Is there anything she can do to get him interested in competing?
She did the same for him when his eyes were on other women.
2007-12-07 00:49:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please.. don't confuse my word ATTRACTION with having an AFFAIR of any sort.
Also competing is just doing something to distract from the other and get his/her focus 100% on you.
2007-12-07 01:29:50 · update #1
No, some guys will not. Some are not ambitious, and that's why you're mad at them in the first place. Second, it's not a nice thing to do to the other guy, to your guy, and to you. If your guy has been friendly with other women, this is not a good revenge coz he obviously has no problem with it. Don't do a revenge, do a revamp...of some sort. Family, home, or self.
2007-12-07 00:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you suggesting that because you feel he's taking you for granted, or not paying much attention to you; you should try to make him feel that some other guy is interested in you, and that you perhaps are favorably noticing this other guy? I hope you forget this idea. Try something less dangerous to your relationship. Perhaps Russian Roulette. Or rattle snake milking. Heck, even juggling chainsaws is better than trying to plant doubts in your husband's mind about IF you are interested in other men. Getting him worried would be easy. Getting doubts out of his mind MIGHT be impossible.
2007-12-07 02:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. I don't feel I should have to compete with other men to keep my wife. I have already beat the competition because she married me, and while I should still continue to keep the fires burning, I shouldn't be made to put myself up against someone else. If she wanted me to then I would have to wonder about the current status of our love.
2007-12-07 02:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is game playing.
You are MARRIED. You do not have to COMPETE for what is ALREADY YOURS!
NEVER incite jealousy in a man. Jealously quickly turns to anger in a man.
If you have a husband, you belong to him. If you do not like that notion, you shouldn't have gotten married.
2007-12-07 01:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2007-12-07 00:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is even necessary the marriage is already a failure. This marriage does not sound good enough to survive for a long period of time.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-07 01:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch the old movie called "War of the Roses.
You'll stop the game playing.
2007-12-07 01:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
women take it to heart when a man LOOKS at another women and i don't know why. me personally i not going to show off or something like that she with me already what do i have to prove i am who i am and she must have wanted it or she wouldn't be with me.
2007-12-07 00:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by big-tdl81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge, competition, jealousy, mistrust are not love. Congratulations you are doomed!
Husbands don't compete for their wife. they shoot the other guy.
2007-12-07 00:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah, compete to get the divorce done faster.
2007-12-07 00:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋