Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

Im fiffteen been in brazilian jujitsu since I was 4 , brown belt in Judo, my father is a 3rd degree black belt in jujitsu been training with him since i was old enough to walk their is this punck that keeps saying he is going to do multiple sexual thing to her I told him to back off he shuved me into the locker and said what the "F" am i going to do about it He don't know about my martial arts I told him if he threatened her again I was going to give a good ole fashion azz wooppin so now he threatened her again i approached him and he had about five friends around him
the princible step out asked whats going on they all backed off
now schools over for the weekend and i know i should only fight if i have to but this guy needs it
if the guys buddies jump in the only thing i can do and when is knock out wich that can be hard or break bones what should i do or how should i go about the fight

2007-12-07 10:04:44 · 45 answers · asked by BringThe Pain 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so I like this guy right? and he is really sweet and he makes me CD's when I ask him to and sends me all this music and stuff. he does lots of nice stuff like that you know? and like we talk n flirt a lot online and stuff. (I dont have any classes with him, but I know him super welll since ive known him for 9 years)But then at school he'll talk to me (when he gets the chance)when he's by himself or maybe with just a couple friends, but once he's with his whole dude group, he's like all obnoxious and like "omgg. a girll. we're way cooler than you. go die."
and its pissing me OFFF!!
cause i mean he's really nice and i like him a lot. and for a while there I thought he might like me too. but why do dudes always gotta be so obnoxious around their friends??
and does anyone have any advice on how to know if he likes me?? im afraid to tell him since we've known each other so long. dont wanna make things akward. HELLPPP!! thanks!

2007-12-07 10:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend has a boyfriend and so do i ....... my boyfriend told mr that he loved me and has kissed me... i love him too

but... my best friend and her boyfriend have not kissed yet... its been a little over a month and i am comfused with how my friend has been acting... she knew i had a date lats night and i think she tried to delay me from going to my date... she is always shaying how we need to hang out when i am already with my bf.... i only get to see im once or twice a week.....



why is she acting like this... she has a bf.... please help!!

2007-12-07 10:02:17 · 19 answers · asked by Dev<3 3 in Singles & Dating

What goes through their mind?
What posses them to act the way they do?
Why are most of them liars?
Is this a transistion faze?

2007-12-07 10:01:20 · 2 answers · asked by Lundon R 1 in Singles & Dating

but idk i feel weird adding him should i add him, and he knows i liek him my friend told him and he said he might want to date me, and i liek him too

2007-12-07 09:58:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would say this a lack of trust?

two people are married they have their own individual financial business as well as jointly. if the wife is trying to handle her own business and dosen't share it with her husband. is that wrong? is that saying that she does not trust her husband?

2007-12-07 09:58:09 · 19 answers · asked by justme4now 2 in Marriage & Divorce

PS - I dated his friend simultaneously, but he is not (now) in the wedding party, but invited.

PPS - I've never had a problem with this because it is mutual that we dated each other's friends - but with the wedding it is odd and I feel sick about it.

PPPS - I desperately want her to be there and prep me for the big day. Is it a slap in the face to ask her to be my personal attendant but not have her in the dress and standing up for me?

2007-12-07 09:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Victoria 2 in Weddings

i have a boyfriend and i invited him to my house for lunch and then i showed him my room he ternd off the lights and started to make out with me do u think he might make me not a vergian?

2007-12-07 09:55:00 · 18 answers · asked by magee 1 in Singles & Dating

Was it with your spouse? Or with someone else?

And where did it take place?

2007-12-07 09:54:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i broke up today and i am taking my act test tomorrow...i've been practicing for 2 months and i felt pretty prepared...after the breakup i cannot relax i can't stop crying i don't know how to relax before my exam or what to do to stop thinking about him...

2007-12-07 09:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by tragiclove430 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I went out with this girl for like two years, and then we broke up. We still talk and we're really good friends. But lately I have been having feelings for her. I want to get back together but whenever I like talk to her and stuff I just find it weird, cause we've gotten so close. But everytime I look at her... well you know... Any help please..... O ya she has a boyfriend... they've been going out about a month!!!

2007-12-07 09:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Colts_Fan_2010 1 in Singles & Dating

I only put up with her cuz she was my brothers gf. But know that they are not dating any more I hate her. She thinks I like her but I don't. She is such a *****. She is always rude and she acts emo one minute and then is happy the next. She was rude and abusive to my brother while they were going out and would always make fun of him. I am to nice of a person to tell her to go shove it but she is really getting on my nerves. What do I do?

2007-12-07 09:51:20 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

To get married at... or how long do you think you need to be with someone before you pop the question!

2007-12-07 09:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by shortchick33 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am totally unhappy lately, so you think this will age me? I feel like I look like I aged a bunch in 6 months. im only 30

2007-12-07 09:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by holiday♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am healthy, married and a little bit worried about how to spend my time alone in the house while my wife is still working another 10 years.

2007-12-07 09:48:38 · 68 answers · asked by Mr Innocent 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend sent out wedding invites a couple months ago...well most of her guests declined the invite. She is getting married at the end of December in Michigan. Most of her invites were to people living in Texas, New Mexico & Arizona...so they'd have to travel quite a distance not to mention what the road conditions could be like up North. Well she's has been calling and asking "are you sure you can't come" I've told her nicely several times I just can't afford it this time of year, plus I cannot take additional time off from work...since we recieve a week off for Christmas paid...(Dec 21-27, & if you don't work the week after you loose your holiday pay. I can't afford that) Plus I told her that the weather is already pretty yucky up there...what if I get caught in a blizard. If it were closer or at any other time of the year I'd be happy to go. She's been calling lots of us...how do I tell her nicely without hurting her feelings?

2007-12-07 09:47:17 · 19 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1 in Weddings

A friend sent out wedding invites a couple months ago...well most of her guests declined the invite. She is getting married at the end of December in Michigan. Most of her invites were to people living in Texas, New Mexico & Arizona...so they'd have to travel quite a distance not to mention what the road conditions could be like up North. Well she's has been calling and asking "are you sure you can't come" I've told her nicely several times I just can't afford it this time of year, plus I cannot take additional time off from work...since we recieve a week off for Christmas paid...(Dec 21-27, & if you don't work the week after you loose your holiday pay. I can't afford that) Plus I told her that the weather is already pretty yucky up there...what if I get caught in a blizard. If it were closer or at any other time of the year I'd be happy to go. She's been calling lots of us...how do I tell her nicely without hurting her feelings?

2007-12-07 09:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so at school i have a reputation of being a naughty.....im not gona go into details about how i got it(it wasnt sex) i just wana know how to get rid of it?i mean i dont like it cuz the girls at my school think im a whore and so do the guyz...but the guyz like it and are messing with me about it and its annoying and i dont wana be known as "naughty"!

2007-12-07 09:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by meow!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be a really funny guy and I wasnt really shy now I'm really shy and really self confident and dont know what to do because know girls really like personality but it seems to me I have lost a great personality that I used to have

2007-12-07 09:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by Pre 1 in Singles & Dating

(or til my $$ runs out).....any good tips for having a good time?

2007-12-07 09:44:01 · 5 answers · asked by NakdWhtGuy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:43:34 · 20 answers · asked by taylor :) 1 in Friends

Theres this girl I like but I dont know if she likes me. A lot of the time she will look at me and smile so I smile back and sometimes she nuges my foot with her foot and she touches my arm sometimes too but I dont know if she likes me or not help?

2007-12-07 09:42:51 · 4 answers · asked by Pre 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says i need to think of new things to do so wat should i do ???

2007-12-07 09:42:33 · 38 answers · asked by dani_pooh12 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At my school i have a rep for being a whore but i know that i'm not people dont know what a "WHORE" means these days. Yeah i know i'm a flirt but i dont dress sluty and i dont really really have boobs to show them off. I have a lot of guy friends cause i cant get along with girls and now pretty much half of the school thinks i'm such a whore cause some b**** started this whole thing back in grade 8 and now that i'm in high school i want everything to change...:( please help me!!!!

2007-12-07 09:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by anastasiya23 1 in Friends

When the men request it? Or when the women decides she doesnt want to get distracted and finds no one close to who she is dating and would prefer to only date him?

2007-12-07 09:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by DearAbby 5 in Singles & Dating

Why did you do it? -or- How did you feel?

2007-12-07 09:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have my ex on my tail and a new guy they both treat me good, but the ex dumped me to go to the army and then he decided not to go and now he wants me back and the new guy well he just wants me to be happy but i think i'm still in love with the ex please help me!

2007-12-07 09:40:27 · 20 answers · asked by playgirl69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 09:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by i luv T.I. <3 2 in Singles & Dating

If a spouse doesn't want to have sex is it okay to not want to give them access to all your income?

You each would still contribute each of your FAIR share for the bills and expenses, but keep the rest to yourself.

Would this sort of self behaviour on both side make the other person value their spouse any more or less?

So which is more wrong?
With holding Sex or Money?

2007-12-07 09:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well do you do it for needs hmmmm

2007-12-07 09:38:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating