There's this guy i'm having sex with. could it turn into something more?
I've never just had sex with someone. Not my style. But I met him at my former college, we hooked up. have been talking ever since.
I made an excuse to visit again but didnt want to seem like it was all about him-- so i went out with my girls. he called to see what i was up to. ended up leaving his friends to come find me. we hung out, danced, had an awesome time
went back to his place and we hooked up again. it was AMAZING. we stayed up, talked and snuggled til 4 am. its weird i'm so comfortable with him, we have amazing chemistry. my friends say hes a really nice guy.
he said he wished i lived there, that he would love it if we could hang out more. i joked about being just a booty call and he said, "if thats all you were, why would i go out of my way to call so much just to talk and love every second of it."
i can see myself liking him..is this bad news? should i stay unnattached?
2007-12-07 11:49:09 · 29 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately--things are sorta backwards here, so it's hard saying what he's really after. If you really like him--then you should hang around to see where it goes..but you should also steel your heart for the possibility that you are just a "booty call". Good luck!
2007-12-07 11:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful, but don't put up to many walls, that has only ever hurt me more in the end! Take it slow, let him know you have more then just lust for me or he will just give up, but don't give to much cause then he might just leave cause there is no more chase (if he is that type of guy) until you know for sure, play safe but play the game put yourself out there and hope for the best. Good Luck!
2007-12-07 11:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Katie W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get together;; that way you can be even closer.
you shouldn't be just a booty call and by not
taking the relationship further, that is what you
are... you should ask him about dating, give him
the hints, and ask him to come stay at your place
for a weekend. if you guys really "click" then
say you like him alottt, and see what happens.
good luck
2007-12-07 11:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, only stay "unattached" if you aren't ready or prepared to have a relationship. I would say give it a try. I mean; if you like him and he likes you, and you say you have this "awesome" chemistry, then yes, give him a try. Life is all about chances we take.... its like rolling dice on a table; it's possible to roll doubles! Good luck.
2007-12-07 11:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the way I see your question -- you seem to WANT to be attached.......GO FOR IT!!! Good luck and best wishes to you. You sound very happy and that is a good thing.
Plus, I know I'm now answering a young teenager question.
2007-12-07 11:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww. he likes you, good for you. I have never been in that kinda relationship, simply becuz i think sex should only be shared with someone you lov ebut good for you. if you can see your self with him, talk to him about it. see if he wants to try a relationship with you!!! btw if you went there to see him and made an excuse, then yea you like him!!! good luck
2007-12-07 11:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥KayRa♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should never start a relationship in long distance mode. Keep him as a friend unless you really want to uproot and give it a try.
2007-12-07 11:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all! it seems that it could be more than just sex. keep talking, and maybe make the first moves of going out with him!
2007-12-07 11:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by *I Want To Hold Your Hand* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a really nice guy... and you seem like you like him i would hook up with him and let your gard down and dont get too attached to quickly but eventually it seems like a nice thing going on.
2007-12-07 11:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a catch!!
u shuld definetely think bout starting a relationship if u feel ready
2007-12-07 12:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋