At my school i have a rep for being a whore but i know that i'm not people dont know what a "WHORE" means these days. Yeah i know i'm a flirt but i dont dress sluty and i dont really really have boobs to show them off. I have a lot of guy friends cause i cant get along with girls and now pretty much half of the school thinks i'm such a whore cause some b**** started this whole thing back in grade 8 and now that i'm in high school i want everything to change...:( please help me!!!!
2007-12-07 09:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by anastasiya23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well....Its pretty hard to change a rep but after a while it will go away. In the meantime keep wearing modest clothing and dont act too flirty around guys in public.
2007-12-07 09:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your actions are what will possibly change how others perceive you. Act and be responsible and others will see that you are not a whore. Become known as a bedspread or a lady that will give herself up to or lay down with anyone and this reputation will follow you.
2007-12-07 09:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you act - maybe something that you are doing makes ppl think that you are sleeping with multiple ppl.
If you get called it to your face, ask them to define the word and associate it to something that you have done.
Or just say, well - I know the meaning, and I am not. And it really doesn't not matter what your opinion is, since, if you knew me - you would not say that about me.
Good luck!
2007-12-07 09:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by indiansbearsandangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u flirt too much i mean come on if it wasnt true u would have found a way to stop it in the 8th grade, but nooooo sumthing ure doing is verifying the reputation so basically u want everything to change? u need to change.
2007-12-07 09:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is dress sensibly, don't sleep around (which by the sounds of it, you don't already), and just do your best to go out of your way to be nice to people.
Keep your guy friends, they are great friends to have because they aren't catty like girls. I also get along with guys better.
2007-12-07 09:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by pbJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its all first impression. if you give the impression that your whorey than its gonna stick. what you start with in school is usually what you finish with. to gain new reptuation just explain when someone calls you a whore.. just stand up for yourself and your beliefs.. don't worry too much about it.. everything changes when you graduate.
2007-12-07 09:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha you and that i've got lots in uncomplicated. have confidence me in this one. i'm turning 15 quickly, in approximately 3 months and have had a foul rep in this section for the reason that i moved to the college. dissimilar females did no longer like me, dissimilar the lads theory i improve into wonderful adequate, and each 3 hundred and sixty 5 days my attractiveness as a "stable woman" has been on the boost. i improve into the main have confidence worth, the sweetest, and not in any respect 'slutty' by ability of anyones words till I moved to Southern. I lost my V on a similar time as i improve into in seventh grade. With a boy 3 years older than me. We dated for a on a similar time as and there improve into no sluttiness approximately it. yet thats no longer what ppl see. Their have been rumors that I have been given knocked up. That I had an abortion.. none of that are genuine. That I have been given inebriated at events, those style of unfavourable rumors circulated approximately me and to make concerns worse i improve into being homeschooled the subsequent 3 hundred and sixty 5 days lol.. oh BOY did the rumors get out of control. That i improve into elevating my toddler at residing house.. and that i'll be going returned next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. the only advice I even have for you is to coach them you have replaced. dress a dash nicer than you will possibly have. no longer too lots cleavage, no longer something too tight. Bc this seems fantastic on everybody else till you have a rep haha.. then its some style of intercourse image. no longer too lots makeup and merely be friendly. Be who you're and attempt and carry close out with females for a on a similar time as. locate the ppl which would be your buddy and in the event that they choose to speak in the back of your returned then thats their deal yet no longer yours. now and returned you merely ought to attend it out till ppl comprehend they have been wrong. you ought to be sturdy and wait ti out. I went by an entire 3 hundred and sixty 5 days with nasty notes, stupid prank calls, and boys appearing odd around me. numerous ppl asking me if i improve into pregnant.. You shrug it off. don't get protective bc thats the worst ingredient you may in all probability d. however the only ingredient you're able to do is wait... It gets extra powerful... I swear. It does. i've got been by this in the past.
2016-10-01 02:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will change..without whores high school is meaningless..
2007-12-07 10:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by maii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋