Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

feeling like "dont trust anybody"
lost hope every body........
does honesty exist???
iam givinp up............
iam confused i dont know wats happening
what should i ask ???
hat should i expect???
iam done....................

2007-12-07 02:06:19 · 20 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello

Im from Bolivia and i met a guy from australia 5 months ago, he came to live with me and my family during 2 months, during that time he didnt pay a penny for anything, was giving everything to him (food, electricity, a car, everything!). After those 2 months he leave, and i found out i was pregnant, he promise me marriage, that we will sort it out either me going to australia or he moving in my country. With the time was more and more difficult find him to talk about the situation and now im 4 months pregnant and desperate about what to do. Im planning to to australia, and give birth there, because everything is a mess in my country, I do think will be the best for the baby. My questions are.. If i can give birth there without having troubles because im planning to go with a tourist visa. And if i get some support from any institution in legal advice to get to my baby the last name of the father, and get with it Child support, because i will be single mother. please help

2007-12-07 02:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by Sortilegio 2 in Family

Our wedding and reception is very medieval themed as some of you might know from my previous posts. Our reception is being held outside in a very large garden. We were thinking of setting up some sort of medieval games for the children, out of the 40 guests invited, 14 will be children. Looking for suggestions. We thought perhaps we would take some bow & arrows (nerf tips ofcourse) and set up targets... or a bean bag toss through the dragons eyes and mouth... maybe even some hula hoops tossed over some paper mache dragons? We talked to some of the older teenagers who said they would be happy to supervise. My family is very artistic and crafty so we will do these ourselves.

2007-12-07 02:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

never comes over here to visit. They are the same age and go to school together, but they always go to her house. When she comes here to pick him up, she asks if he is here, quickly walks by me without saying hello and goes to his room, get him and leaves without saying goodbye. Now he has had girlfriends in the past and it was a mix of them coming here and him going to their house and the other girlfriends were always very nice with me and respectful and communicated with me. I'm not saying she does this out of disrespect, maybe just shyness, but they have been together going on 3 months now. I told my son since he is making it last with this girl that they need to plan on spending at least one day out of the week visiting over here and not every day over there. Her mom is a stay at home mom so I know they aren't just left alone there, but for whatever reason this girl just doesn't want to come here. I ended up yelling at my son this morning because it is upsetting me that

2007-12-07 02:03:42 · 21 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Family

If I wanted to politely, gently, and respectfully tell you that you need to lose some weight, how would I go about doing it in a way that would not cause you to get mad at me? Let's assume, for the sake of answering this question, that you are, in fact, overweight.

2007-12-07 02:01:44 · 17 answers · asked by Reggie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Heaven is calling

Heaven is calling but i can't find my soul.
The more i look the less i see, the more i
think about it the more i want to be free.

Heaven is calling but where am i now,
I want to go home, I want to leave this
dreadful world filled with voilence and crime.

Heaven is calling and i still can't find my soul,
I'm ready to give up hope but my father needs me
i have to be bold.

Heaven is where i want to be, it' s the only place
i can be free. Free to sing, free to cry, free to be shy.

Heaven take me home, I'm old enough to understand
I'm fully grown. Heaven i want to go home.

2007-12-07 02:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by kelly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-07 01:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by Tara 1 in Weddings

He doesn't work, he drives her car why she's in college. He has nothing lives with his parents at 21. Has no diploma, my daughter is being conned. Her Dad is a Vet. so school is her chance to make something of herself. But this idiot, has control of my once level headed girl. She cannot be this stupid can she? Her whole life is giving to this idiot. He will be 21 soon, and hopefully he can find someone with lots of money to take her place. Anyone have words of wisdom I can say to her? Or a good threat to get rid of him? Any advice will be considered.

2007-12-07 01:58:09 · 30 answers · asked by itsmetrea 6 in Family

2007-12-07 01:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughters father has tried for years to win me back he asked me to get divorced and marry him several times i don't love him that way and told him it wouldn't work. he knows the only reason me being seperated right now is working is i talk to a married man who i feel strongly about and i want to try to see him for christmas. i feel bad if i go anywhere but the man i want is married and he has a hard time getting away. i think he got upset this morning because i told him that i will have house guest for x-mas. they both know about each other and my daughters father knows i would not have left if it hadn't been for this man and the way he makes me feel about myself but he thinks i'm going to fall flat on my face if i keep talking to him. i tried to stop the phone calls but they have become more often and more intense since then i told him i would like some answers or i need to move on. i don't want anyone to get hurt especially the one who keeps me smiling every day.

2007-12-07 01:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

bit of an emergency!

2007-12-07 01:56:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would a woman like to receive a note or email from her spouse as to what they would like to do to them in a sexual nature. I am not talking nasty, but a note to tell them how much they were loved and they were being thought about in a desireful way. I would like to maybe let my wife stew on it and get the juices flowing as it might be. Something to arrouse her and have something to look forward to. Is this a good or bad idea. My wife is rarely in the mood and I thought that this might put her in the mood with something to look forward to.

2007-12-07 01:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 01:51:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I ahve never been confident aroudn men when I got out to bars or club, and this Christmas more than ever because I am going out with all my girlfriends who are all tall and very skinny and get all the male attention, whereas I am not eaxctly a size 10 or 6ft tall. But would still like to get to knwo men iwhen I go out but because Im so scared of rejection and men laughing at me I never have bothered!! My friends say I need to be more confident but I dont know how!!
Any help would be gratefully recieved!!

2007-12-07 01:47:04 · 15 answers · asked by Nicola C 1 in Singles & Dating

I know there is no noticeable physical or biological changes so I'm really asking about any feelings around it. I'm sure you felt more risk-free. Did it put husband or wife more at ease? Did that at ease increase frequency? Either of you behave more risque? Enjoy it in more places? More quickies? Or was it just a ho-hum kinda thing?

As condoms were our birth control of choice, I expect some things to be different but not sure what. I'm not sure how she will view it.

2007-12-07 01:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by GK 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 01:37:43 · 30 answers · asked by CrazygirlDD 4 in Singles & Dating

what to do with your wife is pressuring you for a 3some with another man? And she wont stop?

2007-12-07 01:37:07 · 54 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 01:31:23 · 44 answers · asked by Shoe Gal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very close to my brother and I think he is about to propose to his girlfriend. I asked him if he was going to and he said "maybe." I am not going to ask him again, but I was just wondering if it's customary to tell your family before or after you propose? I was thinking it might be fun to help him pick out the ring because, well, I'm a girl and I like looking at engagement rings. I don't want to be nosy, though.

2007-12-07 01:26:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So here is my problem. I decided that I want a divorce. I thought long and hard about it. Decided that divorce is what is best for me. I left my husband he filed for divorce. It will be final the day after Christmas. Well, things went wrong when I left I ended up needing to move back into our house. Now I am really confused. I dont love him, dont want to be here, but he wants me to stay, he wants the divorce to go through. Only after I convinced him that I cannot gaurntee I wont pack up and leave in a week. I dont want to hurt him anymore then I already have. How do I leave now without seeming like a cold hearted person that I have been acting like?

2007-12-07 01:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Makingitwork 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Are women brainwashed to believe they are only good for Playboy or making babies?

Seems like many women(even men) are catty towards each other and cannot accept females as authority figures.
Cause if that wasnt the case there would have been at LEAST 1 woman President in America by now.......since the year America, land of the free and equal was born.

Over 200 years of "free and equal" and no woman President yet? hmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting.

And for those who are slow and will point out that women havent had the right to vote until recently...........THAT's exactly my point. It isnt free and equal then..... is it?????

2007-12-07 01:18:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why are guys so confusing, i mean they say one thing and mean another, what is the point of that.

2007-12-07 01:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by vetchick13 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 months, and we seem to "argue" all the time. one of us is always seeming to be doing something wrong and idk what to do. it's normal, but i don't have bad intentions ... i have good one but i guess they always come out bad. i love this boy a lot, and i want this to work and he does too, but i also see that he never understands me...he always takes something to heart when i talk to him about something that hurt me or whatever the problem was and he gets mad and is hard to talk to about it and i tell him all the time. you never understand me! that just makes him even more mad....i don't know what to do about this and no, i don't plan on leaving him so thats not in the question. a teacher told me he pushes me away because he probably doesn't want to get hurt which seems to be true, i don't know how to prove that i'm not out to hurt him. he knows i'm not like everyone else, but theres mistrust from him to me for no reason... :(

2007-12-07 01:10:15 · 2 answers · asked by x0xwendi_r0sex0x 2 in Singles & Dating

We are using the money to landscape our garden and finish off our property.
Please no lectures on bad etiquette- most of my guests have suggested it and it is a small wedding with only people we know very well. Besides this is 2007 not the 1950's!

2007-12-07 01:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

To relax a nice game of monopoly with my man..
I nice book to read to relax

2007-12-07 00:58:54 · 5 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband jim-bob whos my cousin on my momma's side is a plumber. He as doing a job the other day and was gone teh entire night! He told me that them bears in calcutta took all his tools adn told him that they needed them to fix their little bear house. I believed him beause it is the time of the year when all the bears fix their houses and prepare to hibernate you it sounded like a realistic story to me. but today I found a pair of under britches in the back of his truck. He told me that the two bears were foolin around in the back of his truck trying to make little bear babies. What should I do bout jim-bob??

2007-12-07 00:57:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i've got better photos of the real ring I want.
I've searched high and low, ebay, craigslist, etc
and I can't find it and walmart no longer carries it...

http://flickr.com/photos/chesneydevine/2093468412/

http://flickr.com/photos/chesneydevine/2093468362/

2007-12-07 00:55:33 · 14 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

2007-12-07 00:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by headbutt10101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my finace thinks we shouldn't have any centerpieces at the wedding Mind you the centerpieces I have started putting together only cost 5 dollars

as well my finace thinks we shouldn't have any bridal party
I only have two people I want to stand up for me. and he can find two people to stand in for him

he was married before and had a big wedding I have never been married before.

we are not having a big wedding only about 50 guest. and no honeymoon.

He hates the wedding colors
tiffany blue, white , silver , and crystal .

I have not asked anyone to help me with putting anything together. I have done it all myself.

I am just frustrated with all of this,
am I being hard headed about the wedding , or is he being abnormal about it.

2007-12-07 00:52:07 · 29 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

instict tells me know...plus my grandfather always told me growing up never to hit a female....but in todays world women want to be treated equal so does that mean we are all fair gain?... and if its wrong for men to hit women...why do women feel that its ok to slap us when they are mad?

2007-12-07 00:51:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating