I have a friend who only knows me when, I have money and she always waits for me to invite her to my home. When I say to her shall we go out she always says" I haven't got any money I am so short." But because I have nobody else to ask and I have'nt been out for ages we go out and my expense. She's all right after that ringing me and being all nice and friendly, then she will start saying she is short and needs to borrow and this is her words 2O pounds or one hundred and fifty pounds, I usually give her 20 pounds and she takes it with a bit of a look. Then never ever mentions handing that money back. But I emailed her once asking for it she came the next day and without giving me the twenty pounds said "did I give you your money back" I say no and then she hands it to me. I have recently stopped inviting her out for meals or even going out, she has become very aloof with me and has changed with her manner. I've known her since childhood. Should I cut her off? She is my only friend.
2007-12-07 09:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personaly, id rather have no friends, or very very few close friends that have many friends who all take advantage of me. shes only going to cause more promblems later. do yourself a favor and cut this one.
2007-12-07 19:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before cutting her off i would say just talk to her, tell her that it bothers you that she seems to use you and you cant keep always giving her money if shes not paying back. If she keeps doing it, keeps acting like she doesnt care that much about you or gets all deffincive than i would say yes, its time to let her go.
But you say shes your only friend...why is that?? im sure there's people out there for you. you need to be able to broaden your horizens, meaning, give yourself more chances to do things and have more firends. dont be afraid to open up a little so poeple can get to know you. Just be friendly and confidnet and you'll find friends fast. dont close youself off from people. Go out there and make some changes, make things how you want them, take some chances, open up. You wont regret it. I mean what could happen?? in any case it has to be better than the way it is now.
take some chances girl! :]
good luck!
*daz*
2007-12-07 17:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A typical scumbag. Get rid of the person.
2007-12-07 19:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u known her so long u should tell her u feel like she using u. which she is. nif she acts a way about it then drop her. u shouldnt be supporting her
2007-12-07 17:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut her *** off! what a moocher..best friend or not.. shes so useing you
2007-12-07 17:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by *Kimi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋