Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

There is this guy that I broke up with. I feel really bad about it, and i still like.. love him!!! I want to get back together with him.... he keeps like pushing me away, and he always flirts with my bestfriend. He knows I like him.... what should i do if I want to go out with him?

2007-12-07 11:25:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I keep thinking of you,
but I can't say I don't want to,
I don't know what to do,
I thought i wanted to see you,
but when i did my heart almost died,
I tried not to but when I got home,
I dropped to my knees and cried,
I wanted to stay for a little bit,
but I didn't because I knew,
today I would be regretting it,
I didn't mean to cause any trouble,
but when I tried to fix it,
I got in double,
I didn't mean to embarise you,
i'm sorry I freaked you out too,
without you I don't feel alone,
but I really want to talk to you,
atleast on the phone,
I'm still greatful for all we had,
but when I think about it,
it makes me sad,
I'm happy I met you,
and have these memories,
I'm happy that I loved you,
but i'd be even happier,
if you loved me too.

2007-12-07 11:24:51 · 14 answers · asked by bisexualgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a forty-year-old, happily married woman with a fifteen-year-old daughter who thinks she's ready for sex. I want to take my own poll and discover what other people think. (Please answer appropriately.)

2007-12-07 11:24:11 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

mine is london my home and all the people from all around the word that make it what it is

2007-12-07 11:24:11 · 18 answers · asked by blenyuk 3 in Friends

2007-12-07 11:23:47 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

Well my bff is going through the hardest part in her life and I don't know what to do, I've prayed and prayed but i have yet to see results. This is painful for her as well me. So I'm open to anything that will help this situation. Please post answears so I can help out a loved one.

2007-12-07 11:20:47 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your smile and face was so beautiful
Your heart was so ICE cold
I thought you made me happy
With all the lies you told

Are you ever going to get out of my head?
Maybe with time
Your love should come with a caution tag
Your love is such a crime

It feels like you left me so long ago
the months seems like years
I am so sick of this heartache
I am so sick of drowning in these tears

I pray often to God to bring me death in this life
I know if you ever heard me say that you would smile
God I cant believe I married you
I cannot believe you were my wife.

I have had so many sleepless nights
And all the tears I have cried
I bet you have not shed one tear for me
Because first you have to have a heart inside

I have never so much
LOVED and HATED
I hate to look at myself sometimes
Because I hate to see what you have created

Sometimes I feel so sorry for you
And all the guys after me
Sometimes I feel like putting a bullet in both out heads
To end the misery

2007-12-07 11:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 30 yrs old. My ex-boyf broke up with me months ago. The break up was very hard for me. He broke up due to long-distance. I was very hurt about the break up as I really loved him and still do now. He has always called me back after the break up and we even met a couple of times. But he doesn't want to let go. About a month ago, he called me that he needs to see me. This was shortly after I told him that I am going travelling for a couple of months. He says he is too scared to loose me but he is not ready to come back to me. I was quite upset to see him leaving so I told him we must go separate ways and have no contact. He was upset but he said he has to accept it. But he called me last week saying he can't forget me and he thinks of me. But he then said he can't be with me now as I am going away to travel. He wants to meet when I come back from my travels. love him and he says he does too but I am so confused. I want to be with him but he says not now maybe later we can talk.

2007-12-07 11:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We keep fighting about what I want, like it seems like I always feel like I want more, like she doesn't do enough for me, it'l be like silly things about her giving me a good morning tex or something but the point is that she never does anything without me having to tell her to, I don't know what to do, I love her and I know I can't bear to be without her. It jus seems to a point where everything she does just to keep me happy because of previous arguements. Like I have to fight with her about something then she will do it after, theres nothing she will think of, of her own accord. I've spoken to her about this and she just doesn't give any kind of real input, she just thinks I've made her realise and now she does mean it, but maybe she's jus got it into her head that she has to. But I can't let her go...I'm stuck..help me

2007-12-07 11:14:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anon 2 in Singles & Dating

my neighbor's oldest son is a bully. He likes to manipulate the other children during playtime and even gets physical with the boys, including his own little brother. With the girls, he calls them names and makes them feel like trash. My daughter has complained about him on several occasions but tonight I had it. I went straight to him and told him "It needs to stop and it's going to stop NOW. You are a bully and if I hear or see you bullying ever again, I will tell your mother and you will be in big trouble. It has to stop NOW."

I felt good for confronting him right then and there in front of the other boys. But my question is, then what? What if he continues? His parents don't really do much with him. They might tell him to stop, or that he's in time out, but that's about it. The vocabulary he uses actually comes from his own father. What would be the next step is this happens again and his parents don't do anything about it. It's not like school where he could get suspended.

2007-12-07 11:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by lasm97 3 in Family

my emotions and longing for intimacy r so strong i cannot help it we are both remaining abstinent sexually until after marriage but relieve ourselves by talking/fantasy..and cybering is that wrong???

2007-12-07 11:12:12 · 17 answers · asked by Reta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Was it planned or spontaneous?

2007-12-07 11:11:44 · 49 answers · asked by AAAA 3 in Singles & Dating

What would do if your husband didn't want to buy you gifts on his own and made you come with him. Also, I have to invite myselft on this adventure, since he never offers. He doesn't do it for holidays either unless I take him to the store, pick it out and then remind him to wrap it. He also has a thing about buying gifts. If I buy him a gift, he refuses to use it because he has already told me that he doesn't want it.

2007-12-07 11:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The situation : I am a Step-father of a 5 yr old boy. My wife was not married to the father of the child and left him (with her son living with her) when the child was 1yr old. I met my wife just after she left the father of the child and have been with her and the child ever since. The father has threatened to take us to court to take full custody of his son. (we have a joint custody agreement now where the father sees his son every Wed. and every other weekend). The father has been complaining that he is going to take us to court for the last 2-3yrs (for what reasons he wont tell us). The father is never on time (30-40minutes late most time) to pickup/drop off his son with no phone calls letting us know. I was 1hr late dropping him off today(my step son was on the toilet, and then we were held back by a train). He was really pissed and and is filing papers on Monday. What would he have have to do to win full custody(he has a good lawyer) and do you think he would win?

2007-12-07 11:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by webnerd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on monday my best friend broke up with his girlfriend of 2 weeks. okayyy so i like my best friend and i had a friend tell him on monday ( after the break up)and then on tuesday we talked on the computer but i messaged him on myspace saying how i didnt want things to change beetween us and he said that he understood then he said that we were going to the movies on saturday and i agreed and at first he asked me if i wanted to go with other people and i said that i dont care and then he said i dont care and we went back and fourth saying i dont care and then we just changed the subject and before that about a month before we went to the movies and he let me wear his jacket and wear his jacket and was holding my hand during the movie and last week wen he was still with his gf he kissed my cheeks and my forehead and was touching my butt. and yesterday he came to my house and i asked my friend to ask him how it went and all he said was that it was cool.did/does he like me watll happen sat.

2007-12-07 11:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Jessy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't work and I am working full-time. We don't have enough money to go out and we are 8,000 dollars in debt. He hasn't worked in 2 years and seems to not mind a bit. I told him it was okay, since he helps me at home with my 2nd job. If I ask him to work, he will tell me that he is going to wash dishes and doesn't know how long he will last before he drops dead. He may or may not get a job and if so, may be very miserable. Is my marriage worth saving. I have a son who is 10 years old and I hate to hurt him. He is not his biologicle father and isn't too attached, but has disabilities. I also take care of my mom. I need his help around the house and taking my son to school. Also, I am persuing a new career and studying at a university. Any ideas?

2007-12-07 11:05:13 · 33 answers · asked by Rachel P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have a myspace right? right. ok so theres this girl in my school that i added and she accepted me a couple months ago. so we started talking. on aim and myspace and now we're BEST FRIENDS. like we know everything about each other and know each others secrets and crushes and everything. but now. i talked to her on aim and she had to go so she gave me her number and told me 2 call her at 8. [its 6pm now my time] and im like kinda scared because i never really talked to her in person except for saying hi and smiling and waving.. we ARE best best best friends but idk if im gonna call her because idk what to say! she isnt mean to me at all!

help!
what do i say and what is wrong with me?

2007-12-07 11:02:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

2007-12-07 11:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

about your man when they dont even have a man?

2007-12-07 11:01:25 · 32 answers · asked by Yanni 5 in Friends

Real quick....what can I tell my wife tonight that will get me in?

2007-12-07 10:59:18 · 31 answers · asked by SmoothD 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im in 8th grade and have a gf but the weird thing is 3 other girls are like obsessed with me its crazy! One of them even admitted to liking me. The other two are freaks they talk about sex and stuff, and are just plain teases and just today a teacher asked if we're going out..So overall I want to know what I could do to just watch myself so I dont get in troulbe or my gf doesnt think im cheating on her or whatever

2007-12-07 10:50:19 · 30 answers · asked by TrackBeast93 3 in Singles & Dating

I am always known to be the "quietest and shyest" person in school so recently I have been trying to be alot more outgoing and talking more. Guys always like to joke around with me and saying I am being too loud (when really I am just sitting in my seat doing nothing) I respond by laughing and joking back. Is this being flirty? I certainly don't want them to think I like them or leading them on because I like somebody else :/ I just want to be friendly and not be seen as so serious.

2007-12-07 10:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like is such a player! He flirts with every girl that comes in his path... including me. He said he likes me too, and told his friends that he loves me... that's impossible though because he likes this other girl in our grade. Because of that other chick, he won't ask me out. What should I do? It's hard to move on... especially because he's in my Science group and in my English class.

2007-12-07 10:49:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the craziest thing u have done to prove to someone u love them???

2007-12-07 10:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am torn between two songs for my walk down the aisle. I need help deciding, and I have it narrowed down to two choices.

"Making Memories of Us" Keith Urban
"I Could Not Ask for More" Edwin McCain

2007-12-07 10:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Cute Mom of 2 6 in Weddings

her ex boyfriend ruined her life, although she is a bit selfdestructive. but anyway, she now hates him with a burning passion.. and i like him!! i want to be with him, but i want to keep her as a friend too! sakljdfjjkjkjkljjkdjkj >:(

2007-12-07 10:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he doesnt want me to wear sexy clothess unless i'm with him.
Got angry when i told him i hugged a male friend.
Said he had a dream that i was naked infront of another man and he slapped me.
Asks me not to stay out too late.
Wants keys to my house.
Wants things his way most of the time.
What do you think?

2007-12-07 10:40:47 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my sons father when i was 13
it was love at first sight if you can beleve that, we were together on and off but have always stayed friends. and in may i moved to az and found out i was prego in july but by the time i was able to tell him he was with another girl and she was prego.i kno he still loves me,but does that matter ,should i leave him alone or should i fight for him?
(he knos im prego,
same age as me,
im 20 years old and a CNA so i can take care of my son)

2007-12-07 10:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by H0N3Y 2 in Singles & Dating

men do you get turned off by a women who pursues you? and turn your attetion to someone you can pursue? or would you rather the women pursue and if you don't like her it should be ovboius to her right? do you think women have more confidence then men do when it comes to calling and pusueing?

2007-12-07 10:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by classynsassy 1 in Singles & Dating

Many are being fooled into thinking this is a harmless fantasy like Tarabithia or Cronicles of Narnia. It is VERY far from it. It is written by a British author who is considered on of the most "dangerous" writers of our time. While the movie is tame compared to the books, He has openly stated that it is his hope that children will see the movie, and parents will get the books for them for Christmas, and after reading the books, they will make a clear stand against God. He hopes that one day God will be dead in the minds on children because he calls Christianity a powerful mistake, and an ex-nun character in the movie states so.

The end of the trilogy of books has two characters, a boy and girl who represent Adam and Eve kill God, who they say has made people falsely belive He was the creator of all things.

So, will you and your children be seeing it? As an alternative, there is a small movie calle Noelle that is being raved by Dove Foundation.

2007-12-07 10:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by lovinghelpertojoe 3 in Family