Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

My fiance and I are not members of any church and could probably be considered atheists. However, there is a beautiful church located across the street from my reception hall. It is a Methodist Church. What should i say when I call to ask them if we could hold our wedding ceremony there? Would it put them off if I asked if I could bring in a Justice of the Peace? Thanks for your help. Happy Holidays.

2007-12-07 02:35:56 · 13 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Weddings

the only ones i know that have cheap formal dresses are Ross and Dress Barn

any other stores?

2007-12-07 02:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-07 02:33:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All right, so my fiance and I will be seeing his family over Christmas for the first time since we've been engaged. They already know that we are planning a Carribeann wedding and in the past his parents (his father and his wife as well as his mother and her husband) have said things about us paying for their trip. My fiance has told me that he would chip in to pay for them if it makes the difference of them being there or not but I think they are going to try to milk that because they are really cheap. We are planning on moving next year, buying a house, etc. and I know we will not have the money to pay their entire trips. I am scared that if they start saying these kinds of things, my fiance will start suggesting that we postpone the wedding until we can pay for them because he will not want to have a wedding when his parents cannot attend. They have the money to do it, they just know they can get him to put in if they pressure him. How do you think I should handle this mess?

2007-12-07 02:32:40 · 21 answers · asked by Deanrijo 5 in Weddings

2007-12-07 02:31:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Soft and smooth and sweet and slow? Or so hard that you cry and need to invest in waterproof mascara?

2007-12-07 02:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I signed divorce paper of legal and physical custody of our kids and got approved letters from court. However things are getting twisted. 1st her attorney requested the court to try all she can to save my marriage, got court approval and am ordered to meet with a mediator. The woman attorney as been investigating me but I can't figure out what she is up to, telling my wife(ex) that she would fix my marriage when i know that under all circumstance I am not changing my mind to accept anything less than divorce. I came home this morning and my wife acted up. She intentionally wet my bed, saying its too much to bear, she loves me,etc, got all stuff from the ice box asking me what would she do to make things work out? Wet all the couches;asking me why I don't ask her for sex etc. She continued complaining that its too much for her to bear living with me under one roof, treating well, not abusive despite of what we are going through. I know she is coming for my computer. what would I do?

2007-12-07 02:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 02:26:40 · 9 answers · asked by SARAH N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 02:25:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i live near a cemetary, and often steal flowers from there to give to women. they really seem to like the grave flowers, and since they aren't really being used, it seems to me like everyone is a winner.

what about it ladies? would it bother you to get cemetary flowers?

what do you think will happen if the girls find out?

2007-12-07 02:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by DocLove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-07 02:23:54 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and people around you like your neighbors dont seem to wont to forget your past how do you deal with it i am trying to do the next rite thing but today i am upset and might not make it

2007-12-07 02:22:47 · 3 answers · asked by irish_matt 7 in Friends

i'm in my 20's and i still live at my mom's house. i have a boyfriend over a year now. actually he is my fiance. most of the time i have to go to his house. he comes over here too but i go to his house more becasue of my mom. everytime she knows he is coming over she will stay stuff to me like oh great don't tell me he is comig over. and when he comes over m y mom never says hi to him or anything unless he says it to her first. she will just walk right past him. when i go to his house his mom always talks to me. she won't even answer the door when he rings the doorbell. she will just keept doing whatever she is doing even if it's nothing and i have to answer it. even if i'm in the bathroom. if we sit in theliving room playing video games she complains about us sittign on the floor or whatever. if we hang out in my room she complains about that too. one time he calld after 9 or 10 and she hung up on him cause she said it was late even though she wasn't asleep yet. what do i do? it hurts

2007-12-07 02:21:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been havin a relationship with this girl for quite sometime now and lately all I've felt is racial tension. I'm a white country boy and she's black. I'm not racist but she's startin to make me think I should be. When she brings me up she says 'White boy' and she always says cracker and hints towards martin luther king and malcolm x and all them. She gets mad when I don't like a certain person and claims it to be him beings black. What should I do? Should I just up and be racist to her for sayin prejudice things about me?

2007-12-07 02:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't feel like I deserve a good job, friends or boyfriends. I would like to feel better about myself but something inside keeps saying "you're not worth it". Am I really NOT worthy of good things in my life?

2007-12-07 02:18:47 · 18 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that having cream soda & root bear for the kids would be an acceptable replacement for the honey mead and wine that the grown ups will have? Or maybe you have some other suggestions? I realize that "soda" isnt very medieval but we were trying to include the children as much as possible.

2007-12-07 02:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

Im due in January and am more than ready to have my baby. In movies you always see family members sitting in the waiting room at the hospital... and then the father comes out with the baby and everyone sees him.

I know for a fact that I will not be in the mood to see anyone but my mother if anyone at all after going thru the most difficult task of my life. My mother in law really irritates me and having her around will not go over well for me personally.

When you gave labor did family come visit you afterwards or does the hospital make such visits un-allowed. I might even ask my nurse to tell them I need rest and no one should be admitted into the room.

I don't mind them seeing the baby I just don't like the idea of people crowding around me after I labored for several hours especially my MIL because she is so loud.

Anyways, what really happens after the delivery? Do people really wait for hours until the babies arrived?

2007-12-07 02:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Definitely my heart.

2007-12-07 02:17:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK well before i met my husband he had an ex girl friend who lets just say fell from an ugly tree and didnt miss a branch...well while she was living in home off his income he later found out she was having sex with 7 other people. well she got pregnant. come time for that baby to be born she left the name on the birth certificate blank for the father...well she realized mc donalds wasnt going to get her ahead in life with a child so she went to court and said my husband was the father...which makes sense cause he was the only one with a job that could pay child support...well she had the court date set up while he was out of town for work he knew nothing about the court till he got back. and since he didnt go to court to argue the fact he dosent believe that child is his they deemed him the father cause he didnt show up for court. well my question is how the hell can we do this? we have went through lawyers for 2 years to find out how to make her do a paternity and no one will help us

2007-12-07 02:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She never calls me or introduces me to her family/friends, yet she's single & available but I feel insecure with her because I'm not really sure if she likes me or just likes being with me physically.
The only time I get together with her is when I'm drunk and have liquid courage to make the call and ask if I can come over to her house.
Why doesnt she initiate anything between us ?
She makes me feel good when I'm with her but afterward she tells me she's busy and I leave.
Something is wrong but I don't know how to rectify it.
Have any suggestions ?

2007-12-07 02:16:48 · 28 answers · asked by Dream 4 in Singles & Dating

Some women say all women posses the ability to keep their man from cheating. They say most never use these skills because they either dont want to or they dont know how
These same women says they didnt learn these skill from parents but many learned by listening to the advice of someone.
One woman says her man has been tempted to cheat through forty years but he never did because she resorted to her skills that she learned from a person who cared.
This same woman has never cheated herself
Her husband is a doctor and he still delights after forty years of coming home to her and her skills.
He doesnt know she uses skills
I say those skills definitely exist,

2007-12-07 02:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 02:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pretty crazy numbers huh...tom lykis 101

2007-12-07 02:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

stop asking the other son to go between the parents.

2007-12-07 02:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by turnerfaircloth 1 in Family

just curious if you think im attractive or not. i have a great personality but im going strictly on looks on what you all think. if you do not rate me very high, just curious what you think i could do to make myself more attractive.... thanks, just be honest is all i ask, details would be a plus.... myspace.com/flyboy7683

2007-12-07 02:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is ridiculous. My husband was having a drink at his friend's house with his other friends and I can't imagine that they would do such a thing..they cut off his penis while he was drunk. They told him that it would grow back and it has been months and it hasn't..what should I do? I'm really screwed this time...

2007-12-07 02:11:30 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy has been flirting with me and useing eyes contact an awful lot

he has my number and said when he gets his phone at christmas he will text me but i dont know what to do as i am tierd of waiting for him???

any ideas

2007-12-07 02:10:45 · 6 answers · asked by Blondii 3 in Singles & Dating

Y do women love haveing sex before they r married but after it goes down to 1 or 2 times a month? My wife and I have been married for 11 yrs and together for 16, I am very open minded and love to please her but whenever i try to start up with foreplay she is not in the mood, but she will turn around a couple of days later ask me y does she have to always get things started. She doesn't I just get tired of being told she isnt in the mood.

2007-12-07 02:10:39 · 16 answers · asked by big dee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I find it hard with some people sometimes to maintain eye contact. It's mainly people who keep eye contact all the time.
It's probably to do with the expression on my face and how wide open my eyes are.
How do you maintain comfortable eye-contact? Do you keep your eyes locked at the eyes of the person you are speaking to?
How would you like the person you are speaking to to maintain eye-contact, when speaking and when listening?

2007-12-07 02:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I havethis problem which I am sure other wives have as well. My husband works a 40hours week job. I am homw at the time with our two children, 3 years and 6 months. I am a full time student and take care of everything around the house as well as bills and the likes.
Next week I am starting a part time job, because I am sick of my husband saying I am not doing anything. It is relly hard to get things done when constantly someone cries and needs something. I was recently honored with an award for outstanding academic performance, and I am a foreigner. All these thing I do or achieve and still, my husband doesn't notice any of them, and he doesn't help out at all. What can I do to make him understand that I need help?
Thank you guys.

2007-12-07 02:08:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce