i'm going on a date sometime next week
i find it easy to talk to people but there are times when there is an awkward silence b/c i don't know what else to say lol
any tips?
2007-12-07 11:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by sky l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are with the right person, ie. mentally stimulating, it should just flow, man.
2007-12-07 11:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you cry? What was the happiest time in your life? What are your fears, disappointments and downfalls? Have you ever done something infamous? Ask questions that you think "regular" people wouldn't ask. Picture it as an interview rather than a date to ease the tension. Ask questions about art, and views on current events and politics. Keep the ball rolling and just be comfortable and suave about things to keep the communication momentum moving.
2007-12-07 19:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it too much, b/c then you're bound to cause more of those awkward moments than avoid them. What I would suggest is- when those moments to arise, and you know they will, acknowledge it by saying something silly or witty about the silence. Best of luck!
2007-12-07 19:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by sskstru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MAKE SMALL TALK ~~OK ?? Like todays been a really neat day , did you go out & do any thing?
2)eg: this weather reminds me of the week I spen t on the beach in Wai-ki-ki< or Kerala.~ do you like the beach?
3)Eg Im thinking of going to see a few Bolly wood movies , can you recommend any YOU ENJOYED .?
4) Who's your favorite movie star??Mine is ABISHEK!
Good Luck!~ it takes time but its- fun!!
2007-12-07 19:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by sunil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use off-the-wall comments to make the conversation interesting. Ninety percent of the time, when someone finds out you say crazy things, they loosen up and say crazy comments too. When you don't hold back you will have more fun, I promise.
2007-12-07 19:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by IAmLegend83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start saying weird things that has happend to you lately and if your a comedian try to make people laugh.if none of these work ask them questions like are you going to be doing anything this weekend something like that.
2007-12-07 19:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulblackprincess1234589 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think hard before you speak. Don't want to mess up. Just say want comes out of heart.
2007-12-07 19:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by doro125425 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that you don't know what to say, who ever your going out with is bound to think its cute. besides its better to say that then sit there for a while trying to think of something, when all that's going through your head ever few seconds is: omg what do i say.
2007-12-07 19:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in every akward scilence a gay baby is born. lol!
talk about things that intrest u and ask ur date questions giveing them room to talk.
2007-12-07 19:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by The Angry Vegetable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about something interesting that happened to you or talk or assk them about there interests or their school. act normall and a exrta tip play hard to get
2007-12-07 19:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋