What do I do? :( she's so obnoxious and even my dad is getting depressed.
2007-12-07 00:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im sorry. It's just that she has this behavior of being evil and such. It's just not me, it's everyone and idk she's been like this since... ever. I don't know if I can take it
2007-12-07 00:57:18 · update #1
how old r u?
if u're still a teen,dun w0rry
its n0rmal...
all teens hate their m0ms
just dun let it get t00 much on u
just accept d fact dt we just dun get along w/our m0ms durin our teen yrs.
we'll get dere when we're older &m0re matured.
2007-12-07 00:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by mightywords. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is getting the whole family down, then you need to take action and try to find out what her problem is Does she have a job? or is she a stay at home mum? If she doesnt work well then the reason she is so catty and rude is because she is bored, and doesnt really have anything to focus on. Depression and boredom would lead to her mood swings. Best thing i would suggest is to talk to her lovingly and let her know how her attitude is affecting the family. Maybe even suggest that you take up a hobby as a family, as maybe lack of family time is causing this rift.
2007-12-07 08:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by montana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ina. Talking with your dad is your first step. Maybe your mom is going through something in her life. It can range from physical to emotional to just a mid-life crisis. If she hasn't always been "obnoxious", then, with the help of your dad, you need to find out why she's changed. If your dad can't or isn't willing to help, then you need to seek the help of another adult. Is there a teacher, minister, or school counselor that you trust? I can only guess at what's going on, but staying calm and talking things out (sometimes very difficult), is the only way to get through. Your mom probably doesn't realize that she's alienating you or how deeply her behavior is affecting you.
2007-12-07 08:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that your mother is depressed, or has medical problems,or that you are not a good kid and disrespects her. You don't tell us the problem, so I think you are feeling sorry for yourself because your mom wants the best for you. Until we hear different you are just another kid that doesn't know what life is all about.
2007-12-07 08:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mum because she may have some problems of her own and she may want some company and that might be the only way to get attention off someone is too annoy them a little to make surre that they listen to them..
yu dont hate your mum she just mite be going through a bad patch.
what ever you make think your mum has done i am sure she is only trying to look out for you...
2007-12-07 08:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by **Jessiiee** xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hate your mum....she's the one that brought u into this world...is your a teenager than its a naturally thing to go through n when your older you will realise how much u love you mum......if your dad is gettin depressed over your mum its for reason that has nothin to do with you..you shouldnt take sides between your mum and dad
2007-12-07 08:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by loopy_elmo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i go through that with my mom and to tell you the truth its hard and annoying as hell but what you have to do is sit your mom down and tell her the problems you have with her and ask her what she gonna do about it at least find out the root of why your moms acting like this
2007-12-07 08:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word to use against your mom, love your mom, you only get one.
2007-12-07 08:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to twinklin....all teens do not hate their mothers..
Between you and your dad, you can work together to try and find a solution...gang up and tell her what a pill she is!!
2007-12-07 08:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by madsmaha1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to her, ask her what's wrong and why she's acting that way. Communication is important in any relationships.
2007-12-07 08:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋