ok so i have a myspace right? right. ok so theres this girl in my school that i added and she accepted me a couple months ago. so we started talking. on aim and myspace and now we're BEST FRIENDS. like we know everything about each other and know each others secrets and crushes and everything. but now. i talked to her on aim and she had to go so she gave me her number and told me 2 call her at 8. [its 6pm now my time] and im like kinda scared because i never really talked to her in person except for saying hi and smiling and waving.. we ARE best best best friends but idk if im gonna call her because idk what to say! she isnt mean to me at all!
help!
what do i say and what is wrong with me?
2007-12-07 11:02:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you just are the typing person not the talking person. Just talk to her like you were typing her some info.
2007-12-07 11:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww sweetie its ok. its always easier to express feelings, emotions, etc. when your not face to face with a person which is why you guys have a close friend ship because you guys dnt really have anything to be afraid about cuz someone cant judge you over the net ya get me. Dnt be nervous. Friend conversations are always the easiest. Just treat your phone conversation as you would a chatting conversation. Nothing changes really just your not typing what your thinking, your actually saying the words.
And to respond to your question what is wrong with you . NOTHING!! there is nothing wrong with you just because your scared/nervous. Just take a deep breath call her and start the convo with a simple hello. it will all fall in place from there.
You guys are friends u just need to be ur self, it will be fine.
good luck kiddo!
2007-12-07 11:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by SaMmY GrL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you are just really nervous. Stop take and breathe for petes sake. Did you stop to think she may be just as nervous.Anyhow, when she answers say hello and Im sure everything else will fall into place but DONT CALL THEN HANG UP because you get nervous. That is just wrong. Remember all the stuff you chatted about that you both had in common.
Good Luck!
2007-12-07 11:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by thecrew74 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's wrong with just talking to her. i'm sure that if you're really as good fo friends as you say you are, that conversation should come naturally to you. if it does seem kinda awkward after a few minutes tell her that your mom, or whoever, said that you have to get off the phone but you can get on AIM if she wants. Hope this helps.
2007-12-07 11:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't need help...you're just nervous...just do what you usually do when you're nervous...take a deep breath, pray(if you're religious/spiritual), look out how beautiful the sky is...You're not talking to her in person, anyway, it's on the phone...Just CALL HER...you'll figure out what to say! Why don't you start off by telling her you're nervous since it's the first time you're talking on the phone together...chances are, maybe she's nervous, too, and you can both laugh about how kooky you are! Just go with it, call her, otherwise she'll think youre dissing her and she'll call you a stuck up ***** and then youll be unpopular and probably have to move to another state...Just kidding, call her...don't trip!
2007-12-07 11:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's cool that you are making friendships online! Try not to be nervous and just call her. You already know her quite well, so I'm sure the conversation will flow fine. If you want to prepare for it in case you feel nervous, think of a topic you've chatted about before and elaborate on it. Like "Hey - did you hear Britney's new song?" or something like that. That will remove any potential awkward moments. If you don't call her, she might get mad at you. Just be prepared if you're nervous.
2007-12-07 11:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are saying that you are a better communicator on line than you are in person. So what.
Start the conversation off by asking about her day or something close to that. Then lead into something you both share a feeling about.
It will be fine, you are just freaked because you think she might not like you in person as she does on line. Remember , no matter how you communicate, it is all YOU
2007-12-07 11:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Reo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk about what you would on IM or Myspace. Start with small talk like "what are you doing this weekend, what plans you have for the holidays, any vacations for next year, and regular girl talk that you girls do. Good Luck
2007-12-07 11:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She thinks you're gonna call and you might hurt her feelings if you don't. Maybe she'll do most of the talking and prompting, and if there's an awkward silence, just laugh and admit you don't know what to say because you two haven't spoken much, only chatted online.
How come you two don't spend any time together in person?
2007-12-07 11:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
jst calm down! its a phone call kk? just dial the number and start out with stuff like : how are you? , its so weird to hear your voice etc.
Eventually you will be talking non-stop like the best friends you were on aim.. =D
& if worst comes to worst tell her you need to get off the phone or you have to go out and continue the conversation on aim until you feel ready!
Hope i helped! good luck xxx
2007-12-07 11:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u shud talk the way u wud as if u were talking on instant msging. start a conversation and then after a while, it will becum more comfortable. start a convo by talking about the things on aim like ur crush . ♥
hope it works out.
i wish my bff wud call me again. for once.
2007-12-07 11:12:26 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sammi.Baby♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋