Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

when it comes to aniversaries ,valentines day etc. i am the one that does the planning i do the whole romantic dinner for 2 at home.rose pedals in the bed room and all i do admit im more creative. but i want to be supriesed with something already ........he does bring me flowers out of no where, gives me a kiss and tells me he loves me while i pretend to be asleep every morning on his way out to work but thats the most romantic he gets. any advise on how i can get his creativity going

2007-12-07 08:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I (both in our mid 20s) have been together for 3 years in January and have lived together for 3.5 years (we started out as just roomates). About a year and a half ago we moved 20 hours away from all of our friends and family to a new state. I used to be so ready for him to propose, but the more and more I think about it lately I don't know what i would say. We are always arguing and both of us always want to be right. Any suggestions on how to figure out what to do or how to make our relationship work better?? I just don't know if we would last if we did get married b/c of the arguing.

2007-12-07 08:27:05 · 3 answers · asked by Chelle Leigh 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a white woman who only dates white men. It is more of a preference than anything. But a friend of mine recently told me she thinks that is racist thinking. Do you agree?

2007-12-07 08:24:42 · 43 answers · asked by chay e 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 08:23:10 · 23 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

Do you really need one. I'm on a budget and it's last minuet

2007-12-07 08:21:54 · 17 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

he came for a dte ones and said i was pretty cool woman. he keeps saying he may come if he dose not have to work but never dose but ask me to call him every night. dose he want to be with me or not? my family and a friend says not i say then why dose he tell me to call him every night. and why he say i was a pretty cool sexy woman. thanks.

2007-12-07 08:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

we all now that all males have a rush with the sex thing

2007-12-07 08:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by skydiver 2 in Singles & Dating

Pick your man, make a combination of 2 of these options that are the most important qualities your man must have:

a-Wealth
b-Intelligence
c-Honesty
d-Manners
e-Looks
f-Figure
g-I'm not fussy, any man would do it!

2007-12-07 08:21:26 · 27 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I was reading this article about a couple that are in that situation. The wife feels since she doesn't want it anymore it's ok for her husband to find it eslewhere. I think that is CRAZY!!! I think even if you are well meaning and feel your doing it out of love for your partner your still opening a door that you might not be able to close when you want to. Thats not even taking into consideration that when you get married you take vows that are suppossed to be life long.

2007-12-07 08:20:27 · 50 answers · asked by n.s. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a new mom, as of 4 weeks ago, and I really want to go out christmas shopping for the afternoon with my son FOR my husband..But he keeps giving me guilt trips about not taking him. I've tried to explain to him that Im going shopping for him, and he cannot come, but he just gets upset. Why is this? Why cant I just be a PERSON and go out on my own? It seems whenever I make plans to do anything, this is what happens....why, from your personal experiences, is he doing this to me?

2007-12-07 08:19:14 · 23 answers · asked by krisindeed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a girl who i use to talk with a lot,we were hella cool then we just stoped talking. I was even ignoring her cuz I had a girl. Now its been a while im single pretty sure shes single but I dont know what to say to her. Its kind of awkward now. I need Help.

2007-12-07 08:18:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Wife and I have been married for 11 years and I am hung like a mouse and don't typically last that long during intercourse.

What suggestions do you have so that I can provide her more pleasure?

2007-12-07 08:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to pick his son up from school when it is his turn but he is not able? He is divorced and his son lives with his ex wife. He visits us once a week and every other weekend. On the days he is not able to pick up his son he asks his ex-wife to do it for him and then he picks him up at her house. He tells me he does not want to ask her if it is okay for me to pick him up because it would upset her. When they were going through their divorce he told her they would do the parenting and I would not be involved. But it has been a year and a half now. I believe my boyfriend still feels very guilty about having an affair and leaving his wife and son. However, maybe I should count my blessings - she hardly ever calls our home and does not interfere in our lives. Any advice?

2007-12-07 08:17:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife getting divorce, but 2 months ago she already introduce her boyfriend to our daughter, also she told our daughter that she has brothers means that the boyfriend childrens are her brothers. My wife plan to bring her boyfriend to our daughters school special events, like sports, musicals, field trips, etc. Now my question is how can I deal with this?, my daughter its getting very confused about it, some times she have hard time to sleep, she start having problems at school, and she cries a lot for me, she only 6 years old. Our divorce its not final, maybe 2 more months or so. Please I need your advise.

2007-12-07 08:17:19 · 15 answers · asked by Antonio G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's a dumb question, but I don't know the legal ramifications of a legal separation.

2007-12-07 08:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by Steve H 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please advise, my partner an i are not speaking im trying to be strong and trying not to dail his number ( wen i do he clicks the busy signal ) it hurts me not to talk to him, im also feeling like uprooting from the area i live in as theres not much of a social life to be had here, but my son is still in education ( please dont think im selfish) i work hard and provide a nice home single handed, im finding also that i seem to be one of the few no ties people around here an because of that seem to find myself on my own just too much at times. thanks for any advice

2007-12-07 08:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by Lorna D 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are going to a place where we want to have our wedding tomorrow afternoon to meet with the lady in charge. It's a restaurant that has a terrace with a great view. The lady said it should only take about 15 minutes for the meeting, but that seems fast to me - don't you normally want to look at the prospective contract, talk about what is/isn't allowed (for decorations, times, etc.)? Or do you normally go back and do that when you actually plan on signing the contract? They have a few dates available next May and June, so I'm sure we'll end up having our wedding there (not worried about getting a date).

Anyway, I guess what I'm wondering is what I should ask the lady when we're there tomorrow, and what I should look for about which room we decide to have the reception in (there are 2 options) (for example, I've heard I should look at the restroom situation - what else?).

Here's a link to their wedding info:

http://www.cocopalmrestaurant.com/weddings.htm

2007-12-07 08:15:53 · 11 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

This may sound strange. I'm not having the wedding video taped b/c of budget issues. But I want to know, since you actually didn't see the whole cermoney because you were the last to walk in. Do you feel like you missed out on your cermony.

2007-12-07 08:14:27 · 13 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

He wants it morning and night and won't leave me alone to let me sleep or take care of our 2 children and his 10 yr. old from previous marriage.

2007-12-07 08:12:22 · 30 answers · asked by madame butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a good female friend, we're both married with kids and I'm attracted to her. I don't know for sure, but I think she's attracted to me. I don't want to screw up my marriage, I love my wife, but if something ever happens to her I've been wondering if I could have a chance with my friend - even if we're in our 70s. Am I crossing some wierd line if I want to make a deal with her that no matter how old we get if we are ever single at the same time, we try a relationship?

2007-12-07 08:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by Just a Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

BUTY I ALREADY KNOW!! arrrg i dont want to be taught how, b/c she thinks im an IDIOT wit hcooking when actually i am a pretty good cook

she gave me a recipie and reminded me that a Teaspoon is the little t, and she said i wish i could help yo uwith your cooking EFFORTS


arrrg what to do!?

2007-12-07 08:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like women who are strong and controlling..A woman who can discipline a guy...Does all this say that I am a panty-waist and a sissy? I am ok with it if you say yes to that last part.

2007-12-07 08:06:23 · 32 answers · asked by backtothepast 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend named nikki and love her alot but we havent seen eachother i a whlie she does not call or drop by or email and when i email her she does not mail me back and when she does anwers the phone we talk about 5mins that the longest we ever had

2007-12-07 08:06:18 · 16 answers · asked by justin b 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 08:05:13 · 28 answers · asked by littlebitofluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, my father has become ill and he has come to stay with me and my family. I have a wife and a five year old daughter who also live with me. Yesterday, my father was getting out of the shower and my daughter ran into the bathroom because she needed to use the restroom and 'couldn't wait.' When she got into the bathroom, my father had appearantly been out of the shower for a couple of minutes. This is very awkward for me. My daughter later asked what that thing was that Grandpa was shaking between his legs. I asked my father what happened and he told me. How do explain what my father was doing to my daughter?

2007-12-07 08:04:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Need to have all the attention at partys than girls
am i right lol

2007-12-07 08:02:48 · 34 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

My Bf Broke Up With Me, and we sit together in every class, and we sit near each other on the bus. i havent seen him today, but wen i do, my heart feels broken and i just want to kill him. it is very awkward sitting next to him, should i talk and act like friends, or should i act rude? what should i do?

2007-12-07 08:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would be your one ????????????????????

2007-12-07 08:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by tinkywinky 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother in law is VERY superstitious and personally i don't believe in any of her rituals and ridiculous acts. me and my husband have 3 small children and everytime she visits, she teaches them rituals and gives them wishbones and feathers and other things to hang over their doors and i have told her numerous times that i would rather she didn't do this but she she still sneaks and does it when they spend the night at her house. what should i do ?

2007-12-07 08:00:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-07 07:59:14 · 37 answers · asked by ♥ Divine ♥ 6 in Family