I've broken up with my boyfriend THREE times and now we got back together and the first time we broke up was because my boyfriend's friends were tormenting him and saying he shouldn't have a girlfriend and then he got back together with me because he thought it was pretty stupid for him to have listened to the bad advice his friends gave him. The second time we broke up was because he had ALOT of stuff going on in life and he didn't have time for a girlfriend and then we got back together once his life cleared up a bit and the THIRD time he broke up with me was because he told me he had to focus on grades in school. But i found out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because he didn't like me anymore. And if you didn't know, we're in seventh grade and recently last week, we got back together and for some reason, we hardly seem to be as close as we used to. Back then, we would hang around each other like every second of the day and we would hug and talk more, but now . . .
2007-12-07 09:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm NOT done writing yet.
2007-12-07 09:30:11 · update #1
But now we seem to have this space between us and I think it's a good thing because we kind of sped our relationshop a bit too fast last time, but i feel that this space is just a bit too big? Even though we're in the same class, we don't really talk much or hang around each other as much and we haven't hugged or held hands anymore like we used to. But we still do talk and do things together once in a while, but sometimes I feel like there's this gap between us and it's a bit too big? And now one of my friends seems to hang around my boyfriend ALOT and that kind of bugs me because sometimes i feel like he talks more, hangs around more, and just seems to be with her more than me. Should I be worried? Have any of you gone through anything like this before? How did you handle it?
2007-12-07 09:33:55 · update #2
stop and spare us the long spiel....we know...you love him, miss him and want him, someone is trying to steal him from you, he's looking at other girl, help please...
Just forget it! It will not work, you've already tried 3 times, you can't force someone to love you if they don't, you can't hover and be a control freak, if he's going to cheat, it will happen, nothing you can do to stop it. So just accept the fact that your relationship will end and get over it and move on!
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Sweetie
2007-12-07 09:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay maybe your relationship went too fast at first, maybe he just need's to have a little breathing room. and hang out with his friends and do some guy stuff, im sure theres nothing to worry about though. just give him a day or two and you'll be back to where you were. don't make him the center of your like its only been a month. try to let it go slow, if you do the relationship will grom stronger for sure. i hope this helped =)
2016-05-22 01:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, seems like you are going through a lot with this guy, he breaks your heart, leave, come back and fix it up, then break it again, come back fix it up again. you are too young to go through this drama, right now, school should be your first priority, not your boyfriend. if you have the highest grades in school, i'm pretty sure you can get any guy you want. he's not worth it, if he love you, then he should put you first, not break your heart again and again. may be you are going through this too fast. take it slow, stop, and think, for the many years to come, do you want to deal with this non sense all the time? time for you to take this opportunity and move to other things in life. it's not worth it right now...
2007-12-07 14:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Kitty first of all relax because you are getting hyper about it. The relationship finds its own way somehow. the first concern of yours is regarding your boyfriend's sudden breakups. Well for these breakups I would say that these are because he is a little immature right now. Maintain some gap for sometime, don't breakup but just bring a gap of sometime with your boyfriend and wait till he comes to you about the same. If he actually loves you, he would surely come to you and discuss about it and if he doesn't, then its better to move on with someone else. You have been dating a nerd for so many days.
Best of luck to your relationship! Hope it works out for you!
2007-12-07 09:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Achin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty more boys in school. Seventh grade is really young to get serious with someone. Even though it seems like it is the most important thing in the world to be with someone, or you really like him, it doesn't mean that the relationship will work. As the years go by, you will meet a lot more people, and things that seemed really important in 7th grade are not as important in 8th or 9th, or when you graduate high school. Stop wasting your time with someone who can't make up their mind about you, and free yourself up for other things like school, extra-curricular activities, and going out with your friends. That is the best way to move on, and will position you to meet someone who can make up his mind about you!
2007-12-07 09:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you both are too young to be in such a serious relationship. You need to just try being friends and wait until you are a little older and not going through so many changes, both physically and emotionally, before you worry about having a boyfriend.
2007-12-07 09:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. you two are in 7th grade you have to respect him for the other two reasons about taking a break.
if he said he needed to focus on his grades then let him. i don't understand why you're listening to his friends if they're the ones that broke you two up in the beginning.
like i said yall are in the 7th grade. really immature and don't know about real relationships yet.
if you think this is bad, wait till highschool and college and work. the funny thing is, most guys still act as if they were in 7th grade still.
he's not the only one for you. get a new boyfriend for now.
2007-12-07 09:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a good question as being almost the same age as you I can relate. Well you should wait and if it seems its not getting better than your better of without him and should dump him but if he does change than try it. Also, if he dumps you first don't fret (and I bet he won't if you have the guts to come out and ask for help) just try to move along and find another special someone.
Trust me I have answerd many questions about relationships if you want more help E-mail me at zohaibscool@yahoo.com
Kane
2007-12-07 09:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh come on, you're young u don't deserve to be through all that right now... okay i think it wud help to say how long have u been dating.... i mean.. if all taht happened in like 4 months that's rly bad.. if it's been for a long time it's a bit better but it hink u shud break up with him for good... did u notice he's the one who always finds reasons, not u?? and i think grades have nothing to do with hvaing a gf.. u cudv encouraged him, and since ur both in the same class, helped him study adn studide together n stuff
2007-12-07 09:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can see where you're going. He is just using you to his convenience, and that ain't right. You should stop letting him do this to you, just move on. I know, you must really like him to be putting up with his crap, but honestly, he's just using you. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't take you on all of those rides. Tell him that right now, you're not sure if he's ready to be in a relationship, and tell him to call you when he is ready to be with you, and hope that you haven't found someone else by then.
2007-12-07 09:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by HawaiiGurly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋