Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

I do hope, I can express this right,. My 9 yr old has a girl friend, whose mother is a compulsive liar, I dislike the woman intensly.She lies so much, that it`s easy to catch. lol Anyone, know a good way, to let her know, that I do not have the word SUCKER on my forehead.

2007-12-07 00:51:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is an arranged marriage.

2007-12-07 00:49:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is there anything she can do to get him interested in competing?

She did the same for him when his eyes were on other women.

2007-12-07 00:49:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got a 23 yr old who works his a off, pays off his student loans hasn't finished college, job is threatening him, has little to no friends, and feels he will never be able to go back to collge and he will be working a dead end job.he cries like every month for about a couple days straight. he's depressed at his present situation and now that he's comming back home he looks at the walls and go to work. I really want to help him. I want tot tell him he is a very young boy and he can do anything he wants but its hard because he does not believe me since i'm his mom. I keep telling him there are 30 yr old and ABOVE who don't have his life together yet. I really am concerned. his car broke down not too long ago and when that happened he had to move in with me . we can't really LENd him any money and even if we could he wouldn't take it. he seems angry. mostly at himself. he's turning 24 soon i want to show him the way but honestly i don't know what else i can do. any help for a mom?

2007-12-07 00:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does it have something to do with his past? he has been cheated twice by his 2 ex.. they both left him for another men. his last relationship was 8 years ago and then he met me and got married, i am 26 and he is 40. he is a very good husband except the jealousy-- for example: there was this cute dead football player i saw on youtube namely miklos feher and i keep watching his video and telling my husband how handsome he is and he is too hot to die but my husband got angry and told me all i did the whole day is watch his videos.. it took me a while to realize he was jealous! there is also an instance when he caught me looking at the myspace profile of the guy i used to have sweet relationship online and he got mad, we fought because of it! and then i was chatting to this same guy and he was only telling me about his new job and he knew i was married and i made it clear to him that i was happily married but my husband took it against me again and we didnt speak for 2 days because of it!

2007-12-07 00:46:19 · 36 answers · asked by M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 00:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by Brandy_drinker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short, my FMIL wanted a bunch of kids, but was only able to have my FH. He also lived with them (for financial reasons) until recently - he's 28.

The first year of our relationship, she and I got along great - it was like having another girlfriend around. But now that we've moved in together, and we're getting married in less than a year, she's started to freak out a little bit about losing her "baby".

She makes little comments about me needing to 'learn how to cook' - even while I was making Hamburger Helper - I mean, how hard is that?!? And she's constantly one-upping me when it comes to my FH. (ex. his face was flushed one day, and I said he should put a cold wash cloth on his face before he went to bed. She said "actually, son, you should probably put something hot on your face to draw out whatever bacteria is in there...") Stupid stuff like that...

How do I deal with this? I want to be supportive, since it's hard on her to lose him after so long, but come on!

2007-12-07 00:41:42 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs.10/18/08 4 in Weddings

2007-12-07 00:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's our first anniversary Sunday! We did the traditional saving of the top layer of our wedding cake and froze it.

Any tips for thawing it out?
Is it really going to be fit to eat?

Share your stories with me please :)
Thanks!

2007-12-07 00:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by Emmy F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this one guy starting Dating in Sept and ended the realationship in Oct, We borke up because he told me that he was moving back to Michigan where his mom is. We had flings on and off and stuff, Last month I told him I cant do the fling stuff anymore he told me lets just be friend. What should I do I still have feelings for him :(?

2007-12-07 00:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by brunk_martha08 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friend with aguy , and i like him alot. i told him about what i feel. he said that he doesn't have feeling for me. I found my self always trying to do what make him happy, I think i have low self esteem becouse if there is problem or misunderstanding, i blame my self and always think that he did the best for both of us .But it makes me start feeling recentfull toward him becouse i feel that iam being used and not happy from keep ignoring what i really want. I don't know what i should do , i want to stay frien with him but i also don't want to keep feeling that ialways wrong , What do i have to do?thanks

2007-12-07 00:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 years ago I found out my husband was cheating. I can't be sure if it was the first time. He says it was because I insisted on my managing my own salary and not saving money with him, so I showed lack of commitment. Although I explained that he had control for 15 years but I found his ways too strict and I had to ask for every penny. Today I suspect he still cheats, I am not sure, but a friend of mine suggests that we pool our money again to try and give him back his power because if he didn't love me he would have left by now irrelevant of our daughter doing exams etc., I don't know if this would work and if I can trust him because yesterday he swore blind he was in one place when I know with 100% accuracy that he was 35 miles away. I gave him a chance to tell me the truth but his insists he was there, I pleaded with him not to mess me around and he insists he is not messing around. I need some advise please. I know you will say once a cheat etc. but we have been together 20 years

2007-12-07 00:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Angela F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 1 & 1/2 years suddenly told me that he just wants us to be "friends" for now because he wants to work on his attitude problems. He told me that he felt really awful that he treated me like crap and that's the reason why he wants us to be just friends. He told me that he wants us to go back from the beginning, you know the dating stage. But I don't know if he really wants to or just he's doing it because he doesn't want me to go. The thing is he told me that he wants to hang out with a girl as a friend without worrying that I'm going to get mad because I'm his girlfriend. He told me that he can't hang out with his girl friends if he's in a relationship. I told him I would be fine with it, but those girl he wants to hang out with I should meet them right? I said to him, "so what you want is to see other girls while I wait here for you?!" And he told me no I'm the only girl he wants to date, but he said he wants to enjoy his youth. don't know what to do please help

2007-12-07 00:20:52 · 10 answers · asked by Alessandra 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 15 and has not met my boyfriend yet.My boyfriend wants him to come to Florida to take him to Universal Studios,seaworld etc. during his xmas break.My son said he doesn't want to go to meet as he calls him" that guy".What can he do to get him to come? He has plenty of money maybe send him an awesome xmas gift or is that a bribe?I do love this person.Please no harsh remarks as I am a kind and generous person too.

2007-12-07 00:17:33 · 16 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy that I have liked since the end of last year (I am a senior in high school) and I never thought that he liked me. Now that he finally asked me out I am not sure whether I want to or not. (Iasked a question sort of like this a few days ago) All of my friends say that i should give it a chance but I am afraid if I go out with him then i wont be able to get someone who might be better or hotter am I that messed up?

2007-12-07 00:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every 5 mins we're either arguing or fighting over sumthing totally ridiculouse!!!! wat shuld i do???

2007-12-07 00:14:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems unfair to me that only the bride gets to see naked people in a bachelor party and the groom isn't allowed.

2007-12-07 00:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by wolfen186ts 1 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, we normally get on great, having a laugh and a joke about pretty much everything.

Recently I have been chatting to a guy I went on a date with, after we went out we agreed it wouldnt work, but have stayed friends. He has been having a tough time recently so I like to give him advice when I can.

My boyfriend has been chatting to an ex of his that used to beat him up, I have read most of the things that they have said to each other and am almost certain she wants him back because she keeps suggesting meeting up for a chat. He almost agreed until I said I wasnt happy about it.

I mentioned to my b/f that I had been chatting to this other guy (he has known I have chatted to him since we met) and he slammed the phone down on me! I have no intention of meeting up with this other guy and have told him that. What is his problem, I dont hide any of the conversations we have. Whats his problem???

2007-12-07 00:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

What do I do? :( she's so obnoxious and even my dad is getting depressed.

2007-12-07 00:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-07 00:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating