They were together for 7 years and he bought a ring but never asked- they've been split for 4 years. We've only been together for 7 months. I trust him, but I think she might make some advances. I know that he's wonderful and I know she knows he's wonderful. Now she's single again. They still talk and have dinner together bi weekly. That's not really bothered me, but I just feel like before they go back to their hometown for the holidays that she is able to put a face to my name.
It's not really that I'm jealous, as much as I want her to know that I am in his life, so if she gets any ideas about making a move on him, she'll be able to think of me and hopefully re-think the actions.
Am I being silly?
2007-12-07 03:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know people who remain good friends after a break-up my moms boyfriends ex was in his life 10 years later, but she came over their house almost daily and my mom and her got along and became friends....And I am still friends with my ex, I love him very much because we were together for years and he has a girlfriend and comes and sees me and helps me out when he can, but I am not the least bit attracted to him and would never want him back as more than a friend. Maybe this is the case with them, but you need to work it out that you can at least meet her. Maybe he is worried that she might be jealous and is trying to spare her feelings, if that is the case and he doesn't want you to meet her I really wouldn't want them going on a long trip together!! Well, really, I wouldn't want them going even if I did know her. And I wouldn't expect my ex's girlfriend to let us go on a long trip together either. I know for a fact she'd get mad at him.
2007-12-07 04:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah I Wouldn't Let Myself Go
Your To Much Of A Nice GF
Why Would U Let Him Go 2 Lunch With Her
No Ur Not Overreacting
2007-12-07 04:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by ballin310cali 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No - it's not an overreaction - I would do the same to try to meet her - my hubby was going to his ex for haircuts - and even though I never had a reason to mistrust him I knew she used to "borrow" money from him for recreational purposes ... I just wanted her to understand it wouldn't happen now. It was never an issue of cheating, just money and I had to let her know so every once in a while I'd go with him, pop in for a little friendly chatter, sometimes I'd say well I'm just going to run into the shop next door and let them have their own chat. Face to face does give one more to think on.
2007-12-07 04:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Chele 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There's a reason he never asked her and a reason after 4 years of keeping contact they never got back together.Even if you trust him you should still say hi to her just for your own sanity. I wouldn't worry much about it though. If they're having dinner every other week without you and nothing has happened thus far, I think it's a pretty safe bet that nothing will.
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2016-10-01 02:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by cluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes sense to me! And I'd also suggest you share how you feel with your boyfriend as well. He needs to understand that it's not a jealousy thing, but just a statement of "I support your friendship with my boyfriend, but I want you to respect the current lady in his life." Good luck! And Happy Holidays
Edit - I'm with the other posters on wondering why he is traveling 8 hours with her and you're not going... or forget you "not going", why are they going period!
2007-12-07 04:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They still have dinner together biweekly?!? then you get what you deserve.
Forget it, putting a face to your name isn't going to change a thing. They'll eventually get back together and you'll be left to wonder what went wrong. What went wrong is that you got involved with someone still too involved in their ex. Bad move.
2007-12-07 04:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend and his ex remain friends, I don't think it's an unreasonable request to want to meet her. It's obvious she's an important part of his life. I would hope that if he truly cares about you, he'd want to share what's important to him. I'd see it as a warning sign if he refused to introduce you.
2007-12-07 04:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. you better keep your man!! do whatever you feel you need to do. there is nothing wrong with meeting the person your bf is going to spend 8 hours in a car with. why arent you going?? and why are they going together?? hum. Sounds fishy to me.
2007-12-07 04:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not over reacting.. infact your being way too nice... set him straight tell him that he has you now! and that you wont put up with him seeing his ex all the time... u should invistigate for real it really seems like he still like her and you dont want to be hurt at the end...
2007-12-07 04:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by whew 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋