why are guys so confusing, i mean they say one thing and mean another, what is the point of that.
2007-12-07 01:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by vetchick13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right, I'm sure women never say one thing and mean another. 8-)
2007-12-07 01:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well let's not say ALL guys are one way or another. If a guys tells you he is going to do something he should do it. There is no say one thing and do another, if so, he is playing games and not worth your time. If he is saying one thing and meaning another, communication sounds like a problem. Talk to him and make sure you know what he is saying so neither of you are confused and he can't get out of anything if it doesn't go as planned.
2007-12-07 09:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's the pot calling the kettle black if you ask me. Typically it is the other way around.
Now men (not all men, just the dregs of humanity) will do stuff like say "I'll call you" and then not call. Never understood that one, but they are telling you what you want to hear (a little on the passive-aggressive side). They want to avoid a confrontation, so they just lie to you. Any guy who does this to you is not worth your time. If this happens to you with all guys you've dated, perhaps one of the qualities you find attractive in a man is really a danger sign that he's a jerk? Some women find themselves habitually attracted to men who are bad for them.
2007-12-07 09:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Damocles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to help you .But in this case I m not sure about the answer I give.As a guy I can say that I m not like that ,but I m pretty sure there are many like u said .Just ignore people like that.May be that will help u a bit.
2007-12-07 17:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by ⇐DâV£ MaΧiMiÅnO⇒ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys must be gay.
Men usually say what is on their minds without any regard for the feelings of others. Men are brutally truthful until they are trained to lie by their female counterpart.
2007-12-07 09:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy usually does what he likes best and will change his mind on a whim. Most guys stick to what he has said and is dependable so stay away from guys that don't do what they say.
2007-12-07 09:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by logsdodl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are just trying to get one thing from you. Confusing you makes it easier for them to get it.
2007-12-07 09:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We always say what we don't mean, especially when we are not too serious about sometimes really meaning it.
2007-12-07 09:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if women didn't sent mixed signals then men would not be confusing
2007-12-07 09:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by big-tdl81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO KNOWS?!? IF YOU FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES KNOW PLEASE GIVE THEM MY # SO THEY CAN EXPLAIN IT TO ME!!! GUYS ARE BEYOND CONFUSING INDEED! THEY LIKE TO CONTRADICT THEMSELVES TOO....LIKE SAY ONE THING & MEAN IT THAT DAY BUT THEN 2 WKS LATER SAY THE OPPOSITE & MEAN THAT TOO!!! URGH!!! OH WELL WHATCHA GONNA DO? GOOD LUCK HAGD;)
2007-12-07 09:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by feistyariesbitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋