Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

2007-12-07 09:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i think back about that moment it still hurts and it makes me angry and sad. At Christmas i will see him again. I will have to act nice to him but i find it difficult since i'm still angry at him for this. What should i do?

2007-12-07 09:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 15, 5'2" and petite. I have feelings for a guy who's 6'4"ish, and not just tall but big. Like 300 pounds big (not fat, I mean he's 6'4"). What would your reaction to a couple like that be? What challenges could a couple like that face? Other comments?...I'm not saying I wouldn't be with someone because of what others might think, but I was just curious to hear your opinions. Thanks:)

2007-12-07 09:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

(im 14)
well i only met her a week ago but
she broke up with her boyfriend for me the day she met me.
she seemed really cool when i first met her but i dont even like her as a friend anymore.
it seems like the closer she grows to me the more i don't want to be with her.iv'e been with her for only 5 days but ive gone farther with her than anyone else. she gave me head yesterday and wants to lose her virginity to me(im a virgin too). everything was going pretty good untill she said" i can tell were going to be together for a long time"-the my stomach turned.
i guess shes emotionally attached to me but all i really wanted was the physical relationship.

so i guess what i need to know is how can i break up with her withought hurting her?she said she loves me more than anyone shes ever been with and weve only known eachother for a few days. i almost think she somewhat crazy, and she has a strange disposition.

she says she loves me but i im only saying it back to humor her. =/

2007-12-07 09:36:27 · 20 answers · asked by snowcone101 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it about Christmas time that makes other people become so intrusive into the personal lives of others? I am a single, straight, 28 year old male and I have always been single. That's right, I've never had a girlfriend or even experienced me first kiss. Big deal right? Well my parents leave me alone about this, but not my extended family, friends and even co-workers. It's especially weird at work because I never mentioned that I am currently single. Obviously people are really interested in my life for some reason. This conversation inevitably leads to everyone asking me why I still live at home. They just don't get that I have no need to move out and that my family enjoys living together. I live with my parents (rent free) and other adult siblings and everything is working out great. When I need to move out I will. When I need to have a girlfriend I will. Are people simply jealous that I have complete freedom and no financial responsibilities?

2007-12-07 09:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,ve been paying child support for years and they keep going up on the payments. I am a married man and I have lots of bills. They just recently increase my payments from 275 to 395 . I can't even afford to pay my rent or my bills my wife is a part time worker. My ex recently got married in 2007 or 2006 .
I need help because Its hard for me and my wife to pay our bills.

2007-12-07 09:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a relationship with a divorced woman 10 years older and extremely sexually experienced. She does wonders with her vaginal muscles and helps me come in various ways. She confided she was once a prostitiute on the side for extra money. She has assured me she is not HIV.
Should I terminate this relationship?

2007-12-07 09:35:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im fourteen and live in spokane WA it is winter time and im thinking of going ice skating. is this a good idea? or should i go somewhere else?

2007-12-07 09:35:23 · 32 answers · asked by Nick E 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think marriage is important and essential to raising a child?

2007-12-07 09:34:56 · 19 answers · asked by CK 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked someone who I considered to be a friend to be my maid of honor at my wedding and of course, she agreed, but whenever I try to be her friend or hang out with her, she finds some way to get out of it. She seems to call her other friends all the time and always hangs out with them. She never calls me unless her boyfriend is asking a favor from my fiancee. I finally stopped answering her calls because she never called just to say hello. I found out a lot about her and how dishonest she can be. I no longer trust her enough to keep her as my maid of honor. How do I tell her nicely without hurting her feelings? Is that even possible?

2007-12-07 09:34:16 · 35 answers · asked by Sunny N 2 in Weddings

OK, this has happened to me twice in a short time span and I'd like to hear from the ladies as to what could be going on.

So twice now I've met a cool lady in a bar (not slutty, but smart and fairly good-looking), talked for a while, it got late, we went to her house, and I got attacked. The clothes came flying off, we had great, awesome sex, woke up the next morning with smiles painted across our faces, had a nice breakfast together, and I left saying that I'd call back. All in all, great conversation with plenty of physical tension.

The problem is, I call them a couple of days later, leave a voice mail message saying we should hang out sometime, and they never call back! With the last lady I met, we met up again on the next day, wound up in bed again, had a great time, and now I don't hear back from her either. I don't get it... it's frustrating because I'm not looking for a one-night stand.

2007-12-07 09:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by markt74 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who only knows me when, I have money and she always waits for me to invite her to my home. When I say to her shall we go out she always says" I haven't got any money I am so short." But because I have nobody else to ask and I have'nt been out for ages we go out and my expense. She's all right after that ringing me and being all nice and friendly, then she will start saying she is short and needs to borrow and this is her words 2O pounds or one hundred and fifty pounds, I usually give her 20 pounds and she takes it with a bit of a look. Then never ever mentions handing that money back. But I emailed her once asking for it she came the next day and without giving me the twenty pounds said "did I give you your money back" I say no and then she hands it to me. I have recently stopped inviting her out for meals or even going out, she has become very aloof with me and has changed with her manner. I've known her since childhood. Should I cut her off? She is my only friend.

2007-12-07 09:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Singles & Dating

Well 3 0r 4 years ago back in high school. a classmate of mine (one i didn't really like) came up to me and gave me this long story about this guy in my neighbourhood that had this huge crush on me.He paid my classmate money to tell me that and to give me a love letter. Now cuz i kinda hate that classmate, i can't believe anything he says, and i somehow never saw that "neighbourhood guy" b4, i didn't take the letter and said i don't give a ****! Months later i see the "neighbourhood guy"- his name is D. and he is sooo very attractive, i like seeing him alot.But like he passes me straight and acted like i don't exist. However,we ended up on the same bus ride home once and he was all gentleman like and all opening the door for me and stuff.after that i hardly saw him around.Now last yr I started hanging out with this guy who really likes me and stuff but bcuz of our age difference i find it hard to pursue a relationship with him. and then I find out that the guy and D are really close friends, like brothers and ****…So like after that I kind of cooled out on hanging with the guy. However recently like in August, the guy comes back confessing his feelings and stuff and well we started going out. Not dating to me, he always said lets hang out cuz I told him I didn’t feel the same,lets be friends and the fact that D is like his brother, D is always around…I can’t help not stare at him and fantasize about him…but he never speaks to me, he ignores me every time and don’t start conversations with me…He is a very respectful guy and he seems the type that will never cross a friend for a girl. But his Friend and I are just friends and there will never be anything more. More over D is the one I want,but he is so quiet and keeps to hisself and won’t talk to me….How do I get him too? I tried dancing with him once at a party and he was like “NO, I don’t want u by me, go ask the other guy to dance and u talk too much” (which I don’t) But when we’re out, he still seem to be going out of his way opening doors for me and offering me stuff.Then he acts really arrogant, he has no gf and according to his friends all he does is fu*k girls he doesn’t check them. I feel so confused, I just want to throw myself at him…He is a Scorpio and I’m a Leo,we’re both 19( I don’t know if that can help,I heard signs have a part to play sometime)What advise do you guys have out there for me??

2007-12-07 09:31:58 · 2 answers · asked by KurleySue 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend was diagnosed with lukemia 2 days ago. Tomarrow my friend and I are going to visit her. We want to put a little package togrther for her. She's 11 (as am I) and we were trying to avoid food. I've already burned her a CD and gotton her a magazine. What should I put in the package?

2007-12-07 09:31:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've broken up with my boyfriend THREE times and now we got back together and the first time we broke up was because my boyfriend's friends were tormenting him and saying he shouldn't have a girlfriend and then he got back together with me because he thought it was pretty stupid for him to have listened to the bad advice his friends gave him. The second time we broke up was because he had ALOT of stuff going on in life and he didn't have time for a girlfriend and then we got back together once his life cleared up a bit and the THIRD time he broke up with me was because he told me he had to focus on grades in school. But i found out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because he didn't like me anymore. And if you didn't know, we're in seventh grade and recently last week, we got back together and for some reason, we hardly seem to be as close as we used to. Back then, we would hang around each other like every second of the day and we would hug and talk more, but now . . .

2007-12-07 09:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is our first date. He gets nervous and stops talking, then I babble on like an idiot because of awkward silences. What do I do???

2007-12-07 09:29:51 · 20 answers · asked by Helpfull 2 in Singles & Dating

Some men move to quick on the first date and some men wait for months..

2007-12-07 09:29:28 · 1 answers · asked by DearAbby 5 in Singles & Dating

ive dona alot of stuff but sometimes i get all obnoxious when im with my crush
any help?
links would really help!

2007-12-07 09:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:28:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are always bulletin telling girls what to do for guys so I wanted to do something different. but I cant find a bulletin like that and I have no idea what to put in it. if u know where I could find a bulletin like this or have ideas of stuff to put in it I would really appreciate it.
thanks!

2007-12-07 09:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by Heather M 1 in Singles & Dating

they tell me in the e-mail that i win 20.00000$ are this true ?

2007-12-07 09:26:48 · 11 answers · asked by zaza 1 in Friends

Here's the situation. My partner and I seem to be regaining our footing in what has been an extremely difficult few months. We're happy and having fun with one another again and we are in a very calm, spiritually affirming place with each other. I love her, and she loves me. Here's the problem. She has been having very sexual oriented dreams of late, and I'm not in them. She has also, in a very light hearted way, called into question my fidelity. I'd never be unfaithful to her, but I feel that there is a level of seriousness in her jesting. When I don't call home, or come home late from work, it's always "were you having sex with one of your sluts at the office??" and then, of course, she laughs it off. The other day, however, she really was upset that she couldn't reach me; I could tell by the sound of her voice. She said, "I tried to reach you on your cell and at your office and your not there. What are you doing?" Is she insecure, does she feel I would do something like that to her?

2007-12-07 09:26:31 · 21 answers · asked by dominia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this kid I know who we found out lied about his age and even lied and said he had a child. Lied about where he worked and it got to the point we cant belive one word he says now, and keeps changing his story. Why do people do that?

2007-12-07 09:24:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's either because,
1. I'm exotic looking (face), I'm chinese + german.
2. I'm 5ft10, and my legs are 3 and a half feet long,
3. my thick, wavy hair...

Which one is it?? because I know it isn't my curves (or lack thereof) b/c i'm only a B-cup which equals flat.

2007-12-07 09:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by MeLovesYou 3 in Singles & Dating

GUYS & GIRLS: Imagine that she dressed nice, had a good face, and nice clothes. Also pretend you don't know her so personality has no effect. [strictly physical attraction] Would you ever find a girl of this size attractive or would she need to be thinner?

2007-12-07 09:24:07 · 23 answers · asked by H*R*M* 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:23:56 · 1 answers · asked by Gruntled Employee 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by rancho 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate it its painful! should I tell him

2007-12-07 09:22:08 · 8 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There's almost nothing unattractive about a man. You can complain about a man's body hair, but I can turn around and tell you how much I can't stand the sight of a bulbous, jiggly, female rump. Why is it that when I asked what were other women's favourite male characteristics, most of the responses I got on here were men exaggerating their love of women. Something along the lines of, "No!!!11!1 Women are more beautiful!!!11!11 Us beasts should never be seen beside the likes of them! Sometimes I see a woman and it's as though an angel has descended from heaven!!!!!!!!111!!one!!1" [This is often written in very broken english, haha.]

So what's the deal? I may not enjoy the sight of two bags of fat hanging from a woman's chest, but what would be the purpose in exclaiming my opinion so abruptly towards men? It wouldn't change the fact that they love women as much as I love men. Why are men so put off by the idea that I love teh cawk?! lmao

~*~Julia~*~

2007-12-07 09:22:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by doug g 7 in Marriage & Divorce