She never calls me or introduces me to her family/friends, yet she's single & available but I feel insecure with her because I'm not really sure if she likes me or just likes being with me physically.
The only time I get together with her is when I'm drunk and have liquid courage to make the call and ask if I can come over to her house.
Why doesnt she initiate anything between us ?
She makes me feel good when I'm with her but afterward she tells me she's busy and I leave.
Something is wrong but I don't know how to rectify it.
Have any suggestions ?
2007-12-07 02:16:48 · 28 answers · asked by Dream 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your drunk all the time when your with her, more than likely your a drunk and there is something about you that she does like but i'd imagine putting up with an alcoholic puts a huge damper on your relationship & with anyone, not just the woman you mention.
try sobering up and i'll bet your life and relationships will greatly improve.
been there done that.
2007-12-07 02:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I asked my grown daughter how she would feel if I dated a younger man and her response was emphatic. "Not my age!!! And he has to be older than her husband!!!" Her husband is 8 yrs younger than me and my daughter is 16 yrs younger than me. So I do not tell her or introduce her to a younger man that I may date.
Women from my generation do not initiate dates, and our lives are quite full and maybe she is busy. It is time consuming to work, take care of your home, and maintain a good relationship with family, and if you are always drunk when you see her that can't be very flattering to her. She does like you because she puts up with that. If you want to have a relationship try to see her sober so she doesn't feel like a booty call. Take her out and don't just see her for sex.
2007-12-07 10:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Dear Dan,
Being older or younger isn't the issue, it's about maturity or immaturity.
Seems she only sees you at her home when your boozed-up, I'd consider that an insult if you came to my home under the influence.
BTW your stupidly driving on the roads when you shouldn't be, no wonder she doesn't want to do anything else with you !
Most people with drug and alcohol problems are miserable emotionally.
Good luck cleaning up your act & stay off the roads while drunk you JERK
2007-12-07 10:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by jay 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What is her number? Not really, She probably just likes sex like the rest of us and could use a buddy. It is much easier to just have a f-buddy than to go through all the relationship trouble to have sex. Think of it a s masturbation only better. You don't introduce your hand to friends and family as your lover.
2007-12-07 10:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Brad K 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she lets you call for a booty call, but she doesn't want anything to do with you. BUT, if you called me drunk all the time I'd kick you out too! Get off the juice & sober up, grow a pair and talk to her!
2007-12-07 10:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Casie 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
she is not 20. Thats it. She wont ask you to take her watch a movie and crap like that. You're there for the sex and sex is what she wants. After she's done she wants you out. Thats it bro, there is nothing more to it. If you really like her then talk to her and let her know how you feel. She'll probably dump you but then again I dont know how she is bro. Remember this is only opinions
2007-12-07 10:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by 9ball 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she doesn't initiate it because she has her own life, and may not want to interfere in yours. Have you let her know that you welcome her "interference"? You both need to communicate what you are expecting out of this relationship and then make a decision based on those answers.
2007-12-07 10:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by kwflamingo 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she's embarrased of how young you are, ashamed or unsure of how her family will react. Also maybe she's not positive if you love her in all aspects or if it's only for sex. Buy her little gifts or flowers to show her you love her, buy her cards. Tell her!
2007-12-07 10:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Pixel 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you've gotta be the man in that relationship. She doesn't want a little boy where she has to make all the moves. Buck up, and don't worry about it! Whats the worse that can happen?
2007-12-07 10:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Who cares... Your nailing an older women... I am assuming she's hot? Maybe it's best this way. It might cause problems for her and for you if to many people find out. Sometimes the world isnt ready for that kind of stuff. That's my opinion.
2007-12-07 10:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by DontWorryBoutMe 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋