i'm in my 20's and i still live at my mom's house. i have a boyfriend over a year now. actually he is my fiance. most of the time i have to go to his house. he comes over here too but i go to his house more becasue of my mom. everytime she knows he is coming over she will stay stuff to me like oh great don't tell me he is comig over. and when he comes over m y mom never says hi to him or anything unless he says it to her first. she will just walk right past him. when i go to his house his mom always talks to me. she won't even answer the door when he rings the doorbell. she will just keept doing whatever she is doing even if it's nothing and i have to answer it. even if i'm in the bathroom. if we sit in theliving room playing video games she complains about us sittign on the floor or whatever. if we hang out in my room she complains about that too. one time he calld after 9 or 10 and she hung up on him cause she said it was late even though she wasn't asleep yet. what do i do? it hurts
2007-12-07 02:21:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In your 20s you should have a job, and your own place...
2007-12-07 02:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is somewhat the same way when it comes to gifts he dont know what to do he will take me a store and say pick what u want. but before we got married he had no promble got me flowers and a bracelet. and now that we have been married he gets worse each passing year. it doesnt help not having money. but i know how u feel. this year was my first year being a mom. but instead of staying home by myself i went to church and every on there was telling me happy mothers day and the family across the street told me the other but he knows my husband. maybe u need to talk with your husband and till him how u feel he is your husband and should know. and am sure he likes fathers day and if not let him know that just cause he dosent doesnt mean u dont like mothers day. ask him if he needs ideas to do with the girl make it easy u will know what u are getting but it will give him something to do for u with the girls and the grils will see daddy helping them and making their mommy happy. well good luck and HAPPY MOTHERS DAY five times over, for all the rest of the years. ok
2016-05-22 00:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by bev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront your mom and ask her what if anything she has against your boyfriend? Let her know it's hurting you and that she is treatly the person unfairly whom you will be marrying. The bad news is it is her her house, so some things you might have to be subjected too. I would talk to your fiance about the two of you getting a place of your own.
2007-12-07 02:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Americka S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this is happening April.Sounds like she sees him as a threat to you and your moms relationship.If it is just you and your mom,she is scared you will go with him and leave her alone.She knows when you get married you will leave.I am a parent of children you age and it always hurts to see your child mome away at any age.Maybe you insure her that you will always be close and visit her often she will liten up on your guy.I doubt she is being this way to him just to be mean.Think about it and I think you will be able to improve on the situation.Good Luck!
2007-12-07 02:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to think about moving. You obviously need to conduct your life the way you see fit, and in order for you to do that, you need to move. Mom will continue to comment on whatever you're doing or not doing while still living in her house. She doesn't have to change, so it's up to you to change the living conditions.
2007-12-07 02:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by prissytwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol okay YOU ARE LUCKYY
as soon as i turn 18 (in a year NOW loll =D), I`M OUTTA HERE
if you have a boyfriend, move in with him! it`s okay if you don`t want to yet, that`s totally cool. get yourself a job, move out! you`re allowed to live alone geeeez. if you don`t think you can afford your own apartment quite yet, find a roommate to share the rent with. work your way up- first step is always moving out.
2007-12-07 02:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are financially, emotionally, and physically able to MOVE OUT, then MOVE OUT. You are over the age of 18, so you can leave when you will. Eventhough your mom isnt right for treating Fiancee that way, yall are under her roof so she can LEGALLY do that.
think about it . . .
GOD BLESS,
Mieko M
2007-12-07 03:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mieko M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's are mad to love and not hurt.Although sometimes mom's do not know where to draw the line.My mom was terrible to my boyfriend when I was younger.But there was a catch.He was worthless and she knew if she mad me choose I would turn my back on her and she could not face that.Also my mom wanted better for me then what she chose.Just a few thoughts for you.
*Sit your mom down ask her how she feel's
*Express your feeling's in a calm manner to her on how you want her to be proud of you and want her acceptance on your choice of men.
2007-12-07 02:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dannieal B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her what her problem is talk to her if she doesnt like it then move in with ur boyfriend after u get married or rent an apartment and find a way to get married but congradulation
2007-12-07 02:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by bballsk8er4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called moving out.
if your going to marry this guy why don't you guys move in together.
If you are old and mature enough to know the person you are going to marry then you should be living on your own or with them.
2007-12-07 02:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋