Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

glances at you, how would you glance back????

2007-12-07 12:16:16 · 7 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 12:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here is the deal. I'm married and I have 3 children. They are not my husbands children. He and I fully agree on how to discipline the kids in our home but my youngest daughters father disagrees he says that it is against the law for my husband to do so. I have looked around and I have not found anything that has said such a thing. Is this true? It is putting a real strain on things in our home because we would never do anything to hurt the children but its to the point where we are more watchful of what we say and do and the result of that is the children run all over us. Is there somewhere that I can get this law if it does exsist? Any advice would help. Thanks

2007-12-07 12:15:01 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm almost certain my Step dad hates me. He Never Cares. about anything! expect if i want to go to the movies or to a friends house or anywhere! he's all over it telling me no!
I'm 16 and I'm pregnant. It's hard right now...with my boyfriend leaving me and all. but how much worse can i get by him letting me over a friends house just so i can get some comfort?
he has jumped past grounding me and almost confined me to the house!
My mom is always away at work(shes the one that makes the money) while i sit around the house and do nothing.
why is my dad acting like this! i want some answers!

2007-12-07 12:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by Mily T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the other night i went to my friend's birthday party.she and everyone else there including this guy go to a different school than me.the guy there said he wouldn't mind making a move on me then later he put his hand on my leg.then he added my myspace and wanted to talk to me on aim. so he IMed me and we were talkign and he was acting really strange and he said tell me about yourself. what makes you you? etc. and i told him im really confused what do you want me to tell u? and later asked me for my photobucket password and login info..and i said no why do you want that? and hes like well you can tell alot about someone by their pictures. i said no. and then i later asked him if he liked me and he said he doesn't know me well enough or something and later he said this 'well i keep my eyes open to girls everywhere.so in truth i like alot of them' so i said 'ok that's cool.' and he said 'if you need to go you can now'... what he said REALLY REALLY OFFENDED ME...i can't remember

2007-12-07 12:12:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not terribly good friends with her, however she is the girlfriend of my busband's best friend. I don't want to make anything awkward, but she makes a mess. Last night she left powder sugar all over the counters, floor, and walls. She even melted plastic on the stove burner. I don't think she realizes what a big mess she makes. (this happens while I am at work and my husband and her boyfriend are working on their cars)

2007-12-07 12:11:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my exbf and i broked up the first time a couple of weeks ago cus i was confused about me loving him or my friend james more. i finally figured out that i love my bf more, it took a while for us too get back but we did. we were back too normal with no problem except he hates james now. well after 3 days he broked up with me for no reason, but he said he wanted to be friends. after that he started to give james and other guys who was flirty or talking to me or touchy a nasty look. my bf wouldn't even talk too me at all really and we weren't that close but i still do love him. after a week, he calls and says he still has feelings for me and he was **** talking about james, i told him that i have a bf already( i lied, cus idk wat too say, plus i was mad at him) and he began too be mean and ignored me. i finally told him i don't want to be his friend and for him too stay the **** away from me? i want him back....
wat should i do or am i screw?

2007-12-07 12:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by lil hottie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

she is 26...when we were dating she told me 26 guys and i thought that was a lot but today she told me the number is more like 60...i am 29 and i have only been with her. we have been together for four years.

2007-12-07 12:08:34 · 38 answers · asked by Marty the One Man Party 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a recovering alcoholic. I lost custody of my 13 year old daughter to her father when she was 3, but have had visitations since. I got sober a year ago and am doing much better, but I am a single mom to a 10 year old also, and don't have very much money. My ex husband does not ask for child support so I don't pay it. My issue is this. My daughter wants a christmas present that cost 150.00 dollars. I can get this for her but then I will be behind. She gets mad if I tell her I might have to get her something less expensive. Every night when we talk on the phone she says "Mom, are you gonna be able to get me what I want or not?" I'm not sure what to do. Should I get it for her and suffer, or get her something less expensive and deal with her anger. Help!!!

2007-12-07 12:07:08 · 42 answers · asked by chay e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-07 12:06:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 12:03:20 · 3 answers · asked by Erika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been 5 months and we have yet to be physical with her and im not talking sex i just mean like touching and stuff like that and i totaly respect her and i know she wont want to so i wont force it but is there a way i can get her into it so that she WANTS to do it

2007-12-07 12:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know if I messed up when I told the woman I am sleeping with currently that I don't want her masterbating.
I said that because our times together are sooo good and I am getting attached to her.
I don't touch myself either, I only want her to do it. Please be honest.

2007-12-07 11:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by tyler 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 11:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Twinkle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone just need to vent about something? im a good listener and i want to eventually become some kind of theapist, something with pyschology. so ill email you back with advice. im also just bored, and i know what its like too have something bubbled up inside and noone to talk to about it. so go right ahead, im listening .......

2007-12-07 11:52:37 · 21 answers · asked by IceM88 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok...i was in my keyboarding class and this girl just walks up and starts typeing on my computer...she puts "hey...wats up" then i put "nothin...u?" then she puts "nothin...so did u have fun last night" i put "huh doing wat?'' she puts "well from all that screaming" i put "wat i wasn't screaming?'' she put "oh yea i was"...i put "wat were u screaming from" she put "i don't know wat was i screaming from" i put "oh yea i showed u a pic of urself'' she put "oh yea that wat ur saying right now''......does this mean.........

2007-12-07 11:51:43 · 12 answers · asked by Cristian 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy i'm having sex with. could it turn into something more?

I've never just had sex with someone. Not my style. But I met him at my former college, we hooked up. have been talking ever since.

I made an excuse to visit again but didnt want to seem like it was all about him-- so i went out with my girls. he called to see what i was up to. ended up leaving his friends to come find me. we hung out, danced, had an awesome time

went back to his place and we hooked up again. it was AMAZING. we stayed up, talked and snuggled til 4 am. its weird i'm so comfortable with him, we have amazing chemistry. my friends say hes a really nice guy.

he said he wished i lived there, that he would love it if we could hang out more. i joked about being just a booty call and he said, "if thats all you were, why would i go out of my way to call so much just to talk and love every second of it."

i can see myself liking him..is this bad news? should i stay unnattached?

2007-12-07 11:49:09 · 29 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

My company Christmas party is scheduled for one night.

Turn's out that my fiance's work is throwing me a surprise bridal shower that same night.

Since it is a surprise, I am not supposed to know. The shower is at 7pm and the Christmas party is at 8pm.

I am technically the guest of honor at the shower, so I don't know if I can bow out of the bridal shower "early" and say "Sorry, got another party to attend"...so do I just tell my work sorry?

Please note, that the general consensus at the office is "If you don't attend the holiday party it is career suicide."

DRAMA!

Fiance' has asked his work to push the date but they already have caterer confirmed.

2007-12-07 11:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by csucdartgirl 7 in Weddings

she calls them fat azz and all kinds of names ...she beats up on their dad in front of them and she has even pulled knives on their dad in front of them ..their dad is starting to be just like her...the court raised his child support and he told my kids he didnt want to see them anymore and that they werent getting any christmas from him because i was an evil bi@#$.....i dont allow my kids to see him very often because of her and his behavior....his wife talks to people that arent there, she tells my kids that her father is in the mafia and is going to come and kill us all,she pulled a knife on their dad in front of them and said her secret service agent cousin told her to kill him...and numerous other incindences...she also claims to be a witch and have special powers.....what can be done to get this woman commited ?she is nuts and i will not allow my kids around her ever again...

2007-12-07 11:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by lisa p 2 in Family

2007-12-07 11:44:39 · 65 answers · asked by shellya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Love can really rip you apart.

2007-12-07 11:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old is too old to spank? My mom and Stepdad say I'm not to big to get one!!!

2007-12-07 11:40:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-07 11:39:47 · 24 answers · asked by jennyrogo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to tell the man I love that I can no longer be friends with him. How do I do this? What do I say? The long and the short of it is that I went out with a guy I had been friends with for a year first, we only went out a few times before I ended it because I was afraid of letting him in on my personal issues. We remained very good friends and to this day, we talk on a daily basis over the net. I was at his place for a party back in October, which is around the time I realized just how in love with him I truly was, but it was too late because he had moved on and is seeing someone he loves. I told him how I felt about him and he said that for now we should just be friends. I tried just being his friend. I tried very hard. It's just too difficult to be his friend right now. I can't talk to him daily, knowing that friends is all we are. Therefore, I have decided that while I would still like to keep in touch from time to time, I don't think it is good for us to be so close.

2007-12-07 11:38:56 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

would u be ok with that?

2007-12-07 11:36:10 · 1 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Singles & Dating

If i ask a girl out, and she says yes, i'll be happy and so on. But if she turns me down, then i'm pretty sure that it'll spread around the school, which I dun want to happen. Because she might tell her best friend, and her best friend will definitely spread that. And after that, my friends will know, etc. And than, i'll probably be too embarresed to talk to her again in class, and her best friend, who i see everyday in 3 classes, and same next semester, will probably look at me in a different way. Basically I think that if I get a yes, i'll be happy. If I get a no, i'll be worse off than i am now, even though people say that if its a no, u r no worse than before. So how do I get over this? And i'm worried of this, because i'm still not sure she likes me, so theres a big chance of her rejecting me still.

2007-12-07 11:32:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and i are having a last minute sleepover tommorow and i was wondering if anybody has any ideas respond by tommorow we r teen girls if this helps!
Thanks a bunch and God Bless!

2007-12-07 11:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by FunCrazyGirl 2 in Friends

like...that u cheated? And are u gonna tell?

2007-12-07 11:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an interchange and I can´t think of anything to give!!!

2007-12-07 11:28:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm going on a date sometime next week

i find it easy to talk to people but there are times when there is an awkward silence b/c i don't know what else to say lol

any tips?

2007-12-07 11:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by sky l 1 in Singles & Dating