Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

I loved a girl and said her that I loved her, I told her that I want to marry her and asked just her assurance, but all she replied was she always looked at me as an elder brother though the age difference is below two years, I dont want to hurt her but I cant live without her, what should I do?

2007-12-07 03:31:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scared to tell anyone what happened and I am pretending to be sick today so I don't have to go back to school. Fortunately it is working. Btw, if u want to make it seem like you have a fever, put your head over the toaster for a few seconds. Anyway, I farted really heavily for a long time yesterday during Science. It smelled bad too. What would u do if that happened to you? Also, this guy I like sits behind me. The worst part about it was, I thought it was going to be silent and kind of leaned over to my left only let out a siren and I'm sure he got the wiff of it too. What would u have done and what would u say the next day?

2007-12-07 03:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 17 and single and i like 3 guys at the moment.

1 age 20 lives 300 miles away very attractive know though a friend (internet contact only) he is moving to london soon, closer to where i live

2 age 22 attractive lovely guy, met whilst working at a primary school, he has a girlfriend, but we have so much chemistry

3 age 25 quite attactive so hilarious always makes me laugh, known for 8 years through my older brother, slightly complicated.


which one?

i know none of them are the perfect situation but i love all 3! x

2007-12-07 03:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies what kind of lingerie would you wear for your bf,husband or lover. Honest answers please.

2007-12-07 03:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have a spotless house, dinner on the table, clean kids, and an exhausted wife when you get home from work

OR

a messy home, take out, dirty - happy children and a wife who is happy and ready for sex?

2007-12-07 03:20:30 · 21 answers · asked by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i work 2 jobs I leave the house at 1:30 a.m. for a part time job, get back home at 6:00 a.m. shower and leave for my main job and get home at 6:00 p.m. i try to spend some time with my 2 and 8 month old sons and be in bed by 8:00 p.m. If i fall asleep IMMEDIATLY i get 5 hours of sleep a night. With out going further what should I expect to be done at home, ie laundry, dishes, general cleaning, meals, sex.., and the part time job is 7 days a week. so what about weekends when "SHE NEEDS A BREAK"

2007-12-07 03:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by steven_ulik@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay;
there was this guy along time ago that i dated.
he said he loved me and i believe him.
i really did love him and im not sure if im not out of love with him if you know what i mean.

anyways;
he says he still has feelings fo rme because it wasnt our fault we broke up.
my ****** mom broke us up.

BUT;
he's dating this girl who is my friend and they've been dating for about 7 or 8 months.
i really want him back and i told him and he just got quiet.
but he says he is still in love with me and that wont change.
what's he thinking?

2007-12-07 03:17:29 · 6 answers · asked by Kourtney :] 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 03:16:47 · 15 answers · asked by nonna 1 in Singles & Dating

I was charged with disturbing the peace. Only retaliation from an ex's new girlfriend. I have 90 day hanging over my head from a dui chanrge i got. WOuld the judge really give me that time. the girl wrote in her statement that i was ruining her concentration and she did not feel safe in her surroundings. i wasn't talking to her i was talking to my ex whom she was with but i did not say anything to her personally. did not even call her out of her name to him. will a jugde take this seriously do i need a lawyer?

2007-12-07 03:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by shandatomorrow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-07 03:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by Gani F 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it bother you if your woman has cellulite*?

(* a regular amount of cellulite in the usual places: butt, breasts)

2007-12-07 03:10:47 · 16 answers · asked by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 in Singles & Dating

What does "suit yourself" mean?

2007-12-07 03:09:55 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

hes 43

2007-12-07 03:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by LoVE LiFE 3 in Family

2007-12-07 03:07:02 · 14 answers · asked by Tara 1 in Weddings

2007-12-07 03:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by JB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

resperidal. my husband and i have a very difficult relationship, mostly due to my mood swings and confusin emotions, anger, etc. before i was hospitalized due to self-harm, we were filing for divorce because i didn't feel that i loved him and he didn't understand me at all. my friends (girls & guys) seem to be able to understand me, validate me and listen without judgement. anyways, since i have been out of the hospital (2 months), i have tried very hard to straighten myself out and that including repairing our relationship with 150% effort. after a while, his parents offered us ther basement, which means us moving in with them andevetually guilding a new placeon their land out in the country (we live in he city). when i agreed to it, i started feeling even more apprehensive about the relationship. though i was giving my all, i was still scared i was making a mistake (ambivalence is a bad habit i work hard against everyday, so i TRY combat thoughts daily w/ affirmations)

2007-12-07 03:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by lookin4ansrs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A little history...my husband has always thought he does no wrong. He was getting better until we recently had a baby girl and now she is 10 weeks old and since she was born I can't do a damn thing right. I pick her up too often...I spend too much on clothes...I bring her to our bed too often...I spoil her too much...I'm creating a monster...I don't put her carseat in right...and on and on and on. When I tell him that he's making me feel badly about myself as a mother, he tells me that it's not his fault that all those things are true and that my bad feelings are all in my head. My husband has a very quick tounge and can think of a comeback in a snap, I on the other hand, get backed into a corner and can't get out. He always wins because he tells me that "it's all in my head". I hear this every fight we have and I'm at the point of being ready to leave him. any advice?

2007-12-07 03:03:18 · 26 answers · asked by larann78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, we have a 1 1/2 old son together also. We started going thru problems and our son and I moved out. One day I caught him in bed with this other girl. Then he told me she might be pregnant. I have decided to stay and try to work things out and get past this. My question or advice I'm seeking is this...How do I let go? How do I get past this?

2007-12-07 03:01:18 · 29 answers · asked by chasemom 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 02:55:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do people think about this strange news story?
How did he get this ring on his D...k and what the hell was he doing with the pipe?Is this a new from of perversion?
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/manch...

2007-12-07 02:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how far would you go on a date with a girl?

2007-12-07 02:53:12 · 6 answers · asked by shaie 1 in Singles & Dating

I know by experiance this are mostly true, but why do they expect us to have feelings and blame every guy being the jerk when it doesnt work out ? its protecting their self image isnt it ?

Im beginning to let go of the notion that sex is love for women because i am beginning to realise its sex when they want it as sex and love when they want it, i mean i guess i know now why men are a detached from sex, because its not fair to me thinking all women are in it for love and thats not true..90 % says that to protect their image and it will be easier to dump it on guys, sigh

2007-12-07 02:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any pointers to look for when splitting the stock options? Any pitfalls or loopholes I should avoid? What's the best way to divide the stock option?

2007-12-07 02:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Taking a pole of our medieval wedding invites. Heavy paper in our wedding colors folded in the center and sealed with wax? or parchment that has cinnimon sticks glued to each end, rolled like a scroll and tied with a ribbon in our wedding color. (The scrolls would be mailed in tubes)

Please feel free to make other suggestions that we havent thought of.

Thank you so much for all of your opinions.. we really are listening to all of your suggestions and taking them very seriously.

2007-12-07 02:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

My Dad and I haven't ever had too good of a relationship. When I was younger, he wasn't really around, and when he divorced my step-mom, he went to bars to get women and dates. He got girlfriends, and the one he is with now is 28 - I'm 19, and when he was drunk, he'd fight with her and beat her up. Once it got pretty bad and he broke the car's back windo with her head. That's not my problem though. This man is my father &he calls me a 'slut', says I 'spread my legs for my boyfriend', told me he reads my E-mails/IM's, and gets mad at me for wanting to be an art teacher. I'm in college right now, already doing things that will further my career, and he says it's not good enough and I should be going to school, not seeing my bf, &working a job. He wants me to pay electricity, the car bill, gas, and extra money for being there. He's also controlled time with my bf, saying I can't be with someone who works@Wal-Mart full time and won't be able to pay for the abortion when I get 'knocked up'.

2007-12-07 02:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by 111 2 in Family

I went to a private school but did sports at the end of the day at my public school. it felt a bit uncomfortable doing it their because i knew no one their and all four years i never was able to get a chance to socialize with any one their. The part that made me the most uncomfortable their i dont know why was that some how every one new my name and a lot about me without me ever talking to them. i remember my first few weeks their after practice about 10 girls came up to me and started asking me a million questions and flirting with me. I was young about fifteen so i was shy and did not know how to respond. after all of that stuff like that never happend again but all the girls on the track and field team always cheered for me and everything but never talked to me. and the girls off the team in the hallways would always wave at me and say hi but i never had the chance to talk to them because i was never their in time of day.

2007-12-07 02:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm talking about the fancier stuff - the Lenox, Villeroy, Wedgewood ... not the microwave and dishwasher safe stuff you eat from every day. Do you plan to use it weekly? Once a month? Once a year?

I've posted a similar question in the Marriage/Divorce section because I'm curious to know how often married couples actually use their "nice" china.

2007-12-07 02:45:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why should a man have to put the seat down on the toilet when he is finished instead of a women lifting it up when she is done.

2007-12-07 02:38:39 · 34 answers · asked by big-tdl81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has treated me awfully & I finally am going to file for divorce. He has cheated, lied, kept secrets, gambled away the $$$ that he controlled, had me working for him w/ no pay, didn't pay the mortgage and now my house that my Mom gave us is gone. I am living in her spare room with my (his step)kids. It has only been a few weeks and we still talk on the phone. I am going for a job as a bartender at a local strip club only because it is close & my car can't handle a lot. It is a start. He seems to disapprove, even though he put me in the situation. He won't even admit to all that he has done, just tries to justify it & that infuriates me. I can't help for some unknown reason seeming to care what he thinks, WHY??? Why can't I get mad or hate him? Afterall that he has put me through. It makes me feel so stupid. I am way too forgiving! I don't understand why I would care what he thought or how he feels, when he never did me.
PLZ no mean answers

2007-12-07 02:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by tonyer71 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very loving, attentive person. In fact, my high school Bible teacher called me a puppy. It was sad. I can't help being around my husband all the time. Is it because I am very insecure ? Or is it the fact that I have been thru alot ?

2007-12-07 02:36:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce