2007-12-07 09:43:34 · 20 answers · asked by taylor :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
crack is wack! stop smokin dat trash! oh so lemme guess, u just a dopefiend now?
2007-12-07 09:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Best Way To Tell Her To Stop Is To Sit Down With Her And Tell Her How You Feel About Her Doing Drugs. She'll Understand How You Feel And Think About It And Realize How Bad Drugs Are. In No Time She'll Want To Stop Because She Will Relize Drugs Are Life-Threatning. The Best Way To Stay Friends Is To Help Her Stop Do Things That Remind Her Of When She Didn't Do Drugs And She'll Be Having So Much Fun She'll Forget About The Drugs And She'll Thank You One Day For Helping Her Stop. Trust Me Just Follow My Advice It Works!
Your Welcome,
HAYLEY S.
2007-12-07 17:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...a difficult one, but not impossible. First, she is blessed to have a friend like you who cares.
As her friend, you need to get her alone to talk to her. I picked a public place with my friend, that way she was less apt to throw a fit at me and walk away (later, after she'd gotten "clean", she told me it was a dirty trick - with a smile on her face).
Before you even mention her using, tell her what her friendship has meant to you. Reminisce over your lives together and her positive effect your life. She needs to know she has meaning, purpose, that someone cares...she's not alone. Let her know you want nothing to end your friendship. From here it's a small (but important) step into how you're concerned her drug use will end her life and subsequently your friendship. How you can't stand seeing her hurting herself, you care too much. Ask her what she wants to do about her drug problem.
At this point it's really up to her.
Make sure you have information for her regarding a few different drug programs in your area. If she is limited monetarily, check with your county or state health services.
She may turn you off or down. Expect it and don't give-up on her if she does. If she rejects you, you'll just need to step-up to intervention with her family and other friends. I'm going to try at attach some intervention information for you.
http://www.intervention.com/
Good Luck, and I will pray for both you and your friend.
2007-12-07 18:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ronda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to stop her. There are some people that just do not think about the consequences of their actions. You may even have to avoid her and take away your friendship if you find it only enables her to continue. Whether or not you should tell someone in authority is strictly your call. I will not pretend that that is easy or a simple choice.
But if you love her you may have to do exactly that. She will really hate you for doing it. But in the long run, you may be saving her life.
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2007-12-07 17:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs are a very powerful addiction and there probably is not anything you can say or do by yourself to get her to stop. You need to get more people involved like her parents and other people that love her, and she needs to have professional help.
2007-12-07 17:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bride2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them if they dont stop u going to have them commited to get help and go on line to show them some pictures of what drugs can do to them
2007-12-07 17:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by eastmeetswest58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how concerned you are about it. If she is old enough to check herself into rehab offer to go with her (i.e. take her there). If she is still with her parents, tell her she needs to talk to them. Offer to be with her when she does (so she feels she has someone on her side in the discussion). If she refuses to talk to her parents talk to them on your own. Hopefully she'll go with you, but if not you need to get her help and this is the best way, even if she may resent you for it in the short term.
2007-12-07 17:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should scare them into stopping tell them u heard a story on the news about some1 ur age who was doing drugs & died from it bcuz it sped up their metabolism 2 quickly(simply they had a heart attack)
2007-12-09 02:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what is called tough love, tell her/him that you.... won't.... not ....can't.... be freinds with a druggie....you can't tell her to stop, this is like a push to keep on ,suggest that she knows what the outcome will be..absolutely nobody ever wins in using, if your Parents are the support line for you tell them , if not tell her parents. ....Just do it...... hers or yours Honey you can't stop her and it's not your fault . Good luck and be smart and brave ...you could be saving her life
2007-12-07 18:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take video of her while high. Post on youtube.
Call 9-1-1.
2007-12-07 17:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Goethe's Ghostwriter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you care & don't want to see them go down the wrong road when you know that they are better than that....
2007-12-07 17:47:05 · answer #11 · answered by luv2bhapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋