is dependent on your age as to what behaviour maybe setting her off etc

Answer 6

you should really talk to her. It is bad to hold a grudge on peole. I learnt the hard way. so sit down and tell her how you feel.