she calls them fat azz and all kinds of names ...she beats up on their dad in front of them and she has even pulled knives on their dad in front of them ..their dad is starting to be just like her...the court raised his child support and he told my kids he didnt want to see them anymore and that they werent getting any christmas from him because i was an evil bi@#$.....i dont allow my kids to see him very often because of her and his behavior....his wife talks to people that arent there, she tells my kids that her father is in the mafia and is going to come and kill us all,she pulled a knife on their dad in front of them and said her secret service agent cousin told her to kill him...and numerous other incindences...she also claims to be a witch and have special powers.....what can be done to get this woman commited ?she is nuts and i will not allow my kids around her ever again...
2007-12-07 11:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by lisa p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only way I would allow my children to be with him, is to have the court to order supervised visitation. You could take the children to a neutral place like a park or restaurant for example. You really need to tell the court system how he and his wife are acting when your children are over there, as this will help in their decision to order supervised visitation. He will have to continue paying child support even if this is ordered by the court.
2007-12-07 12:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you waited so long?
Talk to the court... tell the judge all of this that your kids have told you... and get the visitation rights changed to "supervised only" and have it so that they have to meet the kids there at the court house and you don't have to see these weirdos.
Chances are, they won't be bothered with visiting the kids at that point.
If they bug you, use your answering machine to screen the calls and keep the recordings... use that as a way to get a restraining order against them.
Problem solved.
2007-12-07 15:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the way to "fix" this is to first realize that your mom is probably mad because she feels your over reacting to the things that your dad is doing. Or maybe you are right and your mom just can't handle hearing the truth. Or I sense that your young and probably sensitive to the things that your dad does. Since your 16 year old brother hits you, the first person you should talk to this about is your brother, tell him that you do not appreciate when he physically abuses you the way he does. If he continues to hit you then you should then talk to your parents about it maybe they can sort that problem out. Finally if you feel that your dad is "verbally" and "emotionally" abusing everyone, you should tell him how you feel try to help him tone it down so you can be happy. Also talk to everyone in the house about how they feel about your dad, if they all feel that he is hurting everyone's feelings, all of you in the house, your brother, your mom and dad, also yourself should all talk about this to make the home a happier more loving place for everyone. Hope I helped ;)
2016-05-22 02:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, keeping the kids away from her is good. and if your ex is begining to be like that then do the same.does he have visitations or 50% custody? you can go to the courts and revise your visits and if you can get proof of this behavior on video or recording device that will work in your favor. and get a retraining order for both. protect yourself and the kids. let me know if this helps more info needed let me know.
2007-12-07 12:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by snucs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has some mental disorder, I would never allow my children near her.
Call your 1-800-forachild hotline (whatever it is in your area) and report these incidents to the child abuse hotline. Contact an attorney and begin proceedings to have visitation supervised with the father ONLY.
If she has hit one of your children and it can be proven, call the police. Threatening them with bodily harm and death is also an offense in many states. You may want to call the police and get their reaction.
Do whatever you have to; just be sure it is with good intention, truthful and honest.
Good luck to you.
2007-12-07 12:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your ex-husband to court. Your children should not have to deal w/ this. You sound like a worried, responsible, mom who deserves to have her kids treated right. Explain to your kids that it is not their fault and that you help them. Good Luck!
2007-12-07 12:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you have a conversation with your ex husband. There has to be another side to this story. Talk to him about your concerns and base your decisions on the outcome of that conversation.
2007-12-07 15:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Step Monster! Good for you keep your Kids FAR FAR Away from that nut case!
2007-12-07 11:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by FrostyCarey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are 2 sides to every story, but based on yours keep the kids away from her
2007-12-07 12:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Fluffy Cheryl♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that keep them as far away as possible when i was eight my step mother used to call me names and treaten my dad and so on then one night when he was sleeping she stabbed him 11 times he survived thank god.
2007-12-07 12:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by strafbar2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋