2007-12-07 00:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
negative....i get out of the marriage for i was hurt emotionally so i went out of the marriage and now im free and in love with my son
2007-12-07 00:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy_drinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a good question,
Well I am a newly wed i just got married in August, and I can honestly say that marriage has been a real positive change for me. My husband and I have a really great relationship from being there for each other and being able to cheer one another up when we are down it is always nice to come home to someone. I honestly don't know if I can think of a lot of negative changes but like i said i am a newly wed so maybe i don't have one yet if i will ever get one. One thing that I have found hard to deal with is due to respecting each other i just can't go out and do any more. For example I was at the pet store and there was a dog that I really really wanted and i would have gotten right then and there as well but due to the respect the hubby and i have for each other i wanted to talk to him about it first and he of course gave me the reality check that we can not get another dog right now and that one is enough well i took it really hard because if i was not married and alone i would have been able to get that dog that i wanted but then i also have to remember that so many good things come out of our relationship that make up for not being able to get a dog! I hope this helps being married is an amazing thing as long as you don't rush into it make sure you are ready.
KW
2007-12-07 08:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by KWichelman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 17 years positives I feel stronger facing the world...like no matter what someone is there to back me up. i always have someone I can be myself with mad, happy...just any emotion without a second thought. Positives physically when i feel sexy it's off the charts; when I look crappy I don't care.
Negatives emotionally are when we fight he can really hurt me and even if he doesn't go for the jugular the thought that he can makes me crazy. Physically I don't fuss over myself so some things haven't been maintained weight, hairstyles, makeup etc.
2007-12-07 08:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage has changed me for the positive. I was single for a very long time before I married my husband and was rather wild. He is my soul mate and has helped me to be the person I always knew I could be.
Positive changes
-kinder
-calmer
-more loving
Negative changes
-not as much "me" time
All in all, marrying my husband was the best choice I ever made in my life. But it is because we are each others soulmates. To be anything less would make our marriage much more difficult.
2007-12-07 08:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by banshee1068 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest id say Ive not changed at all. Ive always known how to love people, mostly family, and showing respect is something that comes naturally. its just the way i was brought up, all the rights and wrongs i was told about and have all ways adhered to them.
now the drugs sex and rock n role is just something i use as a pass time!!! only joking!
My wife loved me for the person she met so Ive just stayed the same.
But the physical side of things, i always wanted other wives to say how lucky she was, so the gym and sport has always been a more regular thing.
bye for now
x
2007-12-07 18:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage taught me to share my life with another, to have someone to help carry the load, given me a best friend and someone I can confide in.
My first marriage also taught me jealousy and how it feels to be alone even when you are with someone.
Physically I think both marriages caused me to gain weight :)
2007-12-07 08:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dashy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage change my life for the negative. i use to feel guilty if i talked to married men and now i feel good about talking to one all the time. i couldn't live with myself if i thought about a one night stand and now i feel good about them. i left my husband with too many bills to pay working one job before i met him i had money to spare. after 10 years all i have is a stack of bills and i have made good money through the years.
he has messed up my mind and i don't know who i am anymore.
2007-12-07 08:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by inloveinTN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has changed me is so many ways, My husband is my savior from a bad life! He looks after our children and me well. I never knew I could love 3 people as much as him and our 2 children. We fight of course (every couple does) but we never have to doubt the love we have for one another.
2007-12-07 10:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage has changed me alot!
im not that kid anymore who hid under her parents shadow, ive grown, im mature, im indipendant, im in charge of me,
its positive beacause i have a partner who is there for me, and who gave me 4 kids
the negatives,,, not many, i guess i have a lot on my plate!, its busy , draining, no me time, im not 1st anymore,
its definately alot better being married, im very happy, i found a great man xxxxxxxxxxx
2007-12-07 08:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grace, First off I love the idea of marrige, I just made a poor choice. It has left me disabled from getting my heart broke !
2007-12-07 14:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋