Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

A woman who dresses conservatively or a woman who dresses a little bit sexy?

For example.. A pretty woman wearing a turtleneck, slacks and heels, or a pretty woman wearing a close fitting, but not low cut, t-shirt, knee length jean skirt, tights and classy leather knee high boots?

For the record: they are identical twins.

2007-12-07 04:46:39 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 04:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

Am I wrong for getting upset that the house is never clean? She is wonderful with the kids, dinner is almost always ready when I get home but the house is almost always dirty. I love her but this is getting to me. If I try to talk to her about it, it always ends up in a fight. Am I wrong and what should I do?

2007-12-07 04:40:17 · 53 answers · asked by Lucius Vorenus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I loved someone and told her that I want to marry her and she told me that she wont be able to think me more than a good friend, I am on job and she just started and want to make her career, she is very good, has a lot of friends and wants me as a friend too, but I just cant think myself as a friend, I dont know what to do, when I work I am much happier as I can keep her out of my mind but it hurts me whenever I am alone, she still mails me and asks how I am time to time as she does to all of her friend but she does not know how much it is hurting me, but I just cant say that too... I think I am going to burst....

2007-12-07 04:38:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance really wants the wedding cake to be chocolate with fresh strawberries. I'm a huge fan of his idea (yummm!), but my mom said that we shouldn't do that because lots of people can't eat chocolate. Is that true? I wouldn't be surprised if that were the case for *dark* chocolate, but I think that lighter chocolate would be ok.

Our preference is to have one big, yummy cake rather than a separate bride's cake and groom's cake.

opinions, please! :-)

2007-12-07 04:34:22 · 28 answers · asked by SE 5 in Weddings

I thought spooning was only cuddling and COMPLETELY INNOCENT. I mean your just laying side by side..... SOOOO HERE"S THE QUESTION.... is it appropriate to "spoon" in front of your parents? Because I know spooning can be refered to somthing sexual but with me it has nothing sexual to do with me and my boyfriend, its complete cuddling.... so is it okay to sppon in the cuddle way in front of your parents, like laying that way doesn;t look sexual or anything, or just anything you know what i mean?

2007-12-07 04:33:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Supposed you'd been married 7 years. What if your partner came to you and said that they are super happy and want a continuous future with you, BUT, they just met someone that they have a super bond with and just want one night of passion. Up till this point, you trust your partner and are very happy.... Would you allow this one night?

2007-12-07 04:33:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To keep in touch with yourself or with others?

2007-12-07 04:28:34 · 13 answers · asked by checkyou4tics 2 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if a guy is falling in love with you or loves you? We have been talking for 7mths. It started out we were just friends and hanging out doing things but then we both admitted to having feelings for each other and caring about one another. I do really care for him and I always think if something were to happen to him I would die. He shows that he cares he is always worried about me and if I have made it where I was going ok. I really like that cause it makes me feel that he does really care. We arent in a relationship yet because we both decided to take it slow. I stay the night with him and everytime I am over we cuddle : -) He has never came out and said he loved me but would you think he does? I know my feelings are strong enough that I do love him. I just wonder if he feels the same?

2007-12-07 04:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm interested in online dating...& I have no idea how to begin. I'd like to hear some great success stories! &, maybe recomendations for good sites....

2007-12-07 04:24:54 · 9 answers · asked by smilie_love 1 in Singles & Dating

im after falling for my friend,and i really wana be with her but i dont know if she likes me or not too,its hard to tell!!what do i say,r do i say anything,its playing on my mind!!

2007-12-07 04:20:32 · 38 answers · asked by sharkeater 2 in Singles & Dating

i dunno what my bf's bro's prob is but he's 25 & acting like a kid. He recently blocked me from aim & removed as a friend on facebook. I think what triggered it was the fact that he was telling me online that his mother was bitchy (on xmas when she got her presents. I told him he should'nt call his mom a bi tch, esp since he was the kind of person that didnt want 2 have any conversations w/me about my bf. Many times i needed 2 ask him things about his brother 2 understand him better, and he wouldn't help me out. I never asked him to say one bad thing about his brother, but he would always end our conversation when i brought his brother up. So he didn't like that i said he should'nt call his mom a bi tch if he was'nt willing 2 even talk 2 me about his brother. I dunno, but it set him off. It's strange bcuz i've always been on good terms w/him 4 the entire yr ive been dating his brother

2007-12-07 04:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 19 and is getting married very soon to her 19 year old fiance.
She is very intelligent and did well at school and is attending University to study to be a school teacher.
She tells me this is good reason for her to get married at an early age of 19.
Her fiance is 19 and in the Navy.
She says she loves him very much.
I get concerned because she is only 19 and will have to spend many months without him.
Do you think she will be ok? I would have liked for her to have finished her schooling and then settled down but she says that marriage is too important to her.
Her wedding will be with 220 guests and she is hoping her father and I will pay for this at $80 a head.
I get overwhelmed by the whole thing

2007-12-07 04:12:57 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well me and this guy been together for one year and some moths and this was a phone relationship we diddnt see pictures of each other untill october of 07 and he was ugly so i dumped him but im so sprung over him though why?

2007-12-07 04:11:15 · 23 answers · asked by joyhayes2011 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at school today hanging about with Steph(mine and Charley's(my exgirlfriend's) bestfriend) and Jacob(Charley's second exboyfriend after me and Steph's current boyfriend) because Charley after 6months has finally asked for some space which even though I'm not over her yet I'm giving it her(me and Charley are bestfriends but I'm always hanging around with her and she says it's getting abit annoying). Now lately I've been wanting a new girlfriend and I want to move on from Charley and I told Steph this and she told me to ask this girl called Curisha(one of Steph's friends) out who was stood right next to me and I thought this girl was way to good looking to ever go out with me and I said, 'no she'd never go out with me' and then Curisha said, 'It's a possibility', and I went so that's a maybe and she said, 'Yes' and Steph left us to talk and all we really did was stand there and I asked how old she was and she said, 'She was 13 going on 14 and she said that it isn't really that biga deal to her that we're one year apart(I'm 15) as girls normally go out with guys who are older', and this girl is perfect for me, our age difference doesn't bother her like it did Charley(Charley's 12 going on 13), she has a nice personality, her body isn't perfect but it's ok, she's got a gorgeous face and I'd like to ask her out but it just seems way too easy, I mean with me and Charley it took us atleast a month and a half to get together.
What should I do, should I ask her out or maybe leave it for a week or two?(I'm gonna leave for a few days if I ask her out or I'm gonna seem desperate with how I am at the moment)

2007-12-07 04:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

My partner & i had to marry.We were decades family friends.His parents threw him out of house so went abroad.We met friends 4yrs in love.We were to marry after meeting.I found out fight argue on date to meet with him he asked gang to hurt me my folks.My cousin was in on it.I mean what would happen if i marry this man if he didnt feel like being married might have me killed?Im shocked family friend best friend in love would this to me ive never done a thing to him.I end it call everything off.Hes stalks me outside home online phone now blackmails Ive heard he dumped ex to go abroad by gang.I know why his parents & ex left.This is real.What why would person do this if they love someone.

2007-12-07 04:09:40 · 11 answers · asked by makelovetolove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you do go pantiless, are you more likely to wear pants or dress/skirt? Also, are you more willing to go without panties or a bra (have you ever skipped wearing both in public)?

2007-12-07 04:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by RD 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a Gemini...can't find a good sign that fits me. LOL

2007-12-07 04:04:31 · 23 answers · asked by CrazygirlDD 4 in Singles & Dating

as much as financially dependent women do? How much do you think finances play a part?

2007-12-07 04:03:09 · 42 answers · asked by Sondra 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 50, I'm 29. He's been living in his living room for the last three years, his partner (girlfriend, whatever) sleeps in the bedroom. He has an 11 year old son. We've been seeing each other for three months. He was honest with his partner about it from the start. We've even met and were cool with each other. She's sad about it, because now she knows he wants to move out. He's sad about it too, however, because, no matter how much he loves me and wants to be with me, he's afraid he can't afford to rent an apartment big enough for his son to have regular overnight visits, pay half the rent on their apartment, and pay to support his son. AND I don't want to live with him right away because I want him to have some space before jumping into a new household or whatever. However, I DO want him to move out because I want more time with him. Right now we have an understanding that we don't spend the night together because it would just cause too much mess at his place. I'm getting frustrated

2007-12-07 04:01:03 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They were together for 7 years and he bought a ring but never asked- they've been split for 4 years. We've only been together for 7 months. I trust him, but I think she might make some advances. I know that he's wonderful and I know she knows he's wonderful. Now she's single again. They still talk and have dinner together bi weekly. That's not really bothered me, but I just feel like before they go back to their hometown for the holidays that she is able to put a face to my name.
It's not really that I'm jealous, as much as I want her to know that I am in his life, so if she gets any ideas about making a move on him, she'll be able to think of me and hopefully re-think the actions.
Am I being silly?

2007-12-07 03:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I divorced him in 2001, after he had a child with his 17 yr old "toy". He was 29. After 2 years of bitter hatred, I TRIED to forgive him. We have 2 kids (boys12 & 9). We don't live together and I have the kids. I recently bought a house, and have been coaching our youngest sons basketball team, and taking both our boys to their other practices & games as well as church 2 days a week. The only time I have to spend with him is on Sat. night when the boys are with their grandparents. He never sees them because the court siad he had to have supervised visits because he had sex with a minor (she was emancipated when she got out of Juvie for robbery, so he didn't get charged) and had her living in his home they wouldn't allow visits there, and then he supposedly put his hands around her neck (he never laid 1 solitary finger on me in 17 yrs and this little beeeaaacchh is a drama queen teenager, so I really think he wasn't guilty) and he went to prison for 2 yrs.

2007-12-07 03:53:16 · 13 answers · asked by WTFever 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, middle aged men who chase much younger women are fair game for being called dirty old men, so whats the difference ?

2007-12-07 03:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by ketkonen 7 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-07 03:50:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you have fun to the extreme. Find love ? Complete your journey. Honest answers please.

2007-12-07 03:46:36 · 18 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance of 4yrs.left me 2mths. ago & I continued to allow him to play head games with me in the hopes that we would work things out. Not much has changed & now he is seeing someone else who is married, no less. During the 4 yrs. my daughter & I became very close to his family-they welcomed us with open arms & vice versa. I do not know what he has said to them about our breakup.I have not contacted them being that they are "his" family. I heard from a nephew that he had taken this woman to meet his family & that they were alittle uncomfortable because they do not know what is going on. I would like to send a card to say good-bye & to thank them for welcoming us into their family & that we will miss them. This is not a ploy to get them to side with me in this or to get him back, even though I still want to be back with him, just a sort of closure. Is this a good idea or should I just let things be?

2007-12-07 03:41:24 · 8 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Singles & Dating

If your bf,husband,or lover told you that he only had 5 years left to live. How would you take it?

2007-12-07 03:40:48 · 30 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

cell phone? I have a prepaid one, but I find it to be a waste of money. I tried to get one from t~mobile but they wanted a $500.00 deposit.
My credit isnt great. Anyone got any suggestions?

2007-12-07 03:39:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cause my besftfriend has a boyfriend
and seeing them together makes
me jelous
and lonley
and my lifes stressfully
can a guy ttrully make me happy?
again
even tho they all screw me over

2007-12-07 03:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved a girl and said her that I loved her, I told her that I want to marry her and asked just her assurance, but all she replied was she always looked at me as an elder brother though the age difference is below two years, I dont want to hurt her but I cant live without her, what should I do?

2007-12-07 03:33:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends