There is this guy that I broke up with. I feel really bad about it, and i still like.. love him!!! I want to get back together with him.... he keeps like pushing me away, and he always flirts with my bestfriend. He knows I like him.... what should i do if I want to go out with him?
2007-12-07 11:25:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go to him and tell him how u feel and u hope that things were back the way they were.
but just remember 1 thing Y did u break up w/ him.if it was bad then its not worth it.
2007-12-07 11:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think the obvious question is why did you break up with him in the first place if you love/ like him so much?! I was in a similar dilemma a few years ago but when I looked at the negative aspects of the relationship reality set back in!
Maybe you're feeling a little jealous that your ex is flirting with your best friend and you miss the attention. Find another guy and move on sweetie!
2007-12-07 11:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, think about why you broke up with him on the first place. You may just be feeling kind of jealous cause he's pretending your girlfriend! And that's probably what he wants too! So, after you analyze the situation, and the way you really feel, think about if it's really worth it to go out again with somebody that just broke up with you and is already checking not only some else, but your own friend!! %(
2007-12-07 11:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Oda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Preface to reply: You can do better but that's not your question. :-) But, you could do better. :-)
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Most men aren't complicated creatures, like women are complicated creatures. If you behave as though you could steal Brad Pitt from Angelina Jolie, he'll believe that you could, too. Confidence goes a long way in snagging a man. Also, (in this case), jealousy will probably work. He is flirting with your best friend because (quite frankly) he is insensitive and childish. Besting him at the jealousy game may earn you respect.
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You could do better. :-)
2007-12-07 11:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Ex Factor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing now you had your chance and threw away and now he likes your friend!!! i am sorry about your luck and I know this is hard but like the saying goes you never know what you have till it is gone. and that is the truth. but if you try to talk to him and he pushes you away then there is nothing you can do you have already "burned"him and he does not want to play with the fire again and get "burned" again. but can you blame him? i do not!
2007-12-07 11:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by alexia's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is flirting with your friend to make you jealous
he still likes you but he wants you to crawl back to him cuz you hurt him
but you will be together again just talk to him flirt with him
ask him out on dates
i know that may be hard cuz girls think the guys should do that but like say your sorry for hurting him and you wanna give it another try
2007-12-07 11:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by KIRA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be completely honest with him. It'll make you venerable but if you be really like him and he is a nice guy, he should understand and not be playing these games with you. Ask how he feels and if he does not feel the same, concentrate on bettering yourself and preparing yourself for the next love of your life, don't focus on the negative! I hope it works out for you!
2007-12-07 11:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you're getting hurt by seeing him flirt with your bestfriend. Best of Luck!
2007-12-07 11:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Saddlebum14 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if he just keeps pushing you away..then dont even bother.
you know, if he's not showing that much of interest in you anymore and he's always flirting with your bestfriend then clearly he's over you. you're just gonna get hurt in the end and you know it.
2007-12-07 11:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over him, girl!
If he is stupid enough to stay apart from someone like you, then he doesn't deserve you. Plus, if he has the nerve to flirt with your best friend, then he isn't worth the time.
Good Luck. If this doesn't work for you... just listen to you heart. It'll drive you true.
~Vivvy
2007-12-07 11:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Vivica S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋