OK, this has happened to me twice in a short time span and I'd like to hear from the ladies as to what could be going on.
So twice now I've met a cool lady in a bar (not slutty, but smart and fairly good-looking), talked for a while, it got late, we went to her house, and I got attacked. The clothes came flying off, we had great, awesome sex, woke up the next morning with smiles painted across our faces, had a nice breakfast together, and I left saying that I'd call back. All in all, great conversation with plenty of physical tension.
The problem is, I call them a couple of days later, leave a voice mail message saying we should hang out sometime, and they never call back! With the last lady I met, we met up again on the next day, wound up in bed again, had a great time, and now I don't hear back from her either. I don't get it... it's frustrating because I'm not looking for a one-night stand.
2007-12-07 09:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by markt74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a good point, but I get the impression that that's not what they were looking for. Things just sort of worked out that way. I was thinking that maybe they feel embarrassed about being so quick, or worse yet, I was bad...
2007-12-07 09:41:17 · update #1
Probably sex was the only thing they wanted from you. Next time ask her number, ask her out and develop a relationship before jumping into the bed. It seems like you and those ladies are looking for different things.
2007-12-07 09:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not looking for a one night stand, don't jump in bed on the first night. Women who do let it get that far so quick are generally looking for just that. If you have a great conversation, don't go back to her apartment. Simply ask for her number, and set a date for dinner or something.
2007-12-07 09:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are pushing too hard. Call again and tell the girl you think she is awesome and would like to spend time with her. Leave it on her recorder if she doesn't answer. maybe you could even tell them you aren't looking for a one night stand up front and see what they have to say. Good Luck.
2007-12-07 09:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may not be lookin 4 a one night stand but it sounds like they r!!
2007-12-07 09:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they dont want seem too keen
or
dont like you
or
have moved onto their nxt one night stand
2007-12-07 09:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They must not like you like that, much..
2007-12-07 09:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are busy?
2007-12-07 11:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have more sex
2007-12-07 09:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋