I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, we normally get on great, having a laugh and a joke about pretty much everything.
Recently I have been chatting to a guy I went on a date with, after we went out we agreed it wouldnt work, but have stayed friends. He has been having a tough time recently so I like to give him advice when I can.
My boyfriend has been chatting to an ex of his that used to beat him up, I have read most of the things that they have said to each other and am almost certain she wants him back because she keeps suggesting meeting up for a chat. He almost agreed until I said I wasnt happy about it.
I mentioned to my b/f that I had been chatting to this other guy (he has known I have chatted to him since we met) and he slammed the phone down on me! I have no intention of meeting up with this other guy and have told him that. What is his problem, I dont hide any of the conversations we have. Whats his problem???
2007-12-07 00:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well us blokes do like to feel a bit insecure about our other halfs and other blokes, he will chill out dont worry
2007-12-07 00:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he feels threatened but his other guy. Maybe he isn't confident that you won't leave him for this guy. It could also be that he resents the fact that you won't let him meet this other girl. Now that the shoe is on the other foot as it were he is giving it back to you. Either way it sounds like these outside people are causing problems in your relationship. They are exes for a reason. Keep them that way.
2007-12-07 00:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by deniver2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ama . there are now 4 actif sunni schools or " math'hab " ( in the past that was up to 18 ): - The maliki school founded by Imam Malek Ibn Anas. and it's used in arabic Maghreb lands ( morrocco , tunisia etc) , europe and parts of senegal and cameroun - The Shafii school founded by Imam Shafii and it's used in Egypt , Sudan and parts of Syria and Lebanon - The Hanafi school founded by the Imam Abu Hanifa Nuaman and his school is based on parts of india, pakistan afghanistan , syria , parts of Irak and Turkiya -the Hanbali School founded by The Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal and it's applicated in Saudi Arabia , most Golf countries and parts of Irak. there are no difference between them in Principal things about religion like Faith but they have small dissimilarity in their approachs to explain subjects and it's about personnal effort called (' Ejteehad') Personaly i see it's a strong Point in Islamic religion because Islam is spread all over the world in different nations and cultures and that dissimilarity in those four Schools gives always solutions to us i dont Know really what of Those Schools is most spread in the states so you can ask the Imam of the mosque in your town , he can give you more information and details.
2016-05-21 23:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by karol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us blokes don't react well to the idea that our partners are talking to ex-dates.
The "it didn't work out but we decided to stay friends" thing is fine when its us that decides, but we don't like it when our girlfriends do this with other guys.
He needs to know that you're his. And he won't consider that "it's the same" when he talks to his ex because he knows what's happening there in his own mind.
It's a male paranoia thing.
2007-12-07 00:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous, some men not all don't like their girlfriend chatting to other men but think it is o k to chat with other girls. Double standards is what it is called.
2007-12-07 02:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either he is getting mad so he can meet his ex and not feel bad about it or even blame it on you or he feels threatened by the guy you are talking to! Good luck
2007-12-07 00:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by tireboy11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, he may have been thinking of doing something bad with this other person, and when you told him you were chating he could have assumed you were thinking the same way he was.
2007-12-07 00:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's thinking that you will do something - maybe he will do something and is judging you by HIS standards.
Maybe his ex has left him confused, and that is causing stress, and he is taking it out on you.
Either way, he needs to stop being unreasonable and remember u havnt done anything wrong.
Good luck hun.
2007-12-07 00:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by WhyTuesday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was talking to his ex and you said he couldn't, so he probably stopped.. then he goes and finds out you are talking to a guy you once dated.. i'd be pretty mad too.
2007-12-07 00:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go on a date when you are dating someone else. Did you tell your boyfriend about it before?
2007-12-07 00:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋