Well my bff is going through the hardest part in her life and I don't know what to do, I've prayed and prayed but i have yet to see results. This is painful for her as well me. So I'm open to anything that will help this situation. Please post answears so I can help out a loved one.
2007-12-07 11:20:47 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are doing all you can. Be there for her and for him as well. He will want to know his daughter has steadfast loyal friends at her side during this time.
2007-12-07 11:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sid B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for your friend. I lived that entire ordeal and my Father had a heart transplant. The best advice I can give you is to be a conastant in your frieds life. My friends helped me by being there when I was scared, crying and needed company. They also would go with me to the hospital to visit my Dad when ever he was in the hospital waiting fo a heart. I never felt alone with my friends around. If you have any questions feel free to contact me. This is an extremly difficult time for all involved. God Bless!
~ I would like to add that whoever gave each person a thumbs down is a hurtful person. All these answers are good feedback for this caring friend. SHAME on the troll that is doing this!! And YES I do take it personally. Pray you don't have to go through with the same thing!
2007-12-07 11:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me start by saying that you are obviously a caring person.
Just being there for your friend and offering a shoulder to cry on is so important. There isnt anything else you really can do, perhaps look up support groups for people in similar situations. And just because you pray for something that you want and it does not turn out the way you want doesnt mean god isnt listening... It just means he has other plans, and it may seem to be terrible but that is the way life goes. Just keep praying and being a support for your friend. You will really need each other, so if you need to join a support group then you should too!
2007-12-07 11:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone you love is dying. Someone who has been as lively as you, is now losing their liveliness, or they're about to. It hardly seems possible. More than that, it hurts. It hurts to see them go through what they're going through. It hurts that you cannot protect them, that you cannot change their outcome. It hurts to feel all that you feel. It hurts to realize this is not the only death you'll ever face.
Someone you love is dying and it feels as if a part of you is dying too. It's not easy to think about what all this means. What will life be like without them? What will happen to you in the future? What will become of your relationship? Those are only some of your questions. You're probably also wondering about this period just ahead of you. What will you say to that person? What will you talk about? What should you not talk about? How should you act? What can you do that will best help them? And how can you best help yourself?
2007-12-07 11:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by h.dembie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should do anything you can for her. Try and be there for her a lot and just keep on praying. I hope that you best friend's dad turns out ok.
2007-12-07 11:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by [♥♥♥] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pray to God some more and make sure he gets the heart transplant....spend lots of time with this friend and try to comfort her even though it is hard....i'll pray for your friend as well.
~hope i helped...<3
2007-12-07 11:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her all the support she needs and she will be glad ur there for her. also be a shoulder u don't mind her crying on
try to show her that u can be strong for the both of u so it's ok for her to hurt..... :( please let her no that ill pray for her too
2007-12-07 11:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Baby_Blair<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As much as it may not sound like enough, just be there to support her in this time of need.
Your prayers will be appreciated, but more than that she will need your shoulder and your strength to help her to keep going should the unthinkable occur.
2007-12-07 11:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Tynkah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try an be there for your friend always. this is a very hard time for her. so be there for her, and show her you care
you sound like you're great best friend to her
good luck
2007-12-07 11:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray and be there for them.
2007-12-07 11:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Brian T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋